the man i love says my body is perfect. but i know it can be better when we met 3 years ago i had a flat rock stomache, in time and life struggles ive gained 10-15 pounds and he still thinks im sexy, but i want to look like the models i ketch him staring at on tv ect. not like skinny perfect, but tan and sexy, to make him notice me more, why is it that men do truely think your body is sexy, becuse its "you" but admire a body that lookes nothing like yours, but they say it does, bull crap!!! i wish!! right!! lol if he were to check out someone in my build my body figure, id be happy, well not happy but content! whats wrong with men other then the fact no matter who they are there gonna look, but is he being honest when he says he loves my body and its sexy or is he saying that to not hurt my feelings, i mean were very close, hed flat out tell me if i were getting fat!! okay ill stop!! lol
2007-05-25 19:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pretty much whats up with men in this scenario? i know him pretty well, but this is confusing alittle and alot more stuff! men!! lol
2007-05-25 19:11:40 · update #1
You are being too paranoid and too judgmental of yourself. Could it be that you are not happy with your own body?
When you come across someone and/or something that catches your eye do you look away or do you admire it not realizing that you are observing it more then you should.
If your weight bothers you that much, then get off that sofa and do something about it, but you will come to find that no matter how great your body is there will be many other women you will come across with who will have something you wish you had.
So you either continue to fight the women of the world and/or learn to embrace what God has given you ,it seems like your husband has.
2007-05-25 19:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by MYSTERY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly human nature for men to check out other women as it is te same for women checking out other men, only a natural thing to do. It does not mean that he thinks any less of you or feels any different towards you now than before the 10-15 pounds. And besides, it's alright to look, touching is a different story. Just think about it like this, they might get a second glance, but you get him to yourself every night!
2007-05-25 19:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by lilbeamlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men look at the models but when it comes to real life no one really wants someone that is skin and bones. Just because he's looking doesn't mean he wants to trade you in. As long as you're not sloppy he's probably happy. If the sex life is good then he still enjoys your body however if it isn't then you're in big trouble.
2007-05-25 19:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ace_39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always check out any and all girls. That's they way they are configured. They're very visual beings and hormones rule. As long as he only looks, don't ever be offended. I never met a straight guy that doesn't check them out. I've been married 34 years and I still give my husband a poke with the elbow to his tummy if I catch him. My rule is do it-just don;t be obvious! They never out grow it. You just have a perfectly healthy man!!!
2007-05-25 19:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by debijs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is being honest with you,men have a thing about looking at other girls,sometimes it can get them in trouble with their girlfriend or spouse.thats why i think girls worry about guys cheating on them,because guys do look at other girls.lol their like a kid in a candy store.Dont worry your the sweetest piece of candy or he wouldnt be with you.they say for other people to like you you have to like yourself.hope this helps
2007-05-25 19:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋