What is up with her? This is so weird?

Question

I was seeing this girl for 2-3 months. It was hard to begin with, being long distance , but we were fairly close.

a few weeks ago I called her, and she turned from one of the nicest, sweetest and seemingly most innocent girls I've never known to a cold hearted stranger in the 3 days i last called.

Turns out she already started seeing someone else without telling me...and traded one long-distance thing for the next.

if that wasn't enough, she kept on saying things in a way that I'd never thought she'd be capable of saying. It was like she wanted to hurt me or just didn't care at all.
Lateron I tried a couple times to talk to her again as a normal person. She remained cold, and tried to avoid me after a few lines everytime.

I feel confused...and angry. What is up with her? She roped me into this in the first place. Only reason that I went out with her at first was cuz i felt bad cuz she seemed so into me. I was always caring , but Now she's turning her back on me forever? wtf!?

Answer 1

I'm sorry that has happened to you, but you're not the first victim to experience a woman going from hot to cold in the span of a heartbeat. They change their minds....sometimes for reasons that make sense, sometimes for no reasons at all. Asking yourself why only compounds the misery. Just try to move on...I'm currently following my own advice, so good luck to us both.

Answer 2

Hey Buddy.
Women have no sense of reason. She could have easily explained that she met someone knew and felt better making a clean break with you. Instead she chose to go the totaly wack job route and try to get you to stop calling her by treating you like you were the biggest jerk. So even though she's an ******* you dont have to be. Just stop talking to her that's clearly what she wants. There is someone better out there for you who doesnt treat you like an a-hole.. Find her. This other girl doesnt deserve somsone who still cares about her feelings. Move on.

Answer 3

Sounds like you were used a bit, now she is into mind games. Don't even bother to try and figure this out, it really is not worth the effort on your part. Just move on and do not look back.

Living Well is Truly the Best Revenge.

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Answer 4

she's trying to push you away. long distance is tough, because you aren't there to see everything that could be involved in her decision to push you away. when she's being rude to you, she's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel the same way about you anymore, and make it easy for you so you don't get your hopes up. you need to walk away. i know it will drive you crazy not knowing what happened, but any attempt to get answers out of her will look like you are trying to get back together with her.

Answer 5

i dont know but i think that you should not have gone out with her if you didn't like her! plus i guess he was using you ! she is a SCUMBAG!i guess its time to move on

Answer 6

Tampon season?