The boy i like doesn't have im and i don't want to call him. I am just too nervous. Please tell me if this is a bad thing and if you think that im just a scardy-pants
2007-06-13 08:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend doesn't mind doing it
2007-06-13 08:22:22 · update #1
I am just scared of rejection and showing my embarrassment infront of his face if he says no
2007-06-13 08:24:31 · update #2
shut up people giving bad comments
2007-06-13 08:39:58 · update #3
I think it isnt good. They may not believe your friend and think it isnt true or you dont like him that much. if you personally cant say it to his face.. try writing a note, msg, or email them.. and if you can speak it you can say it on the phone.. no you arent a scardy-pants it just takes time.. i am nervous to.. everyone is.. some people just dont let it get to them. its perfectly natural
Good Luck
2007-06-13 08:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lizzze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big mistake...you run the risk of having them hook up instead of you. Don't put them (or yourself) in that position. Attraction is an exercise in risk-management. You have to be willing to dare to go after what you want.
2007-06-13 15:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's being a little scared. If you can't ask this guy out, how are you going to have a relationship with him?
2007-06-13 15:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to ask somebody out yourself. You are probably young though, so it is typical to have a friend do it.
2007-06-13 15:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all, I get nervous too sometimes, because it might be your first time, shy is common, don't worry about it.
2007-06-13 15:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you've GOT to get past that. It's not fair to your friend. Just push past the nervousness - yes, you can do it! - and ask him. The more you push past it, the easier it will get.
2007-06-13 15:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty much the worst thing you can do.
There are so many ways that can backfire on you it is not funny.
2007-06-13 15:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it yourself because the guy might fall for your friend instead of you
2007-06-13 15:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Keimoy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad and kinda lame grow up and show some courage
2007-06-13 15:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by lovepixiek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your scared, its normal tho... just call or ask him in person... you just have to take chances in life.... take a chance on this....you wont know how he feels if you just sit by.
2007-06-13 15:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋