Family & Relationships - 25 May 2007

I mean I still love her, though it was a horrible break up with me being in Iraq and her sleeping with another man. But lately she has been spending a lot of time with this new man and has told me that she missed me. My passion, my love. I really don't know what to do. I don't know if things would even change.

2007-05-25 20:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by Bartleby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 20:53:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to believe that money is the root of all evils.. But in the recent years.. I discovered that only with NO money truly is the root of all evils..I read news relates to murdering, blackmailing, violences, cheating, committing suicides and depression mostly are relating to financial problems...

Even in my own experience, my cousin is starting to fall into trance of depression due to shortage of money to pay for her house loan and now desperately in need of cash. she does not mind to take up another job as part-time basis but most pple turn her down due to her age..

In this world, am I right to say that it is the money in search of money?? Rich people gets richer and richer, but of course with hard work and good luck.. But poor pple just gets poorer no matter how much hard work they put in, few years or even 10 or 20 years down the road, they are still struggling to work for money in order to secure 3 meals on the table??

What will do if you are poor?

2007-05-25 20:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by Precious 8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-25 20:44:21 · 10 answers · asked by princelekhi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 20:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Ishika 2 in Friends

Of course there a girl, shes beautiful and cute, and i really like her. But this is the first time ive felt like this for someone. How can i tell if its just a crush or acually love?

2007-05-25 20:38:26 · 4 answers · asked by J M 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day, my friend and I were screwing around. To make a long story short, when he tackled me, I accidentally ended up kneeing him in the balls. What should one do in such a situation? The first instinct would be to help him off the ground, but on the contrary, it might hurt his dignity if I have to help him up. Furthermore, he might want to stay on the ground, or be unable to get up. What would be the best thing to do?

(I got pissed off and deleted the last board I made because I wasn't being taken seriously. My friend and I are thirteen, so having sex to make it up to him is not only distasteful in my eyes, but completely out of the question.
And no, standing there and laughing isn't an option, either. I want a serious answer. You get the point.)

2007-05-25 20:36:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-25 20:36:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i've been friends with this chick now for a short time and she's
like been friendly and stuff
but hasn't realy been that intersted in me until she told me that
this guy she liked didn't realy like her

since then she's kinda been all flirty and stuff
am i just rebound of is she truly intersted in me?

2007-05-25 20:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is he just not into me or what?
i dont want to call him cause i dont want to sound needy or desperate

2007-05-25 20:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 (male) and have been "hanging out" with this girl for months, having now blindly taken a step toward dating. I say "blindly" because I like her and all, but I'm not physically attracted to her. But she is head over heels for me! She wants to hold hands, kiss, make lots of bodily contact, while I just enjoy her company and making her happy, but not feeling any passion for her. Yet I keep relenting and basically leading her on into getting what she wants, while all I would rather do is just be friends.

Now at the same time, there is another girl I met this year to whom I am extremely attracted, and dream of dating. She seems to be interested in me, and I want to pursue her, but am afraid of hurting the girl who likes me. On top of this, the girl I'm currently "with" really looks down on the girl I like, and I know she would be crushed if I ditched her for the girl that I have the hots for.

I'm torn between the girl that I like and the girl that I want to love. Any advice

2007-05-25 20:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by Justin M 2 in Singles & Dating

he told me to shop better clothes and loss wieght... he thinks im neglecting myself!

2007-05-25 20:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by fritzel o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i are near the end of high school and we have been going out for about a year. he asked me to marry him, but when i couldnt say anything he got mad and said forget it i love him but i think its a little too soon. i want to go to college!! what do i do and say to him!!! please help!!

2007-05-25 20:17:49 · 9 answers · asked by bubbles2994 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried dating other people...and it hasn't worked. After six months of being broken up with him... i still think about him daily. is this norma;??? we only dated for a year and a half...but i was very in love with him. he was my best friend.

2007-05-25 20:15:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother just graduated from High school and I'm stumped as to what to get him for a gift.
He's into a wide variety of "hobbies" if you could call it that.

Riding,repairing,and building bikes ; video games ; art ; music. He plays the keyboard and has an excellent basic knowledge for computers.He's not too big on sports besides goofing around with his buddies every now and then.
Practical jokes are his specialty.

My budget is $100.

Besides just giving him the cash -- what do you think would make a good gift for him?

2007-05-25 20:00:37 · 17 answers · asked by ZEE 5 in Family

for attention? People always seem to like me at first because I am nice and talkative. then I notice some people resenting me and calling me names like a brownnoser and an attention whore..I feel like I am just very social but this has been coming up since Highschool and now that i am a junior in college I want it to stop.

2007-05-25 19:56:18 · 15 answers · asked by happygolucky 6 in Singles & Dating

Im just to embarrassed to talk to should i just be brave and tell her?

2007-05-25 19:54:11 · 1 answers · asked by garshion_diredeath 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 19:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is it that they just feel like they can blame it on the booze later?

2007-05-25 19:46:43 · 22 answers · asked by heaven1904 2 in Singles & Dating

It certainly doesn't attract all girls; but why would someone who drives a Mercedes garner more attention for girls than someone who drives a Corolla?

Is the answer really as simple as "because the guy with the Mercedes has more money" or is it more complicated because you can say the guy with the Merc has more class and taste?

2007-05-25 19:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my guy friend are ever so close as of 3 mo. ago. We keep in touch all da time. I support him in everything he does. Today he str8 up told me 'I love you'. He knows I support him 100%. I told him I love him too. I wonder if he is loving me as more than a friend too. Usually he says 'I got alot of love for you' or 'I got much love for you'. I tell him right back. I want to know what to do. Because I don't know what to do. Yea I like him, I just wonder often if he likes me? What is your opinion?

2007-05-25 19:44:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it bad for the health if you make love in the water.

2007-05-25 19:41:14 · 18 answers · asked by tellay 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 19:40:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife has this ex that she says was really horrible to her and she claimed to hate him. about 6 months before we married i found a text message from him saved to her phone from him saying basically that he will always love her. it was the only message she had saved. i have some serious trust issues and she knows this and i almost left her over it. she said she was stupid and that he was moving away. she swore to me that he would be out of our lives for good and begged me to forgive her. she even changed her phone #. i recently found her myspace page(that she neglected to tell me about) and discovered that they have been talking back and forth again and he has even been to her work. I feel very betrayed and even though it seems extreme to someone outside the situation im considering ending our relationship. i have lost trust in her completely and have become obsessed with wondering what else she could be hiding from me. advise please!!!

2007-05-25 19:38:31 · 13 answers · asked by speedy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 19:36:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

will she be grossed out im 5-7 200 shes 5-2 110 im alot bigger than her and i want to do this but i just want her to be grossed out what should i do

2007-05-25 19:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by AaronR 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-25 19:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On one hand, I have a lot of compassion for you [though it may come out totally wrong] and I care about you, definitely want to support you and all that. I like when you are around and I think you are very sweet. I want you in my life, I want to be friends and I want to have the option of more than friends. I feel butterflies when you kiss me and when I read your letters [the nice ones at least]. I love that you want to communicate, how open and honest you are. I love your art and you have great taste in music, politics, everything really. I really do like you and your amazing qualities. You are most definitely a great catch.

On the other hand, I'm scared to look you in the eye [this is so rare for me], a lot of things I say to you come out wrong or twisted and I have a hard time thinking when you are around. My view on us is distorted because of an imbalance in our relationship. I feel like I was given too much power in needing to decide what 'we' would be.. when i just wanted to be with you without constraints. I don't know why we have to be all or nothing, it's so black and white - i cant commit to only you because it would be unfair to you [since i dont want to be monogamous] i cant handle not having you at all, I want to be friends, I want you in my life. I wish you would come around to this and realize that neither of us are going to get what we want, we need to find some common ground - a place where we meet in the middle. Our differences aren't huge enough to keep us apart, there are many more positive than there are negative [at least in my eyes]. While we can't have a monogamous relationship, I still want to continue to care about you and to receive your respect. I still want to hang out with you and sleep next to you. I still want to talk to you and know how you are doing.

BUT... it seems that you don't want to come to meet me half-way... maybe you are considering this, or maybe you want to drop me completely from your life. I think this may be true, but I hope not.
I know you have yet again ignored me and you want to 'move on', but if you find yourself willing to let down your wall please let me know - because I am more than willing to work something out.

2007-05-25 19:20:36 · 8 answers · asked by HeckofaDude 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this guy for 8 months and i know his real attitude when his drunk he could be the bad guy ever on earth. his very naughty esp. if his with his friends.

But if his not drunk his very nice to me and very sweet.
so that means i love his company if his not drunk.

But sometimes we go out with his friends and you cannot take away from him not to drink. so he act very stupid when his drunk, why guys when there drunk they change or they become monster and started to do crazy staff.

I hate him when his drunk but i still go out with him.

And i love him if he is not drunk. we go along together very well.

2007-05-25 19:20:12 · 12 answers · asked by tellay 2 in Singles & Dating

Mk so im 15 and he's 20..and we talk like every day and im starting to really, really like him, and i think that he really likes me too.

the physical thing..i kno i kno. the consent age here is 16, but he's JUST oustide the limits and we both know that we couldnt..ya kno. plus we live kinda far away from each other.

its just like..idk what to think. is it wrong? i think about him all the time, but like my head is saying that i shouldnt be liking him but then i talk to him and its just like i dont want to stop.

2007-05-25 19:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships