Please help me why is she acting like this and what should i act like when i see her?

Question

Hi I am a guy and I am in 9th grade. I have known this girl for about 1 month and a half who is in 10th grade and this girl is the cousin of my best guy friend. So since when I met this girl I liked her since the first time I saw her and everything. She added me on myspace and on messenger and we talked almost every day on messenger and in school. Every time I would sign in on messenger she would be the 1st one to send me a message and we started a good conversation and because she goes on my bus she would ask me why didn’t I go in the bus that day and stuff like that. On Thursday I decided to tell her if she wanted to go around with me and that I loved her a lot on messenger because I thought it was the time already. After I told her this she was surprised and said “O really” and then we started a conversation and then she suddenly said “sorry but right now I don’t feel like having a boyfriend. Then I told her ok then just be friends. On Friday it was real strange because I signed on to messenger she was on also but never sent me a message until I sent her one. We talked and everything but it wasn’t the same as before I told her all this. Now on Monday I don’t want to go on the bus because I don’t know if she is mad at me or something so I don’t know how should I talk to her. PLEASE HELP ME WHY IS SHE ACTING LIKE THIS AND WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO WHEN I GET ON THE BUS. I THINK THAT SHE MAY EMBARRASS ME IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS AND ALSO HER FRIENDS IN THE BUS WILL MAKE FUN OF ME.

Answer 1

forget about it and just get on with life theres plenty more fish in the sea

Answer 2

When you tell a girl that you like her and stuff like that, she doesn't know how to act around you. So on Monday, go sit by her on the bus and just talk to her like you would with all you other friends. A girl will tell only her friends when it comes to something like this. Only if you told your friends, they might make fun of you. But 9 times out of 10 they dont' care. But there might be a little silence. But just break it by talking to her as your friend, not as the girl you like. Hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

You were a bit too fast in telling her you love her.
She sees you more as a good friend and now you scared her off. So leave her alone for a while. In the bus you just say "Hello"or just smile at her but don't start a conversation.
Create some distance between you and her. Try to see her as a friend, not as your special girlfriend and leave her in peace. But don't feel embarressed. In her heart she is probably flattered about your confession.
Make fun and enjoy life with your friends.

Answer 4

Look, she doesn't like you like that so now that you told her you do like her, she is backing off.She is probably worried that you are mad at her for not going out with you so she didn't contact you first. Most of us worry about the same things. It is just normal. Just be polite and act confident, like this happens all the time and you're fine with it. She is not going to embarrass you on the bus. Just let her know it is fine that you aren't going out and that you'd like to remain friends. She is not mad, she just doesn't want to encourage you if she doen't feel the same way. You didn't do anything wrong and there's nothing to be embarrassed about. You were brave and nice and that is all. It will be uncomfortable between you two and that is also normal. Just play things cool.

Answer 5

I don't think that she will embarrass you infront of all your friends or hers because if she is a true friend to you and she wouldnt want to her your friendship, then she won't say nothing infront of no one. If actually expirienced the same situation with a friend of mine, she told me that she liked me, but at that time I saw her like my best friend, no more than that, after that day i started acting strange because it's weird to know that your best friend likes you. But through time, I learned to accept it and that she will forget that she even liked me, an so she did. Her problem is that she is to freaked out right now, she feels bad for saying sorry to you because she wasn't trying to hurt you. Jus give her some time and space and everything will be back to normal. But the hardest part will be you letting go of your feelings for her.

Answer 6

Dude, she's just not that into you. Her loss. Lots more women on myspace. Just act natural on the bus and be friendly, but don't pressure her into anything more. You both know you like her, so the ball is in her court to make the next move. And there is no reason that you should be embarrased about liking her. That happens to everyone. We all like her.

Sincerely,

Your bus driver.

Answer 7

Ah, romance! The best thing to do is pretend nothing has happened between you--you're not mad, just busy, and have too many things to do to keep up with her every second of the day. Have fun with your other friends and other people you know and pretty soon she will see you are doing OK and will ask you how you've been doing. Tell her you're fine, but busy. Don't worry about it, things will work out.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Hey. I'm in 7th grade and the sorta same thing happend to me. Ok so pretty much the whole world knows I have a bf and 2 guys told me they liked me(but at totally different times in 1 month) One of them tells his friends he hates me but when he gets on the bus, he trys to kiss me. The other is ALL OVER ME and he isn't shy around me at all. It makes me feel awkward and nervous and thats probably how that girl feels around u. I mean the one that's all over me freaks me out and I tell him to stop but he doesn't and we use to be good friends, but not as much as u and that girl. I think she just feels awkward around u. I think you should leave her alone and let her deiced when she wants to talk to u so she'll feel better around u. HOPE THIS HELPS!

Answer 10

I am sure she is acting like that because she is not interested in you that much right now and just wants to be friends. Just be nice to her and don't bother her as much and she will come around if she likes you. If you keep bothering her she will probably stop having anything do do with you. Good Luck!

Answer 11

I think you scared her off with your emotions, since the time apparently wasn't right. Just be cool, not unfriendly, but cool. Whatever you do, don't bring it up, don't ask her what happened, just pretend it never happened.
If she says something embarrassing, just smile, shrug, and start talking to someone else. It's hard to face that situation, but you'll survive! Remember, BE COOL, no reaction. Practice.