She sent him a pm and he answered her and they chatted back and forth for a few days(till i caught him)u could tell she was "feeling him out" to see if there was an interest.and my fiance who had no interest in his page till she contacted him fixed it all up with songs,photos(none of me)sayings ect.plus he was quick to answer her when ever she pm him.now he never said anything bad to her but it only went on for about 2 days before i caught him.now he never told me about this, i found out when i logged on to his account to get someones email(he did not know i was doing it)when i asked him about it he blew it off as no big deal but as soon as i left the room he deleted his whole account,weird i thought.oh let me add he left his 1st wife for this chick.shes like a bad penny allways turning up.
2007-05-25 18:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't sound very "ex" to me. Sounds like he is still carrying the torch for her. If he wasn't interested in getting with her, he would not be hiding the ongoing relationship with her.-
2007-05-25 18:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. I went through this once. It ended, because denial gave way to reality...she was cheating. I'm not saying your situation is the same as mine, but I would advise to be careful. He knows you're onto him, and he's deleting stuff he wants to hide. Is that a good sign? I'm recently married, and my wife has full access to my stuff, even though she knows several of my exs and I still email and chat. I have nothing to hide, so there's no point trying.
My best advice has always been my intuition and gut. If you think something isn't right, there's a reason. That reason, be it easy or hard to come to terms with, needs to be discussed.
I truly hope things work out for you, but having been through similar situations, hope even more that you do what you can to ensure things work out for the best.
Best of luck!!!
2007-05-25 18:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by mrtnlu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem here is that you are with a divorcee. Divorcees are never truly reliable except when they get back to their own original spouse.
If you have no children with him, I would say that this is the time to pull out, and next time look for a man that has not been married, and then watch how he treats you, as in the center of his world, or a troffy.
2007-05-25 18:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Vman 2040 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope you are really listening to the guys who are telling you to move on.They are right he has already slept with her as soon as she contacted him.I no you are not going to believe he has had sex with her you never do until it is right in your face.He has already proven to be a man who cheats on his women do you think you are any different then his wife.If he cheated on his wife then you better believe he is cheating on you.How do you no she is the one who contacted him maybe he contacted her and he has told her how to get him on a new account by now.If you are foolish enough to stay with him and I no you will you deserve what you get because all the signs are there and you choice to ignore it. Sorry I call it the way I see it,no sense in pussie footing around it.
2007-05-25 19:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah., he is a jerk. Mind your suspiciouns. That should be enough for you to say good bye to him. Just because he didn't physically cheat yet, he will. I know his type. Move on. He is full of sh*t. If you blow this off, you will look like a schmuck.
2007-05-25 18:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace causes a lot of drama...just forget about myspace...he never should have opened a myspace account...you should both have one for the two of you!
2007-05-25 21:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet they already boned, discovery channel style!
2007-05-25 18:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy kills a good relationship!!
c'mon he's just chatting, it's not like he's sleeping with her?!
next time, mind your own business and don't pry on other people private stuff!!
2007-05-25 18:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋