Family & Relationships - 21 April 2007

How do I tell him? I'm 13 but still I like him...

2007-04-21 18:52:17 · 1 answers · asked by k_i_l_l_e_r_s_n_i_g_h_t_m_a_r_e 1 in Singles & Dating

The bridesmaids bouque's would all still be matching and look extremely life-like. They do not look tacky at all, they look the real thing. It would just save SO MUCH money. I, however, would carry a bouque that would be much larger and more extravagant. But I do not know the standards for this, what do you guys think?

2007-04-21 18:43:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am interested in finding a woman who wants to have a fling and be discrete, and have a secret life with me?!...lol....is that bad because if it is bad, I am still not kidding

2007-04-21 18:34:33 · 14 answers · asked by jay chase 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 years old. I have been holding in my feelings and emotions for a very long time. I have been suicidal and I wish I never told my mother Thursday night. She told me that only dumb white folks commit suicide (I'm half n half...). She also has a tendency to "sell my business". I'm 21 and I still get grounded. She grounded me because I have my own P.O. Box (that I rented with my own money) and she flushed my key, which I have to pay $10 to get another one. My sisters keep on tellin her that I still speak with psychic readers (which I did a year ago because I am into prophecy) and they're filling her head with more bs. Its taking a toll on me. I can barely work. I told her I'm gettin an apartment this summer and she said that I can't and they will take the car away from me. She took my cell phone and she tells people that I am an up and coming Hip Hop artist, but I am not allowed to record. True story. My friend's mom tells me I need to go and stay in a shelter. Should I leave??

2007-04-21 18:32:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

be many gir dont like man

2007-04-21 18:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if there were no risks would you dont lie

2007-04-21 18:28:56 · 22 answers · asked by stacey m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I should let this go, but I just want to know what someone else think. I had met this guy (who later became my husband) and we had been together about a week...two max, and we were at a party. He was totally wasted and there was this girl there. I could use choice words to describe her but I will leave that out. Anyway when he was in the kitchen with her he kissed her. I didn't find out about it until the next day and a friend told me. I confronted him and he got upset and told me he didn't have a reason he did it other then he was drunk and he was sorry. He was really apologetic and he never did anything like that again. We have now been together a long time, but I always wonder...was that cheating?Please no dumb answers!

2007-04-21 18:27:32 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on a swim team all throughout high school and college. Then I got a great paying job, but I was getting fat because I didn't have enough to time to swim. Many people told me I was dumb and immature for quitting, but I quit. After a few months, I started my own business with NO help from my parents, and began making more money than at my old office job, AND I have a lot of free time now. I'm in really good shape now because of swimming, I have all my hair, so EVERYONE tells me I look younger, some people think I'm in high school. Even though I make a good living, my dad is always telling me to "grow up". He hates that I'm always swimming, or doing tricks on either my skateboard or rollerblades. I bought a trampoline, and began going to the gymnastics center again. I started doing le parkour, jumping from roofs, rock climbing, rappelling, and climbing trees. My dad says I act like a 16 year old, but I make good money.

Why is it such a problem for him what I do for fun?

2007-04-21 18:25:38 · 12 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Family

Whoo..I'm so hurt right now..but anyhow I met this guy at my gym he was a personal trainer, and basically he asked me out when I intially met him, but I didn't take him up on his offer, so a few months past, and I asked him to join me at starbucks, he told me he was busy, then we put it off and he told me he was too broke, so thogught to myself, okay I'm not messing with tim because he['s flaky, so i see him at the gym about three weeks ago and he asks me out again...and he calls me a few days later and tells me his uncle and close friend died, and that when he sees me at the gym, he'll let me know when we can hang out again..so a few days laster I see him, and he text messages me, asking me "How come i didn't speak to him? And I'm thinking Huh...but you were training? So today,.I just ask him flat out if there is anyone at the current moment that he likes more than a friend" and he tells me that there is and she's his top myspace friend..so i ask him if he likes me more than a frie

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and he tells me that "He can't say that he do" and goes on to say he isn't attracted to me in that way, but does say that he does find me to be very good looking and cool, but he just doesn;t see me in that way...so I'm feeling like crap. what should I do?

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I know he's 25, still lives at home with hos parents, and is a sunday school teacher..but he is definetly is a good catch don't you think?

2007-04-21 18:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IF the proof is the last 3 months phone bill and it shows calls days and nights + she is his secretary and his wife does not even like her..he even call her on her days off..when they were confronted they said these calls are regarding business matters but he did call her very late and many times he blocked the numbers. They are both married, how could someone proof a cheating? Is it what I know enough?

2007-04-21 18:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by meemo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If its legally possible, how do i get married?neither of us want to convert.i stay in chennai. plz help.

2007-04-21 18:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by sure 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is a shrink or pastor better for counseling couples and families. I heard Dr. Gene Scott said God didn't want to hear about marital problems, just get divorced. What does his widow Pastor Melissa Scott advise?

2007-04-21 18:20:46 · 1 answers · asked by StanfordGrad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm falling for a girl I work with. Only problem is she has a boyfriend. Not into breaking people up but I really like her. It seems like she is interested in me to. We will hangout at work, flirt with eachother, joke around. It seems like shes not happy with her relationship. I just don't know how to tell her how I feel.

2007-04-21 18:11:03 · 22 answers · asked by TOMMY 1 in Singles & Dating

going down on women?

2007-04-21 18:06:28 · 2 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have a boyfriend named brandon and i have couht him cheat8ing b4 well other people told me i dont no if its true or not so im just like uhhhh. lol and he gets mad at me all the time for stupid thangs like answering the phone when a dif boy calls. but he treats me like **** but i dont no why i have feelings for him and he calls other girls and stuff. and everytime we get in a fight its my fault not his. if i get mad at huim we break up. and it is confusing. i just to belike a girl he dont wanna loose you no wht i mean???HELP PLEASE!

2007-04-21 18:04:16 · 1 answers · asked by brkluvsya 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 17:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by amwid-u:) 2 in Family

My wife wants a divorce. We have been married for 16 years and she said she is not "in love with me anymore" Problem is I don't believe her. We were having major issues in our marriage but we also did alot of fun things together with our two teenage kids. She has started a new job last July and right after the new year I noticed a change in her behavior. I love my wife very much and will do everything in my power to save our marriage. I Am in counselling and realize the things I did to hurt our marriage and I will correct them. She will not get counselling and I have found out that she has been talking on her cell to a male co-worker an aweful lot over the past few months. I want to call him and tell him that this is our marriage and our children and our lives that he is talking to her about and that he needs to stop whatever the hell he is doing because it is destroying our marriage. I know we can work this out if she is willing and he stops feeding her BS! I want my family back!!!!!

2007-04-21 17:39:13 · 16 answers · asked by da_catcar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well Im about 4-5 weeks PRegnant after having sex with a guy who was my bestfriend and reallly Loved me i have known him since High SChool and im now 19.He was supporting whatever choice i made but when i made it clear that i wanted to keep it he totally changed his mind!!! he told me that he doesnt want the responsibility and Hes not Ready and he TELLS ME IM NOT EITHER!! but at first i wanted to have this baby but i dont want it growing up without a father figure...it was a one time thing with a guy i thought cared about me turns out i was wrong...my family totally backs me emotionally and Financially...But im still ToRn because i really dont want my child to grow up without a father figure
Do men still find women with Children Attractive???
Can i Still Pursue all My Goals in Life???
how can i help think this through Logically?!!?

2007-04-21 17:38:40 · 14 answers · asked by Alley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And why is it so important for a girl to be a virgin and not a guy ?

2007-04-21 17:32:00 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have her number, email address, and she wants to go out with me, but 2 concerns: leaving for the east coast, and recently had a bad breakup..i had nothing to do with it but we prob had a closer relationship than we should have at that point..she is moving closer to her family, and wants me to visit her...but how often can u really fly across the country u know...we are also both grad students in school...complicated to say the least

2007-04-21 17:30:35 · 1 answers · asked by Diddy 2 in Singles & Dating

The wedding and bachlorette party are both supposed to be in vegas. She doesn't have much money to spend and I don't want to go drinking, plus she (MOH) can't because she is underage. The bachlorette party is only 4 girls all together and on a thursday night at the end of May! Any Ideas??

2007-04-21 17:30:05 · 3 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Weddings

He is going to live with him for about 3 months until I can save up to move to the same state. (my son has a disability and I need to work but no daycares will take him...plus I need a little break) So he is going to California to stay with my "still legal husband" but we are sperated. Then the husband is saying once I get there he wants my oldest son to continue to live with him...and I don't want that. He needs to be with me and his younger brother...you can't raise children seperately!! (both kids are with the same husband but my youngest is normal and can go to day care so I can work) Sorry this is so long/ I need to know if anyone has clues on what kind of court doc I need to obtain so that I won't have issues when I move to Cali etc...thanks

2007-04-21 17:28:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was at a party and met this girl I had met previously a couple months before.......she had remembered me and started talking to me and I remembered how cute i thought she was, so I was flirting with her a bit, but then moved on.........I had friends I haven't seen in a while, and I remember she told me several times that she was going to be leaving for another party but may be coming back later.
Well the thing was, I saw her after an awkward moment of being one of several guys that forgot her name (we're human it happens), so while we were kidding around, I asked her (after like the 4th time she went out of her way to tell me she was leaving and "may" be coming back, I took it as a sign and said "In case you may not be coming back tonight, you mind if I give you a call sometime?",
then her eyes darted toward the other direction and she gritted her teeth and looked like she was in deep thought.
My heart sank........Why was that wrong?
So she then said "Yeah, I think I'll be coming back", hardly looking at me and then walking away. Then she never came back again and to be honest, it was embarrassing. Im 26, btw, so it hurt even more. She was probably a few years younger. Let me point out, that even though I got my ego bruised, it was more my pride that got pounded because I consider myself outgoing, friendly, and assertive when need be. At this time, I felt I had played it cool and not talked her ear off when she started talking to me again, and Im not a player. So it's not like i had all these different gfs and I hit on her.....
This happened on New Year's Eve btw and it still hurts. Why am I letting this affect me so much?

Why is it that i would rather eat glass than go through that again? You have to understand that her reaction was an underscore of lots of disappointment in my love life......life in general really. At 26, don't you find that to be a little embarrassing? I didn't know I was a 70 year old convicted sex-offender. You know, I didn't know that.

2007-04-21 17:24:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my friends want to do something Sunday (tomorrow) and we don't have money.... So please help, what can we do without money!!!!! (thats fun)

2007-04-21 17:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

just wanted to know what the world thought

2007-04-21 17:16:10 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship with someone for 8 months. We started having problems, and we broke up. But before all the issues started, we did everything together!!!! There wasn't one moment we didn't see or talk to each other. And as time passed, I admitt that I started to change. I wasn't the same person I was in the beginning. And now that its OVER between us, I feel like it is completely my fault, and I regret hurting him so bad. I didn't think about how things would be in the future... but honestly I realized that I DO LOVE HIM!!!!!!! We told each other we loved one another, and I know he meant it. He did EVERYTHING for me, and I just screwed everything up. It so bad that my mom doesn't even like him anymore, but she doesn't know how I really feel deep down inside. I LOVE HIM... and I know he STILL loves me. But its been months, and he has a *new* girlfriend. I wish I could just start over again, and be happy. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I MISS HIM SO MUCH YA'LL?!?

2007-04-21 17:15:34 · 11 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is for dead beat dads and i need a free site to find where he is working but he is in another state, and i have NO credit card and it needs to be completelyFREE!!!!! PLZ HELP ME

2007-04-21 17:05:28 · 2 answers · asked by ddamboy2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its a small wedding. shes not spending much. And she cant really afford anything big, and Maids-of honor do a lot and I dont have a job so what can i do??

2007-04-21 16:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by futuresuperstar_91 1 in Weddings

I love to scare people and i think i could make a job out of it. I'm very good at it. I freak people out!! My friends say it's mean but it's so fun, Do you think scareing people is mean? People say I'm Michael jackson in the movie GHOST scarie is that bad?? thanks

2007-04-21 16:50:47 · 19 answers · asked by James Dean Girl <3 2 in Friends

Ok my best friend that i've known since 7th grade is finally, after an 8 year engagement going to marry the man that i introduced her to in High School.She wants the maid of honor (me) aswell as the best man to make a speech...I'm terrible at writing...so i need suggestions and a basic outline of a good wedding speech..I intend on adding some things from my heart ...so does anyone know where i can see samples of maid of honor speeches...or some beautiful heart felt poetry that i could throw in?? any advice or samples of speeches would really help me

2007-04-21 16:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by JeN 1 in Weddings