Do guys own girls?

Question

Ok I know that the question sounded kinda rude and I don't mean any disrespect to women but doesn't it seem as though a womans life revolves more around men then a man's revolves around women. If you think about it the main thing that guys are into: sports. What the hell does that have to do with women. What do women like: shopping. When they shop they try to buy stuff to try to make themeselves look good or become more appealing to guys. Girls are into the mushy love stuff and talk about guys all the time. Guys when they are alone just chill and don't really talk about girls that much. Believe me I mean no disrespect to women at all but doesn't it seem that your lives revolve around us too much? I mean all the time that you spend putting on makeup and getting dressed is to look good for us. Guys just put on clothes without really caring that much. Lol sorry if I'm rude I'd just like to hear your answers.

Answer 1

Wow. You said a mouth full. I have to agree with most of what you have written here. Except to say Guys don't own Girls. Some Females, act like they want their guys too. I find your question, most appealing and I am sure you will get a variety of opinions, on the subject. But, as a Woman myself, I see a lot truth to what you are saying. I have to agree with most of it. I have given you a Star. I like how you spelled the truth out and nothing but the truth. When it comes to what a woman will do for a guy, vs what not a man do or does not do with it comes to women.

Have a good evening.

Answer 2

I take it you're a child to be even asking this question.
I know that when "girls" are all emotional and can be really insecure, and that insecurity comes out looking like some of the things you've mentioned: some grown women are like that too. Women can be really competitive with each other, too, which can explain some of the behavior.
I know that my life has NEVER revolved around a guy, in any aspect, form, or interpretation. If I was CO DEPENDENT on a guy, I'd have been dead a long time ago, because I don't feel the necessity to have someone in my life unless I want them there. So what if women do things to make themselves more appealing to the opposite sex? If they DIDN'T you'd be in here bitching about women not taking care of themselves. I also see a LOT of guys on here "whining", crying, freaking out when they lose their female partner or think they will, so it's not JUST women whose lives "revolve" around a guy, it goes both ways. Stop generalizing and thinking so much about yourself.
So, no...you don't have any ownership papers for any women, so you don't OWN anyone...grow up.

Answer 3

You're never gonna find a decent girl if you keep running that stereotypical stuff in your head.

Actually, men are a lot more psychologically dependant of women than the other way around. Though women are usually more dependant of men financially. Women generally have a larger social circle than men, making the emotional dependance dimmer. Men usually have the better salary and when couples decide to have kids, it's traditionally the woman who has to sacrifice their career to stay home.

You say sports have nothing to do with girls? I disagree. It's male competition at it's best. The rush of adrenaline, the show of strength, deciding who's better than who... Those are pretty much the same thing as males of other species fighting appart from the females during mating season to rank each other and decide who will win the right to reproduce with the females.

Women like shopping? Yes. To please men? Yes. Do men do the same? He\\ yes! They buy aftershave and not-so-subtle underwear. The spend thousands on gym and cars. They go to the barber shop. They talk about new ways to please the ladies in bed in the locker room. They buy us flowers and bring us to the restaurant... Single men spend a lot more money on finding a mate than the other way around... You should read a few numbers I've seen (sorry, I don't have the adress)

We don't talk about mushy stuff and guys all the time. Men just like the idea that we can't do anything but think about them when they're not around... While, in truth, we have a lot better things to do... Oh, and like men don't talk about sex and who's the biggest b*tch? They do, but they also talk about everyday stuff, just like girls do. Try not to generalize too much.

I think you have a lot to learn about man/woman relationships, or maybe it'll come as you get a bit older... Or maybe you should stop meeting with whatever superficial females you're surrounded with...

Answer 4

In a mature relationship, each person loves and respects the other, doing things to please his or her mate. A man will give up a football game occasionally to take his wife shopping. A woman will go to a softball game and cheer on her husband. A good man will work all day in a job he hates to support his wife and family, and a good woman will greet him at the door with a loving embrace, guide him to the couch and rub his feet when he comes home. People who love each other do things for each other. They express an interest in their mates' activities, even if it's not something they enjoy. They support each other.

Right now while you're still learning about girls, try not to be too easily swayed by appearances. Just the fact that you're asking the question means you DO think about girls and what impresses them.

Girls like guys who are respectful and polite; who are willing to listen and discuss "girly" things, but also have interests of their own ("guy" things like sports); who understand that a good relationship takes two people who love and support each other.

Answer 5

None taken. But i understand what you mean, and from your perspective of the situation; yes men do own women, but your looking at the basic things. Women aren't always about make-up, shopping, nice clothing, making ourselves appealing to men, etc. Yes we do those things, but we also are very independent, most women don't need men. I believe most women are more passionate with their professions than they are with their partner. I don't think you're being disrespectful in any way because it's a thought of yours and any women taking this to offense just may be that woman your talking about. But i think women don't revolve their life around men, it's just something that men and women are supposed to be accustomed to after all these years. I think women and men own each other depending on the type of person in the relationship.

Answer 6

Perhaps your paragraph describes you, but women and men have changed since 1950. Women are in to sports too. Men like shopping too. A lot of men spend more time in the bathroom primping for a woman than we do for men. Most women spend time in the bathroom getting ready so they feel good about themselves. Do girls talk about guys all the time? I didn't know that - we're too busy talking about our lives, our careers, our families, our futures. Mushy stuff? My husband wrote the most romantic and "mushy" poem for me for Valentine's Day. I'll let him know that he's not supposed to be "mushy" if he plans on being a "real" man.

Answer 7

In a world where a man wants true love. Yes your world should revolve around each other. That makes it all worthwhile when you know that you are the object of your loves desire and that is all that matters. but of course there are the other important things inlife like making this world and that is a little bit better than the way you found it. Sound good? A man sould want to go and pick out an outfit that he would like to see her wear and she should like you to look a certain way also. so spend sometime together talking about what each of you know to be what you both havve in common. If nothing then find someone who does have mostly everything in common. especially how they look!!!!!!

Answer 8

Actually sports has a lot to do with competing for the ladies. If your good at sports you get more fame and more money which gets you more woman, and of course its fun to. The reason men want to be successful is to get hotter woman. If there were no woman i would not mind living in a tent. But there are woman so I have to make myself desireable by working out and having a job

Answer 9

sigh--so many stereotypes, so many assumptions, so little thought. the main thing in all guys lives is NOT sports. the women i know shop as much for themselves and OTHER women as for men. the women i know do not just sit around talking "mushy" stuff and about guys--where are you finding these losers. go to college--who is attending the lectiures on anthropology, art, literature, culture, religion, social inequities, architecture? look for a higher caliber woman dude.

Answer 10

Girls try to look good more for other girls. And i don't mean in a lesbian way. Girls are more judgmental than guys and are gonna talk about you if you don't look your best. Plus it's always nice to look cute because it gives you more confidence in whatever you're doing at the moment (whether there are guys there or not) Honestly, when i hang out with my guy friends, i could care less what i look like. I don't wear make-up and it doesn't bug me if i can't shower for a day or two. If I'm hanging with my girls then i need to shower, I need my make-up and I can't stand to be the one who looks like she just rolled out of bed. Weird I know, but it's how girls are.