will she be grossed out im 5-7 200 shes 5-2 110 im alot bigger than her and i want to do this but i just want her to be grossed out what should i do
2007-05-25 19:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by AaronR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude ur answer lies in ur question itself........she wants to get sexual right and that too with u right? and i take it shez sane and can see u right? dude she has already made her choice and now she wants more so give it to her if she loves u she'd never be bothered by ur fat or anything for that matter but yeah if u can't perform thats a issue man lol so focus on ur vital part more then ur fat I suppose if u can do wat she wants then ur a winner full on :D Cheers man and i wish u can let go of ur inhibitions just feel free and wonderful. Don't think of unwanted stuff else u know wat directly confront her with ur problem and see wat she has to say on it before u actually get going in the bed just talk with her shez the best judge u have mate believe me if she loves u she'd give u her true answer. Best luck and be confident always !
2007-05-26 07:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry but I'm going to say it. Your overweight bud. Will she care? I mean she could, if she is a shallow girl she might not be able to see through your man... meat. But if she really likes you and really wants to be with you then she won't mind at all.
Hey you need to lose weight, theres no shame in it. But even if your chubby you can have confidence. So when your shirt comes off act like you are the man because if your ashamed it will only magnify the problem.
And don't worry a lot of guys are ashamed of their body. I am. I am 6 feet tall and I weigh 170. I have a good body, work out 5 times a week. But I hate taking my shirt off around anyone. Why? Because my back doesn't look the way I wish it would. We have to move past our insecurities and show the women we love who we are.
2007-05-26 02:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by jazzman1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Summer is here.She is goign to see you without a shirt some time.Just go for it.She likes you ,she wants to be with you,give her some credit for not being shallow.If you are that subconscious about being fat why not strip with the lights out.It adds some mystery to it and she will be more accepting after the deed has gone down, if you rock her socks and make her O.
2007-05-26 02:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't been paying attention. She's your girlfriend and she's making the first move. She already knows about your "fat" and obviously doesn't care. She KNOWS you're a lot bigger than her and apparently feels safe and secure enough to take the next step. Try not to be insecure.
2007-05-26 02:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by mojo52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you, she won't be grossed out. And obviously, if you've been dating, she's gota have some idea of what you look like. Start slow-- tell her your insecurities. If she's a good person (and I am sure that she is), she will wipe away your fears and the both of you will have a fabulous relatioship.
Good luck.
2007-05-26 02:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by ravenna_wing1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't think anything or it....I mean, she's not gonna see you and be like "oh...I thought you had washboard abs". No offense, but at 200 and 5'7, she's probably not expecting that. Be confident, she's loving you and wanting to be with you, for who you are. If you want, you could always go to the gym.
2007-05-26 02:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi my friend! listen ha ha ha, I meant read this carefully; Go for it!!!!!! She love you, and the weight means absolutely nothing to her! I am over you pal ha ha ha, I weigh more my friend, I found a lovely Lady who loves me for who I am, and not my looks, ha ha ha, as you can see, I could scare the devil himself in the right light, or so I`ve been told, so no worries, and be that gentleman you are, and all will be just fine, if not better!
You see, miracles do happen, I know. Peace and love from Norway
2007-05-26 02:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, people should never feel insecure about themselves. Just go do it, and if she is all grossed out, talk to her about it and come up with a resolution.
BD
2007-05-26 02:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Obviously she knows that you aren't scrawny and she is okay with it, just tell her that you want to be more sexual, but you feel insecure. I know some guys think it's being a girl, but when it's about sex and your first time girls like that you are sensitive because then they feel like really care about the whole experience and not just the sex part.
I think it's refreshing that you are sensitive about it and you aren't really big, so don't worry.
Good luck to you and I hope I helped. :D
2007-05-26 02:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Oishii.Hina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's your girlfriend, she's clearly into you. Don't be so insecure! The fact that she wants to go further is a good sign. Let her know upfront that you feel a little insecure and she'll be even more receptive to your needs.
2007-05-26 02:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋