Mk so im 15 and he's 20..and we talk like every day and im starting to really, really like him, and i think that he really likes me too.
the physical thing..i kno i kno. the consent age here is 16, but he's JUST oustide the limits and we both know that we couldnt..ya kno. plus we live kinda far away from each other.
its just like..idk what to think. is it wrong? i think about him all the time, but like my head is saying that i shouldnt be liking him but then i talk to him and its just like i dont want to stop.
2007-05-25 19:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
listen to your conscience. it will save you specifically in this predicament. as much as you are in love with him the little voice in your head is telling you right and you should listen. your conscience can be a time telling advice. trying figuring out the pros and cons on the relationship and what your family, friends, enemies, and parents will think of it. i know you are not suppose to listen to what people think but they know when to pick out the bad things and then try to help. also you might think you know a guy and you dont so get to know him better.
2007-05-31 03:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Subtle Revenge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong and you should break it off right away. I know so many women who got involved with adult men when they were in their young teens. In every case, it turned out poorly for the woman. Ultimately you will end up marrying this guy and he will abuse you.
It is so wrong of him to be involved with you – especially in a sexual relationship. What does a 20 year old see in a 15 year old other than sex and complete control? There is something wrong with this guy; he should be interested in people who are his own age.
Do yourself a big favor and end the relationship completely. It may be hard now, but you will not regret it. Good luck.
2007-06-01 14:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get older age difference is not that imortant (e.g. in 5 years you can marry somebody who is even 20 years older than you)
but now...when you are only 15...you are still becoming a woman, you are still growing. at your age its a big difference.
a guy who is 20 shouldnt be looking at somebody who is as young as you are.
2007-05-26 03:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aight, i think you prob should back off him!! you could really get him in a large amount of trouble. you should date people your age,as should he. Its not a big deal later in life like if he was 30 and you wr 25, but for now that is a big gap and is a lil too much to deal with on both sides.
2007-05-26 02:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you're 15 and need to worry about school instead of a 20 yr old guy that should be arrested for even thinking about dating a 15 yr old!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-26 02:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by stickchick711 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15 and 20.....whats up with that?.....if you were my daughter I would have his butt arrested!.....in some states he would be considered a Child Pedophile......go to school and get your education....stop worrying about guys older than yourself!
2007-05-30 11:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by T B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with the age difference absolutly nothing
2007-05-26 02:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by sdavid5523 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋