Im the 2nd child in the family.But my parents treat me very different on how they treat my other sisters,brother.They love them more than they love me.Im always in the last list in everything sometimes nothing left for me.Sometimes I just seek attention and love from other people.I wanted to be loved by a parent.
2007-06-13 14:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Cristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i know you already know what everyone else will say on this page "your parents do love you, blah" but to be honest, i know my mom loves me less becasue she has told my family this, just in casual converstaions. its sad really but its mean. she hates me because i am really better than she is. i have a decent family that makes enough money, i am smart, and mostly i remind her of my father , her ex husband. i have come to accept it but she still is mean to me somtimes, as a grow woman, for example, i live far away and when i was visiting for my birthday she went with me to walmart and bought me one shirt for my bday. and the same day she (right in fornt of me) handed my brother 150$ just becasue he asked for it. and the called me later that day and told me to F off because i shouldnt expect her to buy me anything. then a few days later infront of my entire family, she shouted with that big mouth, "your short hair makes you look fat". hon, i only weigh 125 lbs. you do the math. as for your mom treating you this way, hold your head high becuase it will be a hellofa hurricane for you. it wont stop and there is nothing you can do about your mother, just make yourself stronger and remember taht you have done nothing wrong. its normal for a child to seek a parents aproval but when the parnet is jealous of the child or the child reminds them of a worse time, its hard for the parent to accept the child. i am a sister of 4 sibblings, i know the ins and outs of my mother more than she does herself. i hope for the best of you and know that you are who you want to be, and dont let anyone , not even your mom, tell you that you arent worthy of love!
2007-06-13 14:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 11:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where youre coming from. Im the middle kid too. Just accept the fact your parents love you , maybe not the way you'd like BUT They do love you. You will probably grow closer to them as you get older.
2007-06-13 14:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatley dont seek attention. Dont try getting it by hanging out with the wrong crowd. Doing drugs. or dropping grades that will make them love u less to. Just TELL THE STRAIGHT TO THERE FACE that u dont feel loved.
Trust i started hanging out with the wrong crowd and stuff and my parents got really pissed at me and that didnt make things better.
HOPE I HELPED =)
2007-06-13 14:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it really so, or is it what you notice more?
Growing up with siblins, we all feel that way sometimes. I felt that way too, but my brother claims the same darn thing!
2007-06-13 14:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see i only have one parent with me, who is my dad and he doesn't give a fu*ck if anything happens to me or any of my siblings. I know how you feel. I dont do anything about it. I just wait until i leave for university
2007-06-13 14:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by brittney n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get better results to your question if you give more details. Do you have any idea why this is occurring?
Can you give some examples?
2007-06-13 14:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Terra Nova R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u sound like me... im so sorry.... im sure ur parents love u... maybe u need to tell them how u feel.... im the youngest.. and I always feel left out until they need me... you gotta love and respect yourself.... no matter how u think they feel..... and know God loves you.... : )
2007-06-13 14:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't anyone tell you? They never love the middle child as much as the other children.
2007-06-13 14:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie W 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
its sad, but its a fact that goes along with being the one of the middle kids..
MARSHA MARSHA MARSHA!!!
2007-06-13 14:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by chumpchange 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋