ok so....i broke up with this guy, and its been.....3 years, and i wanna be friends, and he completely ignores me. im pretty sure he doesnt even know that i exist. he talks to my sister and brother, in front of me, and im pretty good friends with his friends, so wats his problem? how do i become friends with him????
2007-06-13 08:05:07 · 15 answers · asked by (lo.RUH) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you broke up with him and he still has feelings for you. so rather then talk to you and be your friend, he ignores you because he is scared to fall in love with you again and ge hurt. bd
2007-06-13 08:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're ex's for a reason good?So do not difficulty if he avoids you.do not you've another pals to spotlight?Plus try to be specializing on your college paintings.pay interest,that's common at your age to wish to be pals with an ex.i will by no ability realize it.i'm married now,yet even as i replaced into unmarried,I by no ability tried to proceed to be pals with an ex.It basically made it extra durable to make a clean pal with a guy.Do your self a want.in case you 2 commence speaking again then inspite of,yet until eventually then,difficulty about your guidance,your reliable pals and basically being a sweet teenage lady.the different stuff will fall into position in that's own time.I want you nicely and God bless.
2016-11-23 18:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing his pride and feelings are still sore from the breakup. Guys are like that and need only the smallest things to get them off of a person. If he's still not talking to you then i say u should leave him alone and don't bother anymore. Spend your time on a more successful venture.
2007-06-13 08:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the reason you broke up with him... once an ex always an ex... you don't alway get to have your cake and eat it too... Move on, I bet once you start parading some other guy around he might get a rise...
2007-06-13 08:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is a little butt hurt about the breakup and just hasn't gotten the balls to really be your friend just yet. I think it takes time and he may be acting a little immature, but you have to allow him all the time he needs to get over you. You must be amazing if it takes over 3 years to get over you though!
2007-06-13 08:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Social Misfit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls want to be friends with ex-boyfriends? When we are done with relationships, we're done. Period. We never wanted you for a friend, we wanted a romantic relationship. Generally, guys don't strike up friendships with girls. Unless they want it to lead to something more.
You were done with him and dumped him. That was your right, but don't whine about not being able to be his friend. He doesn't now or ever want that. He has enough friends.
2007-06-13 08:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Scott M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is getting back at you. just ignore him back. Basically he sees that you are like kind of begging for his freindship, so when he finds you vulnerable like that, he will walk all over you. You broke up with him and he is your ex now. if he wants to be a d*** head, just ignore him back.
2007-06-13 08:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by HoustonJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant, he has already decided to ignore you. You are an ex for a reason. Accept he is not willing to talk to you and move on.
2007-06-13 08:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by osanchris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you broke up with him, why shouldn't he ignore you. I'd ignore you too. In fact forget I answered this question. I am ignoring you
2007-06-13 08:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still likes you or he wouldn't ignore you. If he didn't have unresolved issues with you then he wouldn't have problems talking to you.
2007-06-13 08:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋