Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

Does anyone know where they are hiring .. on the spot? well not technically on the spot but atleast hiring ?
in chicago or around the NW suburbs or South .. It really doesnt matter where ...

2007-06-13 13:26:02 · 4 answers · asked by just me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im married recently, i know i love my husband he makes me laugh and he really knows how to make me feel special but.. he has a serious injury hes taking serious pain meds he cant work adn im paying all the bills. im only 25 and im begining to wonder why i got married. i met this guy and hes soo nice to me and i know everyone will think he just is using me but i told him my situation and he said whatever happens he will be there for me. we sleot together and i feel horrible about it. i don t know what i should do should i tell my husband? should i try and make this marriage work. i know al ot of you will say i made a commitment i should stick wiht but life is too short right but i dont know if this other guy is worth it, what should i do?

2007-06-13 13:20:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26. and a lot of people tell me that my brain is like i am 35.
Any way, i dating with the guy now, he is 52. I am in love with hem. wee have a lot of common in our habits and the way we look at life.I don't feel that he older at all. He feel the same way.
But he is twice my age.You think i should continue dating with hem, or it is no future in this relation sheep??

2007-06-13 13:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by inna a 2 in Singles & Dating

well my so called "best friend" loves me and i love her but she has a boyfriend so what the **** do i do i need help >< im freakin confused please help me guys. i love her so much T.T

2007-06-13 13:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I`m wondering if it would be a turn off for a woman to meet a man having a child under his care , or a possible attraction for a woman that is considering dating? I have a very nice happy daughter who was abandoned by my exwife to my care since she was 5 weeks old. She is almost 6 now , and I have not been dating for a long time since when I`m not working I`m busy trying to be a good father for her. I`m not soliciting anyone , it`s just a hypothetical question.

2007-06-13 13:14:55 · 9 answers · asked by Heads up! 5 in Singles & Dating

he cheated, he is in jail getting out soon, he was violent , he lied, he had a horrible addiction. he swears losing me and his freedom has changed him. he swears he will not go back to using bgecause he sees how much it affected everyone around him. i have stood by his side for a long while. i am scared i may go through this all over again.

2007-06-13 13:11:02 · 17 answers · asked by DAWNNAMARIA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm new in town and I've been out of the dating game for two years. I really need some kind of outing! But is it safe to go? He seems like a nice guy but I only know him over the computer! What should I do?

2007-06-13 13:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, i am getting marrried on July 7th as some of you know...my fiancee has had some erectile disfunction because of diabetes and high blood pressure... the doctor saw him today and gave him a free sample of Viagra... i work in the medical field, (GYN/OB Nurse)... but i really dont know about Viagra. Anyone had good or bad personal experiences? This is serious, so please let me know... thanks!

2007-06-13 13:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by bronzebabekentucky 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep myself very busy still he is my joy, love, comfort?

2007-06-13 13:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I know that the question sounded kinda rude and I don't mean any disrespect to women but doesn't it seem as though a womans life revolves more around men then a man's revolves around women. If you think about it the main thing that guys are into: sports. What the hell does that have to do with women. What do women like: shopping. When they shop they try to buy stuff to try to make themeselves look good or become more appealing to guys. Girls are into the mushy love stuff and talk about guys all the time. Guys when they are alone just chill and don't really talk about girls that much. Believe me I mean no disrespect to women at all but doesn't it seem that your lives revolve around us too much? I mean all the time that you spend putting on makeup and getting dressed is to look good for us. Guys just put on clothes without really caring that much. Lol sorry if I'm rude I'd just like to hear your answers.

2007-06-13 13:08:48 · 48 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 13:08:23 · 3 answers · asked by charlie b 2 in Friends

for them to creep out without notice. I know living in the past is wrong. I know the person can only do so much to make it better. Even if i think the person changed, i truely can't let go of the issues from the past..Although its not cheating or physical,i can't let go

2007-06-13 13:05:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating him. And in the middle of our relationship he dumped me.

2007-06-13 13:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

committing their first crime?

In the Stranger Beside Me, Ann Rule said that the current thinking is that a 2 to 2 and 1/2 year old child forms his conscience for life, but that Ted Bundy was too terrified (of his grandfather) to have the calm needed in order to develop a conscience and develop empathy for others.
It seems that once that window of opportunity for forming a social conscience closes after age 2 1/2, those kids who failed to form a conscience could become sociopathic or at least never have normal empathy for others. This is especially true if they continue to be abused for years, although Ted Bundy apparently wasn't abused after the age of 4.
So what is society to do with these people? There is no cure, apparently. The die has been cast, the conscience doesn't form, and these people are uncaring and many times dangerous.
What do we do to protect ourselves as a society from these adults? And what do we do to stop the child abuse of very young kids?

2007-06-13 12:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you do, what do you like to do shirtless? why do you like doing it shirtless? any other comments? im 23, a guy

2007-06-13 12:56:14 · 1 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is going out with this girl that i liked since the bigging of 6th grade (thats the grade im finishing up this year) and he knew it. he went out with this other girl and just broke up with her then 1 day later i said "so hoo u going to go out with now?" he said "i dont know probably no1"

Then we went to a baseball game later that night and one of his other friends said "u should ask out this girl." he said ok and that was the girl hoo i liked and he knew bout that.

later he asked her out and she said "ok." (and the girl and i r very good friends but i was waiting for the perfect time to ask her out) and now the hae been going out with each other for a couple of months. when theys break up should i ask her out, but then i would have to ask for my friends permission and he would probably do it. wat should i do wait for them to break up and ask her out, or just stay really good friends with them??? please put an answer i need help BAD!!!!!!!!!!!! im shy to any tips?

2007-06-13 12:53:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i got married to my husband this march. i really think i should have waited i wanted to but then he kep t sayin ghow much he loved me and would chnage a lot of things after we were married and i was stupid enough to believe him. anyways he has had a back injury for 3 years now that has gotten progressivly worse. he cant work, he hasnt gotten his car fixed in a year and drives mine, i pay all the bills and its so hard. plus we never have sex, like once a month. so i met this guy at work, he is so nice to me and treats me like a princess. i know he doesnt just want me for sex bc i wanted to sleep with him befor ehe said anything. iknow it was so wrong but i was juts so depressed and he made me feel so muhc better and i wanted to forget everyhting now i think he is really falling for me he bought me a bracelet when he was on vaction and we work toether and hes always making plans ewiht me to go to the movies and stuff. i do love my husband but i dont know if i can live like th

2007-06-13 12:53:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for something affordable and somewhat informal. Plan to get married on Sept. 2.

2007-06-13 12:53:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have my daughter every fri from 2 till sat at 3. my parents have to take her home for sat 3 which is an hour drive, when my daughter gets home at 3 she goes straight to her grandparents till sun at 6, why will the courts not let me have her till 6 on sun? anyone know a good sol in N.I, i am in court every three weeks over this and no progress since nov 06

2007-06-13 12:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She wanted to voice her concern about my mental state.Depression,grief etc. I felt like i was talking to Dr. Laura. Why would she do this.I know she doesn't give a dam anymore me anymore.She really doesn't.She told me she can never come back o me.I already knew that when she filed for divorce.She says she cares about me but its time to move on.Im trying ! but when ever she calls me it jerks me right back to all my feelings for her.She says this is the last time we will ever talk and then a week later she calls and it starts all over.She has my phone number,i don't want to change it.I don't have her number because she changed it and doesn't want me to call her.She calls from her work.And she has screened the calls when i had in the past.Its like a one way street with her.Why does she jek me around like this,its not fair.I guess i just stop answering my phone all together /

2007-06-13 12:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would want to know this in the marriages of today.

2007-06-13 12:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by marilynsue08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing this girl for 2-3 months. It was hard to begin with, being long distance , but we were fairly close.

a few weeks ago I called her, and she turned from one of the nicest, sweetest and seemingly most innocent girls I've never known to a cold hearted stranger in the 3 days i last called.

Turns out she already started seeing someone else without telling me...and traded one long-distance thing for the next.

if that wasn't enough, she kept on saying things in a way that I'd never thought she'd be capable of saying. It was like she wanted to hurt me or just didn't care at all.
Lateron I tried a couple times to talk to her again as a normal person. She remained cold, and tried to avoid me after a few lines everytime.

I feel confused...and angry. What is up with her? She roped me into this in the first place. Only reason that I went out with her at first was cuz i felt bad cuz she seemed so into me. I was always caring , but Now she's turning her back on me forever? wtf!?

2007-06-13 12:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by etudiant87 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl u no, i like her but she got a boyfriend (some gay *** mexican guy) hey but im mexican too so i can have a chance.....so we are friends and all, but when we have free time at school we dont talk...it doesnt seem akward but we seem to mind our own businesses, i put effort in talking to her but she never takes her time to bring up a subject with me...i feelings are its shallow and dull, and boring...but leme ask u dis...should i back down, try o get her attention to win her over hopefully, or do somehting else u suggest?
if u choose win her overe what can i do?

2007-06-13 12:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by mexicanimm11 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 12:41:35 · 14 answers · asked by loverofmickeymouse 2 in Singles & Dating

pretty much i hate life im 18 still a virgin never dated anyone never kissed a girl and i live in miami any advice as to how i can fix this

2007-06-13 12:39:42 · 14 answers · asked by ddd c 1 in Singles & Dating

a romantic nigth with my hubby our anniversary is coming up in a month and i would like to prepare something romanticfor the 2 of us .. I want to give him a special surprise by making up a fantasy but i have no idea what kid of fantasy ... Share any ideas that you have done or would like to be done .....We really need a braek to release our streess. I will have our 3 kids spend 2 day at grandma's house we will be spending those 2 days at a hotel in the beach ... so I need ideas on romantic & a fantasy ... THANKS IN ADVANCE !!!

2007-06-13 12:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and her name is Rachel. She's a 5'5" brunette with beautiful natural green eyes.

The problem is, everytime she opens up her mouth; I run for cover. Her breath is so racid that often times after she's through speaking, she leaves me feeling dizzy.

Honestly folks, I don't know what to do. I've never had this type of problem before. Her dental hygine is absolutely deplorabe! Should I confront her about it?

I really would like to ask her out on a date. Perhaps I should slide her a mint or two during a casual dinner? Her teeth are so yellow a mossy that I would find it hard to enjoy my meal. Err.

I need help. Thanx.

2007-06-13 12:39:08 · 16 answers · asked by blackflame003 1 in Singles & Dating

are all guys losers, players, cheaters, beaters, have no ambitions, and just don't care about women in general?

2007-06-13 12:37:58 · 5 answers · asked by Angelheart♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I was listening to a resent interview with dating gurus program that stated:

"most women are sexually fustrated."

Is this actually true?

If this is true, what in your opinion has led this phenomina, and how much controll or influence do women or men have in addressing this issue?

Also, on a scale of 1 to 10 how important is it to raise the awareness in both men amd women to address possible solutions?

2007-06-13 12:36:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have already started divorce proceedings but my husband wants us to try agin .can i stop the divorce even though its already started

2007-06-13 12:35:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce