Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

the man i love says my body is perfect. but i know it can be better when we met 3 years ago i had a flat rock stomache, in time and life struggles ive gained 10-15 pounds and he still thinks im sexy, but i want to look like the models i ketch him staring at on tv ect. not like skinny perfect, but tan and sexy, to make him notice me more, why is it that men do truely think your body is sexy, becuse its "you" but admire a body that lookes nothing like yours, but they say it does, bull crap!!! i wish!! right!! lol if he were to check out someone in my build my body figure, id be happy, well not happy but content! whats wrong with men other then the fact no matter who they are there gonna look, but is he being honest when he says he loves my body and its sexy or is he saying that to not hurt my feelings, i mean were very close, hed flat out tell me if i were getting fat!! okay ill stop!! lol

2007-05-25 19:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A Lot of girls on here say shyness is cute but would u really date a shy guy over an outgoing guy. please be honest

2007-05-25 19:09:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This might sound like a stupid question, but I don't know what to think. Here's the situation in a nutshell: I was in a very serious relationship with my son's father and broke it off, knowing that I was not happy with him and was "settling" for what I thought was all I could get. I finally opened my eyes and realized I need to be happy again so I can feel good about myself and be a better mom. I am going out with a guy from work tomorrow night, a date I guess, and my son's uncle (his dad's brother) keeps telling me it isn't going to work out with him and he's going to disappoint me. Me and my son's uncle are truely best friends, can talk about anything. I understand he just wants to see me happy, but he insists this guy is going to hurt me (emotionally). He just "has a feeling". It's not because he wants to date me, and he's happy that I broke up with my ex, I just can't understand why he is saying this. Details...

2007-05-25 19:07:20 · 5 answers · asked by Just Me 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok so it's the first week in uni and we're on the bus.This girl sits next to me who i have to admit i thought was really hot the moment i saw her which was bout a few days back.We start talkin , get to know each other and it was a pretty long ride of bout and hour and a half.The more we talked the more we made each other smile.And since we were sitting next to each other our faces were real close and she was giving me this dreamy,ALMOST sensual smile,like u know her head resting on the seat cushion.Then just b4 we reach uni she tells me that i smile like a certain actor and turns around and smiles and says that was a compliment.Was this flirting or just normal beggining of the term making new friends chit chat?Shud i make a move on this girl?Or im just so confused

P.S. if I shud make a move any tips on how

2007-05-25 19:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Rida 3 in Singles & Dating

ok... i have ben with my girl for 6 years now. About a month ago her father and mother decided to sit me down and tell me that the felt i wasnt good enough for their daughter....(they never had a problem at all with me before this...).

They proceded to tell me they didnt think i was going to amount to anything and im a bad person.

im a 21 year old in college and plan to become a doctor if it all works out...

any way my girl is trying to force me to be a "big part of her family" and i dont want anything to do with them after all this.
Should i just give up and be around her family all the time? (it totally goes against my personality.

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ps... i have talked to her and explained my feelings to her several time, yet the problem still persists.

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2007-05-25 18:51:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i ****** up my relationship with my girlfriend. weve been going out for 5 months and things have been going well but in the last few days everything has gone to hell she even suggested that i leave for a few days but i dont have anywhere to go. she thinks that ive been a total dick and i have but she doesnt want to talk about it no matter how many times i try. i feel like im doing all the talking. i feel like its a onesided relationship. i know i ****** up but i need her support to change my way of life ive already changed so much already, more then she knows. she dont understand thats its not that easy. and latley shes been talking to this guy who we both know is madly in love with her and its makeing me uncomfortable she says its just to talk about the problems with me but i dont know

2007-05-25 18:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 18:50:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just made out with my girlfriend and was with her for about 2 hours. Probably for about an hour or more we were making out which lead to an erection for nearly the whole time. Now my testicle hurts really bad if i touch or move it. Is this ok? or is there something wrong?

2007-05-25 18:48:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a "mature chick" and have never been outstandingly pretty. A bit fuller-figured and not a "glossy girl". What I'm wondering is, from the male viewpoint, why do men (of all ages) still come on to me/ask me out? I'm friendly but not suggestive. Doesn't my age make men - especially younger guys - less interested? I'm not complaining! Just curious how men REALLY feel about older women.

2007-05-25 18:47:59 · 24 answers · asked by alterego 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard this somewhere "when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted" Is that true? theres this guy I like and he likes me, but we can't get into a relationship at the moment..but at the beginning he'd always contact me, but now we ALWAYS talk... do you think if i play a lil hard to get for a few days (it is abnormal for us not to talk on a daily basis) it will make him more interested in me? What do you think?

2007-05-25 18:45:44 · 28 answers · asked by Lena 1 in Singles & Dating

someone please chat with i lost a friend in a car accident last night so someone please chat with me

2007-05-25 18:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by george_wink2005 1 in Friends

When I like a guy, I often find myself googling anything I can about them instead of asking them myself. I have been seeing this guy for 5 months and although I feel close to him I still like checking what he writes in different discussion forums. He does not know I do this. Should I stop, am I a stalker, should I tell him? I am not sure why I do it. I guess it makes me feel close to him when he isn't there.

2007-05-25 18:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife has been complaining that the neighbours are very loud. They are a rock band you see and they play their music at one of the band member's mansions next to my house.

Frankly, I like the music and I don't mind them playing at all. How can I convince my wife that their is nothing to complain about?

Should I pretend that I have approached the neighbours?

2007-05-25 18:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have always been fairly heavy throughout my life, and at the moment I am 5'9'' and I have held steady at 200 lbs. [finally an end to the yo-yo-ing of my weight?]

However, it is extremely embarassing to step on a scale. Friends, coworkers, and classmates all believe I weigh FAR LESS than I actually do -> Almost always about 30-50 less than my actual weight.

Are there certain characteristics that you think may be the reason that people *think* I look skinner than I am?

[Curious]

2007-05-25 18:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.

2007-05-25 18:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.

2007-05-25 18:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.

2007-05-25 18:34:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and his brother got into a fight and his little brother said somethings that hurt my boyfriend really badly. REALLY badly and I don't know what to do. This is not one of those brotherly fight things its about there dad who is dieing of cancer. And there fighting!!! There will proboubly die soon. My boyfriend locked himself in the bathroom (I tried to get him to come out) he is sobbing so loud I can hear him, I dont know were his brother is he ran out of the house. (we dont live in the best neighborhood) I dont know what to do plz help! Im close to breaking down the bathroom door my bf is misrably sobbing but wont open the door.

2007-05-25 18:32:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-25 18:31:55 · 8 answers · asked by KiaClaire 3 in Singles & Dating

It absolutely drives me i nsane. I'd rather hear "youre a crazy ***** and i'm leaving you because i hate you" than that.

2007-05-25 18:29:48 · 25 answers · asked by GCTA 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that a lot of guys dont like talking on the phone cause this guy that i have a major crush on and he knows and were good friends will not give me his phone number and he keeps making up excuses because of an incident where a girl would not stop calling him 3 years ago he even switched schools since then! So I dont know what's the problem? He shows all the signs that he likes me yet he wont give me his phone number!

2007-05-25 18:28:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone worth living with ( marriage).

2007-05-25 18:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by bevirtuousok 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Really is ther anyone who got their heartbrooken but has forgiven the person and the relationship is going good now? Evn wen the person cheated on you they really wanted to and just did it for sex but now they are sorry! has anyone with this experience or similar did this! I need answers please!

2007-05-25 18:23:43 · 18 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 18:18:16 · 28 answers · asked by sweet_leaf 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that he would be hurt if I didn't ask him to walk me down the isle. My goal is not to hurt his feelings. I just don't think he should because he is or never really was involved in my life. Yeah, maybe I am still holding a grudge or two ot three. But should he give me away to my husband to be if he gave me away when he decided not to be a part of my life?

2007-05-25 18:15:27 · 13 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Weddings

I went to my husband's office and found him having a nap on the sofa. There were a man and a woman working on the computer. My husband was sleeping in the same room where the woman was. Then he woke up and walked directly to that girl without wearing his glasses(he's near-sighted), close enough to be thought as a couple, the girl shouted: "watch out, wear your glasses." After the warning my husband stopped hugging her and went back to put on his glasses and then he found I was already in the office. He asked" why you were here earlier than usual? " seemed not to welcome my visit. Do they have a relationship? Did they have sex in the office? Is it normal for colleagues to be this intimate?

2007-05-25 18:14:51 · 16 answers · asked by mimosa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

plz plz you have got to help me get away from this guy, I don' t want to be with him plus he is a drug dealer
I was very nice to him today but I don't want to go out with him anymore

2007-05-25 18:12:50 · 18 answers · asked by KT 3 in Singles & Dating

It just seems a little bizarre to me that with so many people on the planet, we are expected to follow through with what seems to be a cultural trend. I mean, I've fallen in love before and have seen myself spending a very long time committed to this person, but for the rest of my life? Honestly, shouldn't we try to fall in love with as many people as possible(even if it's in a non-sexual way)? It's funny because my parents have been married for 25 years and they are happy, but monogamy seems so unreal to me at the moment. What if it's not made for everyone? In my opinion, the only valid reason to explain why people should be monogamous is because I know 99.999% of people believe that being "unfaithful" is wrong, making it a form of disrespect. Like many people, i'd be upset if my partner were to cheat only because I know that most likely he wouldn't do it to try to "love everyone." But what if this idea became the cultural trend? Then what? What do you guys think about monogamy?

2007-05-25 18:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by scarlett 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I personally dont think it will melt by just leaving it out..i live in ny, our apartment only gets up to about 85 degrees and none of the other candles melt..But she think this wedding candle will/

2007-05-25 18:10:00 · 11 answers · asked by mrneighbordude 2 in Weddings

Would you date a hot looking white guy who has bad personality.
Or would you date an average looking chinese guy with great personality.

2007-05-25 18:08:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating