i ****** up my relationship with my girlfriend. weve been going out for 5 months and things have been going well but in the last few days everything has gone to hell she even suggested that i leave for a few days but i dont have anywhere to go. she thinks that ive been a total dick and i have but she doesnt want to talk about it no matter how many times i try. i feel like im doing all the talking. i feel like its a onesided relationship. i know i ****** up but i need her support to change my way of life ive already changed so much already, more then she knows. she dont understand thats its not that easy. and latley shes been talking to this guy who we both know is madly in love with her and its makeing me uncomfortable she says its just to talk about the problems with me but i dont know
2007-05-25 18:50:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HER!
2007-05-25 18:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like no matter how hard you try to fix this relationship, she doesn't want it fixed. She knows this guy is in love with her, she's going to him with her problems and things will go in directions she never really planned. I could be very wrong, but in my experience, I don't think I am.
People can change and make themselves a better person, but your significant other will still think of you the way they used to, before you changed. Even if it is subconsciencely, they will expect you to go back to the way you were and the relationship will not get any better. It will be full of resentment, feeling like you changed yourself for the better and they don't appreciate it.
I really hope everything goes as it is meant to, wether she opens her eyes and sees what a wonderful man she has who loves her, or she pushes you away because she's afraid.
2007-05-26 01:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like its time to let go. Shes obviously going to this other guy for a reason. Funny how hes madly in love with her and shes running to him. Learn from your mistakes. Dont do it to the next girl.
2007-05-26 01:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by for me to know, you to not... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on exspecially if u dont have any kids, its not worth the headache, for her or you. and as far as change goes, only u can change yourself, others can help, but she dont seem to want to help u, and theropist might be of help? do u work? if not u need a 40+ hour a week job, u will respect yourself more and so will others....
2007-05-26 01:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by James E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry man you cant fix it! trying to talk to her is not going to work! nothing will! what you need to do is learn and not do what ever you did with the next girl! a very wise man once said your life will go on! that's not meant to be rude but very TRUE!
2007-05-26 01:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by toddone03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait and see. It's all up to her. You made the mistake and you'll have to pay.
2007-05-26 01:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her why she talks to him about YOUR problems but cant talk to you about it.......
2007-05-26 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by mom_in_love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋