Family & Relationships - 21 April 2007

But he wasn't. Left about12 am & he came back at 6 am. What in the hell would you do.

I made him sleep on the couch. He has to sleep on the couch for the next week. I have broken up with him EVERYONE SO I"M SINGLE. now i'm deciding whether to get back with him i need help and support. I have email, messenger and 360 page please. Out of site out of mind right? Keep him out of my mind lol HELP.

2007-04-21 10:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 10:28:41 · 21 answers · asked by Amanda H 1 in Singles & Dating

(I'm a girl)

I sit in the back of the class and one of my friends will be in the front. Well she'll yell something to me, and then the girl I'm talking about will turn around and laugh at me or something, or if it's something else, then she'll just turn around and stare. She's not being mean about it or anything. We don't really talk though that much cause there's really nothing to say to her. One day I asked her if I could borrow a dollar and she just stared at me for a second then when and got one. But if yall think she isn't wanting to be a friend then it won't hurt my feelings. I'm just wondering.

2007-04-21 10:28:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-21 10:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by Oscar B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in need of a poem to put at the cemetary of a dear friend that was murdered last september! Her 22nd birthday is next Sunday, and I can't find the perfect poem to put there. If someone out there is good at writing poems or can find a poem online, I've tried and can't but maybe someone else could, Please let me know.... This is a very serious subject for our family, so please only respond if you can help... No nonsence answers!

2007-04-21 10:28:07 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkin1720 2 in Friends

please help me i think i might of waited to long and im really despret for some tips.

p.s. if i see any goofing around on this question i will report them.

2007-04-21 10:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by deathstar11223 1 in Friends

My mom is helping my grandfather while he is temporarily unable to drive, etc. She has a VERY painful shoulder condition and he is quite demanding. She told him she needs one day a week to herself to relax, and/or get her own stuff done. He told her "I am not happy that you want a day a week to yourself where I cant call you" She said of course she would be available if there was an emergency but she does need some down time. He said "thats fine, any time you cant do something is ok, if I call you and you cant do something its ok to say no, but I dont want to be told ahead of time that you wont be available at all on a particular day." He wants ONLY her to help him. She has plans all day tomorow. She thought it would be more considerate to let him know ahead of time, but he says no, I dont like it presented like that. So, now tomorow, he is going to ask her to grocery shop, etc, and she will unable to do it. He alos likes to throw things back in her face that he did for her before.

2007-04-21 10:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Family

I'm 16, i live with my grandparents. But i stay at my girlfreind's house most of the time. Her mom doesn't midn. because she likes me and i help out with things..I come over and spend the daytime at my (grandparents) house and sleep and spend nights at my girlfreind's house...I only come over to my (grandparents) house because they complain if i dont... but whenever i do they cant wait to get me out of the house, and complain because i'm here, i make noise... i eat...i use the computer...my grandpa wants to move just to get away from me :( but i guess, he's never liked me anyway... what do i do, do i just stop comming here, or just leave everyone alone? am i really that much of a drain on everyone? :(

2007-04-21 10:23:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

(I'm a girl)
My teacher likes to pick on me every now and then. She can be really nice. What I mean by picking is that she'll tease me ( she says she does) and gently hits me or pushes on me. But I think she talks bad about me to the other teachers. I'm a good student and I've known her for over a year, but I don't know what her problem is. Also, when she gives me papers to grade (since I'm her assistant) she'll kinda slam the pen down on the papers then smile about it, or she'll stomp her foot and smile about it.

2007-04-21 10:21:58 · 4 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you feel any different when you get married? what is differnt when you get married. any advice on this would be very helpful to me.

2007-04-21 10:21:17 · 23 answers · asked by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. my ex boyfriend e-mailed me and asked me to go back out with him. I want to say yes, but I don't know when I can see him. Because I'm not suppose to have a boyfriend. But I really like him. Do you have any ideas how I can see him with out getting caught by my parents? (And the only reason we broke up was because I went out of town, and we didn't want a far relationship) But now i'm back in town. What should I do??

2007-04-21 10:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together 16 years, married 13+, no kids. Just last year he met somebody online and now thinks he needs to be with her. She lives accross the country, with her mother and has 3 teenagers.
We're broke and have no $$ for him to move.
To top it all off, unexplicably I am still very much in love with him.
He left me about a month ago and is living with his parents, enjoying no responsibilities other than to text message his girlfriend until his fingers bleed.
I'm trying to be friends, but am finding it difficult not to try and change his mind.
HELP!!

2007-04-21 10:18:54 · 18 answers · asked by matalemom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I am a guy and I am in 9th grade. I have known this girl for about 1 month and a half who is in 10th grade and this girl is the cousin of my best guy friend. So since when I met this girl I liked her since the first time I saw her and everything. She added me on myspace and on messenger and we talked almost every day on messenger and in school. Every time I would sign in on messenger she would be the 1st one to send me a message and we started a good conversation and because she goes on my bus she would ask me why didn’t I go in the bus that day and stuff like that. On Thursday I decided to tell her if she wanted to go around with me and that I loved her a lot on messenger because I thought it was the time already. After I told her this she was surprised and said “O really” and then we started a conversation and then she suddenly said “sorry but right now I don’t feel like having a boyfriend. Then I told her ok then just be friends. On Friday it was real strange because I signed on to messenger she was on also but never sent me a message until I sent her one. We talked and everything but it wasn’t the same as before I told her all this. Now on Monday I don’t want to go on the bus because I don’t know if she is mad at me or something so I don’t know how should I talk to her. PLEASE HELP ME WHY IS SHE ACTING LIKE THIS AND WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO WHEN I GET ON THE BUS. I THINK THAT SHE MAY EMBARRASS ME IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS AND ALSO HER FRIENDS IN THE BUS WILL MAKE FUN OF ME.

2007-04-21 10:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok this is gonna be pretty long so i hope everyone reads through this thoroughly.
Well there's this girl that i like very much i mean i think i'm in love with her i've been trying to get her since 9th grade but now we're about to end our 10th grade year and i finally confessed to her friday night before i get to the details on friday night i'm gonna geto from begining to end. Well anyways we have so much in common and we're actually best friends.well everyone that we know thinks we should go out and we acted like we were also. I invited her to my house many times and we cuddled and she'd lay her head in my lap at night and stuff when we watched movies like she would litterally start at one side of the couch when it started and we'd be close by the end of it. anyways. On friday she was supposed to come over but i told her she couldn't and i think she took it wrong. My mom says she likes me and she's never wrong. but i asked her out and on friday night she sounded happy and everything

2007-04-21 10:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Therev_d 1 in Singles & Dating

So i like this guy and i want to call him but i get nervous because i have no idea what to talk about and when i do call people there is always an awkward silence...what should i talk to *j* about on the phone that would get rid of the awkward silence so i dont feel weird.... PLEASE HELP!

2007-04-21 10:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by Lil Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy met on a vacation 8 months ago, and i happened to be in his town so i called him to see what he was doing. he was really friendly on the phone and he asked me what i was getting into..i said i wasnt sure, and asked him what he was doing. he said he just got back from golf and that he wants to shower and then hes not sure..maybe go to the bar..and asked if i wanted to come? i told him i dont have an id to get in and he was joking around being mad and said ..let me shower ill call you back and well figure something out. he called back 30 minutes later and he said he promised his friend hed stop by the bar for an hour and a half and that if i had an id hed pick me up and wed go together, but he said hed call in 1.5 hours and hed pick me and my friends up and wed all hang out. he never called until 245 that morning, meanwhile he was supposed to call around 11ish? he called and said "we're coming"..i was staying in a hotel, so he told me he didnt care how much it costs he was getting a room so we could hang out because he wants to see me really badly and hasnt seen me in about 2 months( which was our last visit)..he told all his friends he was marrying me..and he said..they were on their way. i told him to not come cause it was late, and i didnt want him going out of the way. he said "no im only 10 minutes away now, im getting a room there, i dont care how much it costs" and then he said "well if u dont want me to come tell me cause i dont wanna drive there, get a room, and then you cant hang out." so i told him to forget about it and he said "well if you change your mind please call me"

what does this mean? does he like me?

2007-04-21 10:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by lindsay m 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll do anything!!

2007-04-21 10:13:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 10:12:26 · 20 answers · asked by sandt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering what peoples longest relationship is :)

for me its 7 months(i'm 18 though lol).

2007-04-21 10:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by geon106 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey what are some good "flirting" tips I should do when I'm talking to a guys at a dance?

2007-04-21 10:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by smile1234 1 in Singles & Dating

i m a student of telecom engre in PAKISTAN ...6 months ago a girl said to me "I LOVE U"..she is my neighbour.i made possible her admission 2 the university.we love each other v v much..she announced me before her class as a FIANCE..but sudenly our family clash started,,now she no more love me..now i hv realized that she had withdraw..i think she had flirted me..in comming wednesday, i would go to her class in the presence of their teacher n announce that she was never my FIANCE.,she had told a lie to the class..she had a flirty nature....to teach her the lesson for flirting may i do it or not plz awnser

2007-04-21 10:09:24 · 7 answers · asked by mosa k 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is meant for the ladies only. I am doing a survey for my documentary "Why Women Prefer Older Men."I will tell you ladies what I think:

For me, older men make me feel special. They have a lot of knowledge about a variety of situations. Their conversation is intelligent and worth my while. It just seems like they are on a whole different level than younger men. Older men teach you things that a younger man can’t. They make you think about things. They keep you going and excited. I like them to be at least 4 years older than me. However, that can be arranged because some men that are 1 or 2 years older are just as mature. It really depends on what that person has been through. Not to say that I would not date a younger man because it has happened plenty of times, my preference just lies with older.

Oh and just for you knowledge, I am 18.
Please answer my question and give your explanation.
Thank you : )

2007-04-21 10:08:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it right 4 my b/f/f 2 not IM me when shes on? Cuz shes not!

2007-04-21 10:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by кιяѕтү ;; 3 in Friends

Do you ever think that you wish you could have had your first kiss with the person you will be your soulmate? It makes me sad that I wasted one of the most special moments on someone who it wasnt going to work out with.

2007-04-21 10:06:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls, if you had been born a guy would would want to be circumcised as a baby? Why or why not? Would you feel violated later in life is a piece of your sexual anatomy was cutt off at birth?

Thanks!

2007-04-21 10:04:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am pregnant. i am 17 and even thought it is legal my mum and dad will kill me. My brother got his girlfriend pregnant when he had just turned 18 and my dad hasnt spoken to him since and that was 3 years ago!!! he says he does not want anything to do with a 'scum' child as he called it... my mother regularly talks to my brother although she does frown upon his relationship with my nephews mother. but she loves my nephew stephen. now im pregnant and the worst part is the father is a boy my dad has banned me from seeing because hes 'not our type'... my family are quite well off but my boyfriend is from the rougher part of town... i dont want to have an abortion becuase i dont like it! i am sooooooo confused please help me... i dont want this baby but i also dont want to get rid of it i cant tell my father!

2007-04-21 10:03:25 · 22 answers · asked by rachael g 2 in Family

Its not hard whooping your kids or pinching them a tad bit to get them to quiet down. There are so many white children that does drugs, cut, runaway, and feel peer pressured into things!!!

2007-04-21 10:02:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have an ex ive been still friends with and she has a boyfriend now. We still talk and everything but shes been sending me text messages talking abot she is wearing low cut shirts and she thanked me for telling her that she looked beautiful and that I still make her hot and everything. Once again she still has a boyfriend and she also says we're getting back together as son as they split. I don't know what to do. She says she really likes this guy a lot but she is still sending me this stuff as late as yesterday. when should I make my move? should I even make a move? HELP!!! I need advice.

2007-04-21 09:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by loner8671 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my gf are both 19 we have been together for 5 years ( i know its a long time) but lately we have had a few arguments and she has left me. i desperately want her back and to make things work however hard it is, but she keeps saying that she thinks shes made the right decision. please help me!!!!

2007-04-21 09:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Ryansmith19 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her husband is great. She loves him to death, but made an agreement with him long ago. She told her husband that when she gets angry, he can punish her. He would never physically hurt her... so instead when she yells at him, he picks her up, strips her naked and ties her hands up over her head and her legs to the bed while she is sobbing and crying and screaming COMPLETELY EXPOSED. He also opens the shades/windows and turns on the lights and calls her "slut." She almost convulses she gets so mad and has a hard time breathing. He doesn't let her get up and dressed until she has calmed down. He says bondage and nudity will cause her to submit! Well he did it the other day while I was over and I wanted to help but she kept telling me not to... so I had to watch her endure this. She was so humiliated and hasn't called me since. What should I do about her, but more importantly about her situation. She is such a weak person!

2007-04-21 09:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by kaybeaner 1 in Marriage & Divorce