2007-05-25 19:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is getting tired of the same old thing...do sumthing interesting 4 him
2007-05-25 19:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many possibilities. The only way to know is ASK HIM. Here are some possible reasons:
-He isn't feeling well
-He's too stressed and/or tired
-He hasn't been getting the high he once got from it
-He has something to hide, maybe even something physical like signs of an STD (but I wouldn't "go there" as a first conclusion - if he really is cheating, he probably wouldn't exhibit such a drastic change in behavior)
-Something happened to him that he isn't comfortable sharing, maybe he fears you'll judge or leave him
-He learned something about you that he didn't know, feels betrayed and unable to "fake his way thru it"
-Maybe a long lost girlfriend suddenly re-appeared and decided she wants him back
-Maybe it's a strategy to get you to be the one to initiate sex sometimes
BOTTOM LINE: Ask him - directly. And, assume the best until you're given a reason not to.
Good Luck!
2007-05-26 02:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by livingwell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might have found some elsewhere. He might have fallen out of love. He might have got infected or have an injury that he does not want to disclose. I cannot think of any good reason for this. He might have gotten tired of you. That is why you should at least have an engagement ring when you give him such free access. Many fewer women will pursue a married man.
2007-05-26 02:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many ideas, sadly to say. Some changes are good and some are bad. But you didn't give many clues or changes in more than one behavior to conclude much. I suggest if its only sex, think of other ways he is changing. And if its gotten to the point he seems to be disgusted and not concerned for you, then he lost some interst. I still can't predict the degree of it, but, it's sometimes an internal issue he got going on or its you??
2007-05-26 02:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by rd03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe psychologically you were giving him signs that you did not enjoy his high sexual libido. Maybe he does not want to feel as though he has to beg you for sex. Or he could have met someone else. Or he could just be busy. Only you know for sure exactly what is going on because I can't see for myself I am not there. However go with your gut feeling. Listen to your instincts.
Sometimes we ignore them because 9 times out of 10 it involves someone we love that we get bad instincts or have second thoughts about. Give yourself better judgment trust your gut and some of the warning signs blaring in your mind.
I wish you the best sweetheart.
Karma
2007-05-26 02:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would seriously look at the relationship. If everything seems to be OK, the norm, when you used to have sex...you need to look at cheating.
If things have changed, with emotions...family, friends, money, etc etc...anything that would stress person, that could definitely be a factor.
Other than that, have you changed. Are you being out of bounds for him, without even saying anything? Should he think that you wouldn't want to have sex for a particular reason? Could be that he is trying to be sensitive to your needs as well.
2007-05-26 02:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Heather T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shower more often. He may be burnt out on you. I dated a woman one time for about 3 months and she wanted it 3 times a day. This went on for about 3 weeks and then I began to hate her-even while we were doing it!
2007-05-26 02:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever watch the TV show Cheaters? He's probably having sex with someone else.
2007-05-26 03:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Orlando Rays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex with him unless you are married to him. Why do you give your precious self to someone who is not committed enough to you to marry you? If he isn't committed to you, he will not find any thing wrong with having others and that is probably what is going on now. After all you are not his wife.
2007-05-26 02:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
not to be rude but it might be signs of cheating!!! he might not wanna touch u cuz he either feels bad or hurt! or maybe hes not cheating and he finally feels that hes been maybe using u...
2007-05-26 02:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋