I Hate the fact that he watches porn , I mean he has me . He was in the marine core for about 5 years , He was a loner so he watched alot of porn , but i say to him now you got the real thing why would u need porn.
I recorded a wonderfull porno of us i would rather him watch that then watch other females getting fu.ked And he still watches porn ?
what should i do?
2007-06-13 08:06:26 · 30 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very jealous , Im pregnant not thin any more and all the girls that are getting railed in the pornos are skinny and hot.
I told him after i have this baby i will be a porn star and he can watch me. Out there . haha
2007-06-13 08:13:29 · update #1
And i say i will watch it with him and he tells me it feels weird!!!
2007-06-13 08:23:16 · update #2
for guys i the military porn is just another daily function its not that big of a deal. now you made one you guys cool but that is something that is intimate, porn is not, its about getting it done and not giving too craps about the girls he watches. there not real people per say, there not fantasy either, no guy wants a porno star for a girl friend but he will sure as shoot watch. dont worry , i say because i watch porn i was in the army and im married and have a daughter , remember its not about how good looking this porn star is or all the cool sxually things she does its about how much of a tramp she is
2007-06-13 08:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2016-07-26 05:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we both still watch porn. There is absolutely nothing wrong with watching porn, unless it's an addiction. If he can't get aroused without watching porn or would rather watch porn then be with you then there is something wrong. But other than that watching porn is just something he likes to do. Maybe he's looking for pointers to give you more pleasure in bed. You shouldn't worry. Just because he watches porn doesn't mean he isn't attracted to you. Most guys will watch porn for the rest of their lives. I know my hubby and I probably will. Why don't you join him when he watches porn. Have you tried?
2007-06-13 08:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Steven's Love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Addiction, thats what he has. Its all in the mind, but he is thinking of them while having sex alone or with you. Porn is not tasteful at all, its not the way God made us to enjoy each other, animals f u c k.. they mate... and watching porn is about the same crap. He sounds controlling too. I would get out now before you end up wasting another 5 years of your life. There are men out in this world who DO NOT view porn. They may look at a Victoria's Secret and tell you that a certain outfit would look good on you... and thats alot better than any hard core porn.
2007-06-13 08:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about it. This is like asking why a guy still masturbates if he's dating you. Personally, I will watch porn & even go to strip clubs while dating a girl, & I don't try to hide it. He isn't cheating, he's just watching pornos. Trust me, leave this alone, or you may end up pushing him away. Save the nagging for something that's actually important.
2007-06-13 08:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Almost everything that feels good is addictive. People have addictions to alcohol, drugs, food, sex, and even porn. Maybe you guy is one of them. Or, maybe he just has a really big sexual appetite. If it really bothers you, figure out why: is it jealousy that he's watching another woman? Do you feel like it replaced the intimacy in your relationship? Figure that out, and then tell him exactly why it's a problem. See where it goes from there.
2007-06-13 08:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen an excellent style of modern Hollywood video clips? they are all a sort of sublimated porn. in case you propose do I watch porn produced by the so-talked approximately as porn industry, no. yet no longer out of morality or distinctive function-in basic terms using fact the production values are no good.
2016-10-17 03:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell him how you feel, then he'll probably explain to you why he still watches porn. I don't think he's tired of you, porn is just very addicting, especially to a guy. I mean, men think about sex like every 5 minutes. He probably thinks about you when he watches it.
2007-06-13 08:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Billie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well although I dont consider watching porn really cheating, you just may. Tell him how you feel, and that you understand that he may have a liking to this lifestyle where he was in the military. But that this hurts you, and you want it to stop. That you feel you aren't what he needs, you feel he is resorting to actors to get his pleasure. When he should be getting it form you. I am sure he will listen and understand your view. If he doesn't, well he doesn't care enuff for you to change. Youw ould be better off with out him! Trust me. Hope I helped:)
2007-06-13 08:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband watches too, because we only see each other on the weekends coz of my job. I have learned to accept that it's just a fantasy. As long as he doesn't do anything to make it a reality, I think it's fine. Just accept him for what he is, try to be more understanding of his behavior, I'm sure you will both be happy.
2007-06-13 08:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by July Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋