I like a guy and we are really good friends and i kinda am liking him as more well thats the problem we already hang out and act like a couple we dont kiss or nothing but we flirt alot but we are really close you know as friends idk what to do.
2007-06-13 14:34:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life is too short to wonder...if you want something-GO FOR IT!
2007-06-13 14:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I was hanging with this guy and we were super close and always together. Then we added sex. All went fine, until one night at a party I was just talking with some other guys about cars and "my guy" freaked out and went into a jealous rage.
Several years later we are happily married, we own a house, have a daughter and a dog. LOL He is much more calm and not often crazy jealous. Hehehe!
If it feels right, go with it. Sometimes you have to give things a shot to see where they go or five years from now you might be wondering how things would have worked out if...
2007-06-13 21:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by ~Brenda~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...are you saying that you have no 'benefits' with this guy right now? are you saying that you want 'benefits' with him and don't know how to go about obtaining them?
if there is flirting going on, i am sure that he has considered the idea of taking it a step further...but, if it is a two way decision, wouldn't you want to call it 'boyfriend and girlfriend' rather than just 'friends with benefits'? i mean, don't ALL good relationships start with being friends first, anyway?
i say, next time the flirting is being passed around between you, why don't you move in for a kiss and just see if he doesn't kiss back!
2007-06-13 21:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be best of friends and be romantically involve, but u have to understand dat things can and will change between ur best friend relationship and being a couple. Dats wen both relationships get sour, and things are never the same again. Just discuss it between da two of u, and wait the pros on cons and see if u guys are still willing to go through with it, be rational with ur decision making, think with ur brains not so much with how u feel, u can save all dat wen u decide to be romantically involve... good-luck
2007-06-13 21:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by KaliBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your casually having sex thats wrong. I think that to many young people find that its okay to just sleep around with out it meaning anything, when we all know it eventually means something to at least one of the parties. You are a special young lady dont dishonor yourself if this is the situation. If you really like this guy, maybe he feels the same way, one way to find out is to tell him how you feel, and that you want more out of the realtionship. if he turns into a real jerk, well is that the kind of person you want to be friends w/ benefits with anyway???
2007-06-13 21:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your interpretation of friends with benefits is mis-lead, with benefits means your having sexual relations but your not actually in a relationship...from what you have described you know this guy...you hang out and you would like to be more than his friend...so take it to the next level...let him know how you feel.
2007-06-13 21:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion this is not a friends with benefit situation. you two have a crush on each other, but not enough to go for a full blown relationship. i think you two should just remain friends and not do anything more. if it was meant to happen it would have already. its not worth losing a freindship over so just remain friends. sometimes its just better that way!
2007-06-13 21:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a short trip and give yourself some room to think about what is happening. Before you get close be sure you have a ring on your finger if you are old enough. Otherwise keep that gap between you and him open.
2007-06-13 21:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Questionable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go down the "friend with benefits" road if you ever want a serious relationship with him. Men never grow feelings for girls they are just casually sleeping with. In fact, they seem to feel less for them as time goes by.
If you want something more with him, just stay friends for now. Wait for him to make the move in your direction. Be strong and don't cave in.
2007-06-13 21:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by SunnyMoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out and if he says no then move on and just be friends with him.If u sleep with him or even kiss him it might make it akward and ruin the friendship.Its a big decision,so think about it for awhile.
2007-06-13 21:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends like that are so few and in between. If you was to add love it wold most likley get rocky. Mpve slow with him.If it's ment to be then love will happen.Why mess up your friendship? I'm not saying don't go out with him I'm just saying move slow.
2007-06-13 21:42:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋