Family & Relationships - 21 April 2007

I got involved with a guy who has supposedly not been with his wife for almost six years. They are separated..which I know opens up a whole new can of worms. I didn't plan on things to happen this way because I know that being separated is not the same thing as being divorced. But I fell for him hook line and sinker. The only thing is I am beginning to get suspicious. First we have never been to his place. He always only comes to mine. Also there will be times when I talk to him every day, and then times when we go a week without talking to one another. He mainly tends to call on the weekend and he always claims that this is because of work. The final thing is, when he comes over he always gets up and leaves before morning comes. I don't know if this means anything or if i'm being paranoid or if it means that he just sees me as a booty call. What do you think?

2007-04-21 14:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 14:31:22 · 30 answers · asked by collectivetheresa 2 in Weddings

I wonder what most husbands normally do in marriage to make their wives happy. My ex-husband never did much to make me happy. Yet, he said that I always complained and was never happy.

His focus was always money and it was an inconvenience for him to spend money the way that I wanted or he always felt that I "wasted" money.

His mother claims that other than anger and control (the only problems that he has), he can give me a lot of happiness. I did not see that.

2007-04-21 14:21:10 · 20 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We married since 6 years ago. I married her thought she is kind and she need somone to help her to change. I did everything possible to help her start loosing weight - she refused- helping her getting a job- refused with the excuse that if she found a job and work I will leave her- I even tried to help her get back on track and get her college degree she kept dealying untill just last year finally started school. Day to day life she does not have a schedule sleeping all day no weekend to spend togther because she spend all night reading or plying video games. our girls stay late till 3 am dirty kitchen , laundry every were on the floor. I am the only one who work and finance all her expenses and toyes. I am feeling I waiting for something will never come talked to her 1000 times nothing changed. she went to doctors once to see if she is depressed and did not want to continue because he basically told her same thing i was telling her for the last few years. be active, ... i gave up

2007-04-21 14:12:58 · 15 answers · asked by manfromearth2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad CANNOT hear anything and whenever i suggest a hearing aid he ignores me what should i do?

2007-04-21 14:06:49 · 16 answers · asked by BLONDI 1 in Family

do u think a 19 gril is too young for a 31guy/men
he has 2 kids 11 boy and 6 boy and deverce she just meet him but i dont know if i loves him yet i like every him much but dont know if i like him b/c he is famous
im just scare b/c he has more life experience then me

2007-04-21 14:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 14:04:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the 10 points. I had cancer for the first time in my early 20's. It was uterine. I would never have kids. At age 39 I married for the first time and he had 2 beautiful daughters. 4 years ago the youngest one, had a precious little boy. For reasons I won't go into, she just wasn't ready to be a mother or a wife. She divoriced & he was given sole custody. It was left to me and my husband to take on the responsiblity of raising him. & for the last 4 years that's what we've done. Not one week has gone by where we didn't see him. I'm the biggest female presence in his life and we've delvoped a bond that is strong and unbreakable. At times he slips up and calls me "mama". He is my heart, my soul, and he is truly my reason for living.

I was told I had cancer again & they say it's terminal. But I won't believe that. God wouldn't play such a cruel trick. He brought the 2 of us together cause he knew we'd need one another. And for it to end this soon is totally unacceptable.

2007-04-21 13:59:23 · 21 answers · asked by jhash61 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 13:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by bballa 1 in Friends

So, lets just say that I've been married for 13 generic years and love to go on Christian missions trips. Part to convert, and part to meet new girls to give personal attention to.

Anyway, I told the wife I was going to be in Japan for a week on a conversion trip. In actuality, I have been with my Korean girlfriend in Seattle.

Long story short, we got into a bar fight with another couple we were negotiating with for a "special double date" on Thursday night. My Korean girl pulled out a kitchen knife. Next thing I know, we are both arrested for assault and in a King County jail!

I had my credit card, so I bailed myself out. However, I didn't want to put her charge on my card.

I have to get the money wired now from the wife! How do I explain being in Seattle?

Or should I just leave?

I'm an extremely moral person and I just want to do the right thing.

2007-04-21 13:55:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kermit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I FEEL AS THOUGH MY BOYFREIND/BABY FATHER IS CHEATING ON ME BECAUSE HE DOESN'T REALLY LIKE TO KISS ME, HE DOESN'T TOUCH ME ( NOT EVEN SEXUALLY), HE DOESN'T GIVE ME HUGS, AND THE WORST PART IS HE HASN'T HAD SEX WITH ME IN LIKE A WEEK IN A HALF( AND WE HAVE SEX LIKE EVERYDAY ). WE SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AND HE DOESN'T EVEN MAKE A MOVE. SOMETIMES I GET TIRED OF BEING THE AGGRESSOR. HE NEVER REALLY ASKS ME FOR SEX EITHER. BUT THE FLIP SIDE TO IT IS WHEN HE SAY HE IS GOING SOME WHERE LIKE SCHOOL OR TO FIX HIS TIRE, HE REALLY DOES IT ( I KNOW BECAUSE I INVESTIGATE). THE POINT IS HE ACTS AS THOUGH HE IS CHEATING BUT THEN IT SEEMS HE IS REALLY NOT, AND THIS IS REALLY TAKING A TOLL ON ME BECAUSE I AM AN AFFECTIONATE PERSON AND I REALLY LOVE HIM ( HE DOESN'T EVEN TELL ME HE LOVES ME). SO WHAT DOES HIS BEHAVIOR MEAN?

2007-04-21 13:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the begining of the of the year I told some things and now guys dont like me and i bearly talked to them

2007-04-21 13:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by bballa 1 in Friends

Why am I crying over you when all I feel is pain? I know I might be in love with you. I know you never dated me and I'll always have a place for him, but i cant seem to tell you that. it would be embarrising. Why am i crying over you if we both have our own lives?

2007-04-21 13:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shannon H 1 in Singles & Dating

i've had a hard day, i normally get a hug from my gf, but she dumped me a while ago....so hows abouts a hug? :)

2007-04-21 13:49:07 · 43 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

If you broke up with a really great guy, perhaps because you were confused when you were together, have you ever regretted breaking up with him? What did you do? What signs should I look-out for from my ex, if she regrets breaking up but is too afraid to tell me so?

We broke up over a year ago (she wanted to see other guys). I was a really great guy to her, and loved her so much. She was confused back then. Months later we got back in touch, met up and she immediately hugged me longingly and kissed me, saying it was nice to see me. I ignored her, and never spoke to her again for 6 months, until I contacted her again to tell her I still liked her, which she replied also she did. We met for dinner, which was awkward, and ended early without much conversation. I called her a day later, but she then ignores me, until 3 months later, this week, on Monday night at 11pm, she calls. I didn't answer or call her back - am afriad of what she might want?

Girls - what could she want??

2007-04-21 13:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

i have three good friends but one of them is really mean and criticizes everyone and whenever we don't go somewhere with her she starts saying we don't have a social life and i do but my parents are kind of strict. My other two friends don't want to leave her . So i want to know how to meet new people in school so that they are not the only person i hang out with. IT is hard to make friends in my school because everyone knows each other already and they don't need to make new friends. Those of u who are popular in ur school please tell me how u made a lot of friends.

2007-04-21 13:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by blackberry 1 in Friends

I've been talking to someone interesting for about two months now, but we've never met. He's vaguely mentioned something about wanting to meet in person sometime. He emails once a day, but i'm unsure about whether or not he likes me.

....How do I know if I like him? I look forward to getting his emails, and I always smile a lot when I read them, and we share some fairly interesting conversations. He has several qualities that I really like, but others that I wasn't really looking for....So, how do you know if you share a bond with someone online?

Thanks so much.



It's someone my friend introduced me to, not a stranger.

2007-04-21 13:45:23 · 24 answers · asked by Erica 3 in Singles & Dating

I know it doesn't work. I know there could be precum already there. But my boyfriend wanted to have unprotected sex. And i told him no but if he tries to do it again what can I say that will convince him that the pull out method doesnt work. He is pretty convinced that it does work. But I just know it doesn't....

2007-04-21 13:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I have been going out for about 8 months and we have fallen deeply in love-The only problem is that she smokes weed-Now dont get the idea that its habitual but what I dont like is how she does it-She already knows that I dont like it when she smokes but she tries to hid it and smokes behind my back-Then eventually tells me she has-The problem is that this has completely diminished my trust in her and now Im always worrying that she might cheat on me or something-Yesterday she wanted to smoke So she was going to skip lunch and smoke. Well what she did was she smoked in the morning with her sister and then went to school-I thought ok good now she satisfied-Well I guess she wasnt so then she decides to go skip lunch and with these guys to his house to smoke-W/O me-The problem is when she smokes she gets really horny-Well seeing how I dont trust her anymore i dont know if she has cheated on me-She is flirtatious and gets what she wants-I cant talk to her about b/c she gets ma

2007-04-21 13:35:49 · 1 answers · asked by Revenge 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 13:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 13:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by Victoria C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The judge had just awarded a divorce to Lena, who had charged non-support. He said to Ole, "I have decided to give your wife $400 a month for support." "Vell, dat's fine, Judge," said Ole. "And vunce in a while I'll try to chip in a few bucks myself."

2007-04-21 13:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by oldman 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There’s this girl that I thought I was in love with; we experienced our first kisses together. Things between me and her were going well. We had to split up because of circumstances that I’d prefer not to talk about; but I can talk to her now. & that’s what I did. I’ve been very nice and polite in our exchanges. But she is now being very cruel, harsh, and unforgiving to me, even though I was nice and courteous to her when we started to talk again.

I just don’t understand.

She continues to write back angrily whenever I try to talk to her (but not at first). That doesn’t make sense; I’m always very nice to her when we talk. She keeps telling me to go away; she says that she doesn’t want me & always rude about it. When I inquire more about her thoughts and feelings on the subject, she refuses.

I thought I loved her (I even told her I still feel for her and think about her). But she’s being very mean and unforgiving.

What should I do? What should I think? And what do you think?

2007-04-21 13:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible for a male bartender to fall for a female costomer? Is it possible for a male bartender to have a crush on a girl who always comes in?

2007-04-21 13:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

go here:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070421165553AA7V0QD&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwI71nHeM8RFnAytuUiDDzRVk1NODVxiWFCg--&paid=asked&msgr_status=

2007-04-21 13:15:49 · 1 answers · asked by Emilie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 13:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by bobkval 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am super ugly, but my husband of 11 years wont keep his hands off me for a second. He constantly tells me how hot I am and I KNOW I'm not. When will he get tired of me?

2007-04-21 13:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by . 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that when you have a friend who is a girl you always are thinking about more than just a friendship??? like sex is always in the back of your mind?

2007-04-21 13:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that on rare occasions they end up married but what about the other times? how long do they last?

2007-04-21 13:09:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 13:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sara B. 3 in Singles & Dating