My friend is going out with this girl that i liked since the bigging of 6th grade (thats the grade im finishing up this year) and he knew it. he went out with this other girl and just broke up with her then 1 day later i said "so hoo u going to go out with now?" he said "i dont know probably no1"
Then we went to a baseball game later that night and one of his other friends said "u should ask out this girl." he said ok and that was the girl hoo i liked and he knew bout that.
later he asked her out and she said "ok." (and the girl and i r very good friends but i was waiting for the perfect time to ask her out) and now the hae been going out with each other for a couple of months. when theys break up should i ask her out, but then i would have to ask for my friends permission and he would probably do it. wat should i do wait for them to break up and ask her out, or just stay really good friends with them??? please put an answer i need help BAD!!!!!!!!!!!! im shy to any tips?
2007-06-13 12:53:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should steal her away from him. If you want to find a good woman you better make a move cause honey, all the good ones are always taken. They're going to break up anyway, right? Just give him a cd or a video game and her will forget all about her and forgive you.
2007-06-13 13:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matters of the heart is difficult. It is a shame that your friend knowingly knew that you liked this girl and asked her out anyways- makes me wonder what kind of friend he is- but considering your ages- those thoughts and concerns may come with maturity. If she has been with your friend for a couple of months- it is probably not a good time to tell her how you feel unless you feel as though she is not that serious about your friend. More than likely they probably will break up at some time- I would probably not ask her out right away because you may end up being the rebound guy, but maybe give subtle hints and see what her responses are- she may feel the same way about you, but your friend asked her out first. Good Luck.
2007-06-13 20:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do is to wait until they break up and the make a move, but do not make a move right a way giver her at least a two months before making a move but continue to be good friend with her thoughout the 2 months. Don't worry about what your friend thinks because if he was a good friend he would not have made a move on the girl you like especially if he was already aware. good luck
2007-06-13 20:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, then agree to have a fight to the death. It should be held around midnight in a circular ring with torches to light the night. There should also be a crowd of people who are frantically betting on the fight. If possible the ring should have sand so you can kick some of it up to distract him.
When you get the upper hand, as you are about to strike with the death blow, you must let him live much to the dismay of the crowd. This will show the girl you are tough, but sensitive.
That's more or less how I got my girlfriend.
2007-06-13 19:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Specs919 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ask her out. Treat her as a friend but organize things with a her and a group of friends. That will give you time with her (don't give her too much attention) and make your move if it feels right. Your friend can't complain if he is invited. Also you can see if these two are really over each other. REMEMBER, you are the catch. The girl will give out signals, don't bother if she doesn't. Be fun, be you.
2007-06-13 20:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had opportunity to ask her out, you didn't pull the trigger.
He's your best friend. Don't make waves. He's your best friend after all. If he breaks up with her, then ask her out later on.
I heard a joke once. A guy was telling some people that he found his wife in bed with his best friend. They asked him what he did. He said "I shot her." When they asked why he shot her, he said "Because he was my best friend."
Girls come and go, but best friends are important.
2007-06-13 19:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOUR SO CALLED FRIEND WENT FOR HER KNOWING U LIKED HER TOO AND DID NOT ASK U FOR PERMISSION TO DATE HER THEN U SHOULD NOT ASK HIM EITHER. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. JUST REMEMBER THAT LINE. IF THIS GIRL U LIKE ALSO LIKES U THEN U SHOULD GO FOR IT AND ASK HER OUT. STOP WAITING FOR THE RIGHT TIME. THERE WILL NEVER BE A RIGHT TIME, BUT THE PRESENT. U HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE, BUT THE TRUTH. GOOD LUCK.
2007-06-13 20:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by CONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
II'm just finishing up 7th grade and I think, this is from a girls point of veiw, you should talk to her. Tell her your HONEST feelings and if your friend does brake uup with her, ask his permission before asking her out. If your friend is your true friend he'll say it's okay.
2007-06-13 19:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by luvbrit3351 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first of all, you have a horrible friend. for doing that to you.
now you should talk to your friend even if him and the girl are still going out. its not right for him to do that too you.
in a girls point of view, if she likes you, then you should ask her out when they break up. if she doesnt like you and you know it for a fact, then remain friends with her and wait a while. but you shuold really talk to your friend about how crappy he is to you.
2007-06-13 19:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait until you are actually old enough to date? You will have lots of new girls in your life. Just enjoy being young and having fun. Girls are a lot of problems.
2007-06-13 19:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋