Ive been dating this guy for 8 months and i know his real attitude when his drunk he could be the bad guy ever on earth. his very naughty esp. if his with his friends.
But if his not drunk his very nice to me and very sweet.
so that means i love his company if his not drunk.
But sometimes we go out with his friends and you cannot take away from him not to drink. so he act very stupid when his drunk, why guys when there drunk they change or they become monster and started to do crazy staff.
I hate him when his drunk but i still go out with him.
And i love him if he is not drunk. we go along together very well.
2007-05-25 19:20:12 · 12 answers · asked by tellay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your question is easy to answer, "You go out with a stupid guy because you choose to." Why do you girls always fall for the wrong type of guys. There are many of us out there who might drink but not to a point where one would get stupid and act retarded. Some of us can treat girls very nice. You must like being treated bad, if not, then what are you waiting for?
2007-05-25 19:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by RYO 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Aunt Tater is right. You are saying the answer you know in your head but you are confusing it with your heart. You head is correct and your heart will heal. What is cool, is that he may get a wake up call to get his life together without drinking if he loses something really good out of his life. He may not, and then you really know he wasn't the one for you. My mom is on the board for Alcholics Annonymous and she says that when you accept the behavior it won't stop no matter how hurt or how much you yell and scream, but when you start respecting yourself and you demand more for yourself, he will either rise to the occasion or let you go find someone that will be a better and sober suitor for you.
Good luck and take care of you as you are the only you you get.
2007-05-25 19:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by lilpatrona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may already be an alcoholic. You should read up on alcoholism and about co dependency. You may be very surprised about what you learn about him and yourself. It takes a certain kind of person to be attracted to an alcoholic. When a person is a problem when they are drinking and people tell them how awful they are and they continue to drink, that is not a good thing. This can lead to a really rotten relationship, and it only gets worse. Don't go there blind, arm yourself with knowledge. You may be saving yourself from a lot of misery.
2007-05-25 19:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him how you feel about his being drunk... It's not proper for a guy to always get drunk and be out of his mind... tell himhow you hate it.. And if he truly loves you, he will quit it (either the drinking or the drunkened acts)
It pays to be honest... It's hard to lose someone you love... especially if you would think that it is all just because of alcohol...
2007-05-25 19:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must know people who are not drunk and people who drunk..Get it? When people are drunk, their mind will be not clear, simply say things, become more daring, and most of the time they dont even know what they are doing. Drinking beer is a normal thing for guys to do, or maybe u can limit him. Since you are his girl friend, you sure can do it.
2007-05-25 19:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either likes you and that is the only way he knows how to show it or to just get your attention. Did you ever see "Hey Arnold" it was a cartoon on nickelodeon. A girl was always picking on him for no reason but in actuality she was in love with him. Go figure!
2016-05-18 00:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by samira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because that's the kind of guys you like.
Sorry get ready to spend the rest of your life with a loser.
2007-05-25 19:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. You'll let him go when you're fed up with the bullsh*t.
2007-05-25 20:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by enovamami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a problem...
You need to break-up and find someone
that does not have a problem...
2007-05-25 19:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't had enough of it yet. You know what's up, so I think when you're finally "done" you'll move on.
2007-05-25 19:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by AuntTater 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋