Family & Relationships - 21 April 2007

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2007-04-21 03:47:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am a 21 year old mother of 1 gorgeous little boy and i am married to a fantastic man. yes my life sounds perfect but ever since i have given birth to my son, all i do is think negative. i worry about his future like will he be popular etc. i stress about how much attention gets paid not only too me but also my son and my husband. sometimes i stress and think that we are not liked and all kinds of thoughts - ALWAYS NEGATIVE. i feel like i have no friends and when i go to talk to people i think to myself that they dont like me (i think this for no reason at all)this is all very frustrating. negative thinking is taking over my life, i want to live a happy, care free life with my family. PLEASE HELP ME I AM BEGGING YOU!!! This is driving me insane. at a time in my life when i am supposed to be happiest i am actually quite miserable. i am on 21 this should not be happening to me.

i drive my poor husband crazy with questions about his social life, he has almost had enough!!

2007-04-21 03:37:39 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

i am a 21 year old mother of 1 gorgeous little boy and i am married to a fantastic man. yes my life sounds perfect but ever since i have given birth to my son, all i do is think negative. i worry about his future like will he be popular etc. i stress about how much attention gets paid not only too me but also my son and my husband. sometimes i stress and think that we are not liked and all kinds of thoughts - ALWAYS NEGATIVE. i feel like i have no friends and when i go to talk to people i think to myself that they dont like me (i think this for no reason at all)this is all very frustrating. negative thinking is taking over my life, i want to live a happy, care free life with my family. This is driving me insane. at a time in my life when i am supposed to be happiest i am actually quite miserable. i am on 21 this should not be happening to me.

2007-04-21 03:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the case of a woman who is suffering from panic disorder and anxiety and/or depression. Her husband has told her that he is fed up with her and why can't she be normal? He is adrinker and also will not pay any of the bills etc leaves all that to her to worry about even though they are 14thousand in debt.

He insists on sex when he wants it and even if she is feeling unwell or has side effects from her meds he insists and she is not strong enough to say no. If she does say no he gets in a furious mood. I believe she is in an abusive relationship because although he does not hit her he controls her and i think what he does to her is classed as rape. She also self harms but hides that from him as he goes beserk and won't even sleep in the same room when she has done that.

Any advice i can give her appart from 'get out'???

2007-04-21 03:33:58 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Marriage & Divorce

To be more especific (after dating from 2-3months) to do most during sex? (no freack answers please) but sensual, expontaneous and passionate that will match better my personality.
Please be HONEST-PLEASE ANSWER Guys between 25-35 . Iam 28 PLEASE HELP give me your opinion with details THANKS!

2007-04-21 03:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 03:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 03:27:20 · 31 answers · asked by Dhiru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a man gets a message from a lady on an on-line dating web site, should he wait 2 days before he replies/writes back to her? Or should he write back to her right away?

If the 2 day rule applies to online dating too, what does it mean if a guy writes back to her right away? And what does it mean IRL* too (when a man calls her the same day or the day after)?

*IRL = in real life

2007-04-21 03:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by kmarshal73 2 in Singles & Dating

she dont work, has no friends, she dont go out, only to do food shopping ,so basically shes bored in side th house everyday doing the same thing,

i offered to take her to a resturant , and she didnt want to go. her excuse was , that she eats enough, and she went out yesterday, to do food shopping,
WHATS WRONG WITH HER?

2007-04-21 03:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I was in high school I was once a nerd with glasses who is overweight and they were girls who teased me. When I went to college I became the man. After lifting weights and dressing with the best urban wear I can get any woman I want. As soon as I came back home to visit those same girls that picked on me wanted me and tried to flirt with me but I rejected them hard and turned them even in front of their female friends. Is this cool revenge?

2007-04-21 03:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by UVIHope 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i m going to uni. after 5 yrs. out of which 4 yrs. i was doing job related to my field and one yr. was house wife. also i m going through separation and i m different country than my homeland. my course will be starting in sep. but i want to prepare myself from now but the problem is whenever i sit to read and try to concentrate, i start thinking about separation, why it happened to me etc. and end up closing the book. when i was a student before 5 yrs., i was a focused and bright student. now i want to become like that again and want to get really good grades, but hows that possible if i continue like this? please give me some good advice - i know it usually takes few years or months to get over separation but in this case, i must perform best in univ. and build my career again i do not have years or months to be sad about it. is there any book or something i can read and heal immediately? any other advice?

2007-04-21 03:15:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are vert strict and i mean that in the highest level! They won't let me go out, they get mad when i watch shows that have teenagers in love and so many other stuff!

My problem is i love to write and read love stories!Usually Couples that are in their teens, mostly fanfiction. And write as much too! But they have no idea that i do!

So should i tell them?I keep hiding it from them and it's kinda hard and frustrating. But what if they'll get mad?And take away my sources and scold me so much that i can't hear anymore? I know that i'm exaggerating but i'm really scared of what they think!

HELP!

2007-04-21 03:15:16 · 6 answers · asked by kakasol728 2 in Family

Daughter's father is US citizen - I want to go back home to my family now we have split (not married) Child is dual citizenship. I would like my daughter to continue to see her father - but I would like to go back to my support network/family. Can I do this?

2007-04-21 03:00:12 · 3 answers · asked by Ava74 1 in Family

I am not sure if I am pregnant, and I won't tell him until I am one hundred percent sure, but I'm about 90 percent sure so that's why I"m asking. How do I tell this guy if I am? We dated, everything was awesome, and he dropped me like a bad habit. He said he's ready to settle down, just not with me. And he thinks that I'm a wierdo because I express myself through letters and don't hold any of my feelings back. So basically I am most likely pregnant by a guy who I think would want to be apart of the baby's life and maybe mine but he doesn't answer the phone when I call. We do work in the same store but that is no place to tell someone that you're having their baby!

2007-04-21 02:58:52 · 34 answers · asked by ForestGirl20 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

actually one of my friends have been followed by this guy who stays in the neighbourhood. Her parents know his but they arent close. they dint know each other until this guy started to follow her and even gotta know her name, which college etc. He is pestering her and she is fed up. She has made it clear that she doesnt love him still he follows her like a dog behing a moving vehicle.. Can u give me a solution for this problem please? her mom knows about this.

(Psst: can u also tell me why guys act so pathetically?)

2007-04-21 02:57:47 · 5 answers · asked by Hotsummers 2 in Friends

two guests RSVP'd to attend a wedding and cancel the day before the wedding. Can they be charged for the meals they will not be there to eat?

2007-04-21 02:55:43 · 28 answers · asked by lefty1755 2 in Weddings

hi im 20 eyars old and i have been in a relationship for a year an 3 months and i love my boyfriend very much, however we have been having some big issues. he cheated on me with this girl that works with him. i helped him get that job and he slept with this 90 pound girl. When i found out she told me everything. ever since then i have never looked at him the same way. I started talking to this guy a while when this happened but i dont want to rush into a relationship? i dont know what to do?! Im never happy and cant stand being alone, but i dont know what to do. i love my boyfriend and we have been trying to make it work for a while but im sooo confused. i love him so much but he keeps saying that im not doing things a girlfriend would do. like for example write poems, and bring him lunch to work, and stuff like that. and im starting to think im a bad girlfreind, however wen i went over this other guys house i was talking to i brang him food and cleaned his room, whats wrong with me?

2007-04-21 02:55:09 · 20 answers · asked by Jalinda 1 in Singles & Dating

lets see....

1) condoms
2)alchohol
3)weed
4)dildo and lube(for a girl)
5)notes, writting about how they hate you
6)porn


those are just a few things i think most parents would prolly dread.

what would you do?

and what are other things that would be horrible to find in your childs room?

have you ever found these in your teens room before?

2007-04-21 02:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by girly-girl 3 in Family

A Lady who has all her time on you?
Or the Woman who has a quiet busy life? And WHY?

2007-04-21 02:45:54 · 6 answers · asked by Celine 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok - So i've liked my personal trainer for a while - and he asked me to go to a concert with him last night.
We arrived early and had 2 drinks (he picked a flower for me), then we got into the concert and it was dark and I though that he was going to make his move, but nothing happened.

I really enjoyed the concert and would like to get to know him better. Also throughout our conversation he mentioned money alot - about how much he earns etc... what does this mean?

At the end I mentioned that we should do it again sometime and he said sure.

BASICALLY.
1. I keep getting mixed signals from the guy - one minute he seems into me and next we're just friends. Why would a guy give mixed signals?
2.Why did he invite me to the concert if he is not interested?
3.The other thing to consider is that I am his client and am 6 years younger than he is (He's 29 i'm 23) - Could this be a turn off for him? How can I let him know that none of that means anything to me?
4. What should I do Now?

2007-04-21 02:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah_Silverstone 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife of seven years and I are seperating. We have four children and she refuses to go to therapy to try to make things work. She's become very distant, she will sometimes turn away when we embrace. Nothing and I mean nothing bad led up to this. We have had our share of problems in the past, but that was years ago. She works in an emergency room 50 or more hours a week. She does not go out much except to go to work so I don't see how she can be having an affair. Yet, she seems so happy like nothings wrong. I don't get it. I'm still so very much in love w/ her. I feel like crap all the time. I try finding out what's wrong she just says she wants space. Why? I treat her like a goddess. Why doesn
t she want to try to fix things when there's so much we have built together? I feel sick to my stomach over all of this. I don't know what to think or do. She no longer kisses me good-bye or calls during the day, what gives? She acts happy. I'm so miserable. What to do?

2007-04-21 02:43:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some arguments that might help them change their minds? My dad listens to the Beatles, maybe arguments about them will work?

2007-04-21 02:40:56 · 18 answers · asked by Adriana 3 in Family

I posted a question the other day, and everyone wanted to know what book i was reading that opened my eyes to how badly i was treating my husband...
"The Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands"
by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
one page into the book and i couldnt believe it! i am the luckiest woman in the world, and my husband loves me so much, and all this time i was treating him like dirt. then i would complain that he was ruining our marriage. all this time everything was my fault!!!! I was very pro feminist until now, but am no more. women are so destructive to our relationships, and we dont even realize it... LADIES LOVE YOUR MEN!!!!!

2007-04-21 02:39:05 · 14 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok I have been married for 3 years, My husband and brother go out alot they go to clubs and bars -which is fine but last night when my husband must have thought I was asleep him and my brother and a few friends were having drinks when he called this girl he met at a bar one night and I heard him say he called her a few times so I got the phone and called her she said "your husband?" and said you better talk to him about that and so He said he never cheated and I do believe that but why the calls I yelled and screamed at him and told him If he wanted to go out and cheat to Divorce me first and do it now while were still young so I don't have to worry about this anyways I'm hurt and angry as any married woman would be so what should I do what would you do if you were in my shoes? Thankyou

2007-04-21 02:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 02:24:51 · 16 answers · asked by sska 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl that I met on the internet and we had sex on our third date.
I dont know what to expect from this and since I am from Greece I dont know how things like that work here.
Is that how these things work here in America?
Should I consider it something serious for the future or its just an adventure?

I am wondering because she is still active at yahoo personals. Her activity says-active during the last 24 hours
She also doesnt believe me that I dont have a wife and kids



Thanks in advance

2007-04-21 02:21:41 · 6 answers · asked by afriki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious.

2007-04-21 02:11:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 02:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by Eunice M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok,, so the other day i askd on here.. about a little bump i had down there on the inner lip.. were there is no hair... well its smaller now kinda goin away!! do u think maby its just a infection or something bc i had sex with my bf without protection like a month or two be4 i got tested and as i sayd befor i didnt have anything!!

2007-04-21 02:09:05 · 7 answers · asked by becca m 2 in Singles & Dating

And did you find happiness and peace again?

2007-04-21 02:08:51 · 12 answers · asked by wiser 1 3 in Marriage & Divorce