well my so called "best friend" loves me and i love her but she has a boyfriend so what the **** do i do i need help >< im freakin confused please help me guys. i love her so much T.T
2007-06-13 13:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think you can trust her? She has a boyfriend yet she's getting with you. She might just decide to love another guy while she's with you, do you want to go through that?
She has no clue what she wants or how to be trustworthy and faithful.
2007-06-13 13:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boyfriend or not, ask her if she loves you romantically or just as a friend. If she says she loves you romantically, ask her to leave the other guy. If she refuses, you will have to tell her it hurts too much in terms of wanting a relationship with her. Tell her you'll be there if she leaves the other guy, and that you wish her well. Don't get mad. However,k you will have to avoid her for a while. The thing is we have the capacity to Love many people in our lifetimes. ..Often, another comes around right away.
2007-06-13 20:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your best friend, you need to let her make her own decisions and support her 100%. There's nothing you can do, nor should to make any attempts. It would be bad for her, you, and the relationship between you both. Your feelings do not justify interfering in someone else's relationship. How do you think her boyfriend would feel? Don't be /that/ guy.
Respect her feelings and judgment -- and don't allow your judgment to be affected by your feelings. What feels natural is not always right. She'll need you as her best friend as some point. Don't ruin it. Things may work out for you.
2007-06-13 20:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by hbomb8404 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has a BF but loves you? Has she told you that? Does she know you love her? Forgive me with answering a question with questions, but these are things that need to be stettled. If you truly love her and she knows it and vice versa, it should be easy for her to leave whomever she's with and go with you. That's the logic in it...But love and emotion defies logic so all I can say is give it your best shot. You will regret doing nothing far longer than trying to do something.
2007-06-13 20:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by irvscott67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First no one is good with love it's something we all struggle with. OK If she is with someone there is nothing you can do. If she really "loves you" then she'll get rid of him but she may not want to hurt his feelings or look like a slut. Be patient she can't stay with him forever if she loves you.
2007-06-13 20:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Insanity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't do anything, she still has a boyfriend. If she loves you, then she should break up with her boyfriend, and confess her love for you.
2007-06-13 20:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you know she loves you though? if she told you so maybe she meant she loves u alot as a friend...? otherwise if she realy really loves you, and you know it, ask her why she has a bf?
2007-06-13 20:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by ART M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just is ready for a relationship with you.Maybe it will happen sooner or later
2007-06-13 20:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by dani P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. tell her how u feel. if she loves u, she wont wanna keep hurting u. thats ur best option. good luck!
2007-06-13 20:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by _--_Brujita_Maldita_--_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep on hanging out with her a lot and then she'll soon break up with her boyfriend that she has now and she will go out with you. that is how it would it.
2007-06-13 20:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by kate y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋