Ok, so this girl and I have gone on a couple of great dates. There is definitely a vibe there and I personally am feeling pretty good about having something special with her.
Still, we are taking it slow and just letting things happen as they happen. We talk at least every couple of days and things just seem to be going really well.
She is leaving for a three-week vacation with her family. I definitely do not want to bother her, or contact her too much while she is trying to enjoy herself, one, for the obvious reasons like respecting her space and letting her enjoy her trip, but two because we are still in the early stages of whatever this might be, and I don't want to come on too strong...etc.
So, what is the right amount of time between calls? Every few days? If I call her, wait for her to make the next call? What do you guys/gals think is the proper amount of time for a situation like this?
2007-06-13 08:12:01 · 7 answers · asked by John H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you tried asking her?
2007-06-13 08:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. I think that you should call at least every other three days. This is because she is with her fam. It will be a great turnoff to her fam if you are calling every 5 minutes. Call her once a day unless instructed to do other wise. Try and call her on a schedule. Ask her what time she can be alone and has time to talk. Make sure you ask her about her trip!
2007-06-13 08:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Forever the Sickest Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her every two-three days. Or you could just send her a nice text to let her know that you miss her/a re thinking about her/ hope that she has a good time, etc.
I understand what you mean...it's tough trying to figure out the perfect balance between staying in touch and smothering. You totally don't want to do the latter!
Good luck.
2007-06-13 08:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going to be out of city greater desirable than 2 days, touch her on the third day with a telephone call or the 2nd day with digital mail (even regardless of the undeniable fact that do no longer anticipate her getting an digital mail till she gets returned) If it extremely is an prolonged distance sort of relationship, do no longer desire for lots in case you're no longer already in a longtime relationship. i might say digital mail her while she gets returned from her trip and then in basic terms reply to her emails while she sends them the two that day or the subsequent.
2016-10-09 03:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her once then tell her 2 call u back wen she gets a chance. then u can call her a few days after she calls you. try switching it up send her a text next time just too say wats up. def dont over contact wen shes on vacation, but let her know that u care.
2007-06-13 08:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by LOV 4 EVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say call every other day. Thsi way, she will know you are letting her spend quality time with family, but also that you are not forgetting her.
2007-06-13 08:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say call her every few days like about 3 days ....and if she calls back ,again some days later, call her back ...don't worry too much ...when you call her see how she response if she gets happy then keep going on and if you feel like you disturbed her then call her less ....good luck
2007-06-13 08:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋