My girlfriend got in a hit and run car accident today. A man hit her car then drove off with a Stolen car. What she thought would cost her $500.00 is now is costing her over $3,000 dollars worth of damage and insurance will not pay for it because the car that hit her was a stolen car.
Well, Anyways my girlfriend and I had I guess you could say "Plans" for tomorrow night. It was the only day the two of us weren't working and she was not in class. I told her Tuesday we could not go to the movies and I thought she would understand it meant we could not hang out. The guys wanted to hang out with me and we were going to shoot some pool.
Well she flipped out. FLIPPED OUT like never before flipped out. She told me how she was looking forward to tomorrow night and how she was sick and tired of caring when I didn't and all this crap that to be honest I didn't feel like listening to!
I kept trying to talk to her and all she could say was please just leave me alone I'm very upset. (continue)
2007-06-13 14:29:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I kept trying to talk to her because I wanted to know WHY she was so upset. I don't understand why she was so upset at ME! I did nothing wrong!
Well, she kept telling me please leave me alone I don't want an argument and I kept asking her why she was mad.
Finally she picked up the phone called me and screamed "that's it where done." And slammed down the phone.
I told her good I won't call her tonight then.
She said she didn't care
why is she acting like this!!!
2007-06-13 14:29:52 · update #1
Because she is having a bad time and needed you. You blew her off for your friends. That hurts
2007-06-13 14:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Leigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to ask this same question? Perhaps if you spent more time talking to your girlfriend and less time on the computer you would have a better understanding of her personality. And appreciate the fact that her car repairs are excessive and a reason to be upset. However, your story does not make sense. If it was a hit and run ( how do you know the car is stolen) If she has insurance, it does not matter if it was a stolen car, a car with a driver who is not insured, etc. So maybe you should do some research and get your facts together... God bless****
2007-06-13 21:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women really look to the men in their lives for support when things are rough, and it seems that you have disappointed her. She is going through a hard time right now, and you blew her off when it is apparently very hard to make time for the two of you. I don't know the whole situation, but was this the only time that you could play pool with the guys, or did you just blow her off because you thought that this would be more fun?
Bottom line: she is acting this way because you don't seem to be making her a priority, and it especially hurts when she is going through a lot of difficult circumstances and needs you to be there for her.
2007-06-13 21:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by lulu muffin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, she just got her car smashed, the insurance company dosent care, and you want to hang out with your friends, and play pool. she could use a little comfort right now. then to top it off, she told you to leave her alone, she was upset, and didnt want to get into an argument, but you insisted, till there was an argument. and you also say you really didnt feel like listening to it. i think any wonam would be up set with all that happening. give her a couple of days to calm down. and im not trying to sound rude either. just truthful.
2007-06-13 21:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by della 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this is not the first time you have done this. Go out with your friends instead of hang out with her. So, it never bothered her before, why now?
Well, obviously it bothered her before, she just never said anything. I am guessing that with everything that happened she really needed you to be with her, not your friends. I am also guessing that because she never made a big deal about you hanging out with your friends, and because this thing with the hit and run is going to be so expensive, she thought you would be there for her. She is probably not looking for solutions, sex, or anything real tangible that you could easily understand. She just wants your moral support and physical presence. Listen to her while she vents. Hold her if she cries. Take her out for ice cream (that is what I eat when there is no real solution). Simply put -- just spend time with her.
Call her. Apologize to her for not "getting it." Ask her if she wants you to bring her some ice cream (I like Ben& Jerry's Coffee Heath Bar Crunch) or something she likes. A flower from the grocery store maybe. I like carnations, they smell like spring. Some girls like the smell of roses better.
Do you get it now?
2007-06-13 21:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by Opr13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok...Im a girl so i know exactly how she feels. First of all, I am glad she is ok from the accident. Anywaiz, the reason she is upset is because, you are her boyfriend. she wants to feel more loved and comforted. So you say you dont at all get to spend time with her as much, NOW is the time to do so. Yes, your friends are your friends, but your girlfriend needs you. she woudl like things to work out so she needs you to be around her when you can. She needs to feel like she is important. You have to let the guys hang out with each other, and you ahve to take the boyfriend responsibility and take the time to be with your girlfriend...I mean, YES she has every right to feel upset...All she wants is to spend time with you...make it happen!!!
2007-06-13 21:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by ...oh... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made a commitment to her , you had plans with her then you just threw her to the side and put the guys first ,just like she didn't mean anything at all. The two of you had plans you made the plans together. It's like we'll go out but is the guys ask me to go running around I'm going with them like she means nothing to you. You put the guys top priority. Understand??????
2007-06-13 21:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by sissy b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You win the coveted DUH HUH award there feller! She TOLD you she had LOOKED FORWARD to seeing YOU after all the carr accident crap that has happened and all I'm sure this would have made her day and things wouldn't have seemed so bad. You on the other hand instead of wanting to be with your girlfriend wanted to hang out with a bunch of guys in a nasty pool room? For shame!
2007-06-13 21:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) what does the accident have to do with anything
was it after or before this ?
and if it was before the fight maybe she thought that since she was like hit with a car that maybe you where worryed about her and rather be with her
2) never fight with a woamen when shes angry youll never when
thats just the way women are
2007-06-13 21:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless_romantic33z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space... If she comes back to you....Just let her know that you still love her and always will...just make shure she doesn't feel like you guys can't be at the level of intimacy that you were at before she broke up with you. Good luck!!
AJ
2007-06-13 21:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus freak! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋