I am a single woman, who is about to get married for the first time. He called and told me that on this Friday after we get married, we are going to take a vacation in Las Vegas. Great, I thought. But following this, he said, yeah, I got us a time-share deal, which was a good deal. I said, I'll talk to you soon, and hung up the phone.
On this memorable weekend, we are going to the timeshare meeting in Las Vegas.
I'm horrified to find out what more would come out in the future. Will I have to live in fear of everyone finding out what kind of a person that I have married?
2007-06-13 08:05:18 · 21 answers · asked by falltowinter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A MAN WHO LOOKS FOR THE BEST DEALS is nothing to be ashamed of. Shoot if he's under the age of 30 and white i'll take him.
Dont freak out its like YOU said its your first marriage.
There will always be the option of getting out.
2007-06-13 08:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he actually get a timeshare deal where you have to attend the meeting or did he book a week that someone had for sale? I own a timeshare and usually sell or give my week away...maybe that is all he did...if so they are usually very nice units and the resorts are almost always 4-5 stars. Ive exchanged my week and stayed at the Polo Towers in Vegas...very nice.
The question you need to ask yourself is do you love him and all his quirky ways.
2007-06-13 15:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by linda m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him why did he not inform you and that you don't appreciate it. Tell him that this is no way to start a marriage and that he has to change a few things, like making decisions without you. That is not a marriage, it is a dictatorship. Tell him you are not interested in going to a timeshare meeting on your honeymoon. If he gets mad, you may want to reconsider the entire marriage thing, because it will only get worse.
2007-06-13 15:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by SINGLEMOM4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The two of you don't seem to communicate well together or he wouldn't have just scheduled something like that without talking it over with you first. Before you marry this man, you will have to know much more about him. I would cancel the wedding and the weekend until you know him better.
2007-06-13 15:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAGS!
1) You don't know what you want.
2) He's cheap. You are going to have to listen to a time share speal, he's getting the trip for free.
3) Who cares what everybody else thinks. You're the person who is going to have to live with knowing that you married him.
2007-06-13 17:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big flipping deal he got a time share what's the crime besides him being a bit tacky I don't see what the issue is.
Furthermore who cares what the next person thinks the only thing that should matter is whether or not you love him
2007-06-13 15:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's going to keep pulling the C H E A P routine on you for your life. If it crosses your mind then just get out. You are still safe. It will be less painful than the whole divorce thing Trust me. Good luck to you.
2007-06-13 15:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by indie 007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what other people find out? The question is can YOU live with the kind of person you've married?
You got lucky and you got a hint of what's to come. Use this insight or suffer the consequences.
2007-06-13 15:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you're asking about cancelling it I say cancel it. It would be a good idea for him to have consulted you. No woman would want to sit through this during your honeymoon.
The mature thing to do would be to tell him you don't really want to sit through this during your honeymoon. On the other hand it sounds like he has money to burn so are you sure you're so willing to throw everything away over this issue?
2007-06-13 15:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by blkmiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is this? Why would you ask if you should marry someone or not, on Yahoo questions?! I don't even understand your question. If you are having any doubts at all, especially ones where you are worried about "everyone finding out what kind of person you married" (whatever that means) you shouldn't marry them.
2007-06-13 15:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋