Ok so it's the first week in uni and we're on the bus.This girl sits next to me who i have to admit i thought was really hot the moment i saw her which was bout a few days back.We start talkin , get to know each other and it was a pretty long ride of bout and hour and a half.The more we talked the more we made each other smile.And since we were sitting next to each other our faces were real close and she was giving me this dreamy,ALMOST sensual smile,like u know her head resting on the seat cushion.Then just b4 we reach uni she tells me that i smile like a certain actor and turns around and smiles and says that was a compliment.Was this flirting or just normal beggining of the term making new friends chit chat?Shud i make a move on this girl?Or im just so confused
P.S. if I shud make a move any tips on how
2007-05-25 19:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Rida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay my doubted answer is that she just could have been tired and thats just the way it came out. but that answer was in my head before i finished reading...lol
i say go for it. ive dropped hints to guys by doing this before and none of them have ever gotten it. so kutos to you for catching it.
ask her to go to like a family fun center type of place and ride separate go-karts and just have fun. pay for the junk food and just make her laugh. and at the end give her a hug but not a kiss and squeeze her when you hug her. MAYBE a kiss on the cheek and then tell her you'll call her (and hint: actually call her the next day) (it drives us crazy when you do that) not fun sitting around waiting for a call when you cuold be doing more productive things with our time. and makes it seem like your not into us.
good luck! :)
2007-05-25 19:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by hey buddy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude, she sure likes your smile :) and even if this is just a friendly chit chat, whats the problem in making a move? Just keep talking to her in your campus or may be in the bus everyday, and then, a few days later, just ask her out.
2007-05-26 02:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by big D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, coming from a girl's mind, i would say this is flirting. she's not going all out, but she's giving you a sign. i would talk to her more, look for more signs of flirting, and then decide to make a move. if you make a move, don't do anything HUGE. just kinda lean into her to kiss her [take a while so she knows what you're doing] and if she pulls away, back off, if she leans in too, there's your chance.
2007-05-26 02:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you flirting? It seems like your desires and intentions would be what drives your choice about pursuing opportunities to talk more. Whether she was flirting or not, clearly she enjoyed talking with you. So, maybe rather than "making a move on her," you can let her know that you want to get to know her better.
2007-05-26 02:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by livingwell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question, u really never no whats flirting and whats just being friendly, but the way i look at it is so what, if u think she is hot than let her know, what do u have to lose? and far as tips, just call her or ask for her number and ask if she wants to go out and do something sometime, movie, dinner, ask her what she likes to do in her free time..
2007-05-26 02:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by James E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats flirting...make a move dude
most important thing is to be confident but not arrogant....other than that just get her to talk about herself (so she knows your interested) and give her a compliment or 2...then just ask her if she wants to go do something sometime
and dont be afraid of gettin turned down....happens to everyone
2007-05-26 02:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by joel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have a boyfriend? if not first get to know her real well. and since you talk often it wont be too hard. you should show that youre interested in her but dont be too forward. after a while ask her out and make a move. no sex, man. youre just getting to know her more.
tips...uhhh google.com
2007-05-26 02:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by rayray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she was flirting with you. Ask her out to dinner or a movie. The worst she can do is say no, and maybe she will say yes. You will never know if you don't ask her.
2007-05-26 02:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you felt any type of connection, then yes she was flirting. when you feel a certain way about someone, usually, not always, but usually the feeling is mutual. Be yourself!!!!!
2007-05-26 02:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by miss.ljohnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that smile was realy that provoking(in a good way) wait until you see it again, if you do, you should make a move, but be subtle and make sure she's into you
2007-05-26 02:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋