Family & Relationships - 21 April 2007

I’ve been married for 7 years now and we have a 5 yr old son together. My husband travels every few months on business for weeks at a time leaving me to take care of the boy sometimes on my own. I not only have to put up with a 5yr old but also with my husband being away so it is any surprise I had a year long affair? I’m 31 and deserve a lot better. I don’t plan on telling him about the affair because I just know he’s going to try to make it out to be my fault. Why do so many people automatically assume it’s the cheaters fault for cheating?

2007-04-21 02:08:45 · 32 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just started dating someone,not more than a month,your not even official,all over sudden you develop strong feelings,is it wise to a let him/her know or you better fall back and wait?

2007-04-21 02:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in love with a girl name kristen perdue but shes seeing a guy named ryan page but it aint giong out well and she said to her friends she proabally goint to dump him and i want to make a move on her when shes avalible but my best fried tyler boykin loves her too butevery girl i ever liked he liked so i let him have all the girls and i dont wont to let him have this girl but ill hurt inside and wont feel right cause me best friend tyler weve done everything together and even liked the same girl do yall think i should make a move on her if you do tell me why or do you think i should let my best friend have her and why if you think i should take a move on her give me advice my name is michael ross the first one with good advice that works or a best why to let my freiend have her will get 10 points and thanks for answering thank i do really love this girl

2007-04-21 02:00:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and his girlfriend have been close friends for three years, and we've only known each other for about one year, and we aren't close. About two weeks ago I chanced upon his myspace profile and email and we chatted for a bit on messenger. A close friend of his told me that he likes me(his friend didn't know I liked him), about as much as he liked his girlfriend, but there were rumours that I was dating a guy, so he didn't want to try to ask me out, as he had his morals. He had only just gotten together with his girlfriend(about a week ago). Then a few days ago, we happened to be doing some community service together and he suddenly says that if he ever breaks up, he'll want me as his girlfriend. This was after he had asked me if the rumours were true. I really like this guy, as he barely knows me, but he's really sweet. He happened to hear that I was upset, and he knew that I liked stuffed toys, so he bought me a stuffed bear. We might've gone steady, but bad timed events, we're not.

2007-04-21 01:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by blackcandles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-21 01:37:47 · 17 answers · asked by rold g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 01:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have custody of tmy 2 daughters and there mother owes me $11,000 in back support. The child support agency has been very unhelpful. Recently she filed income taxes and the aency told me they would intercept them and send it to me..She called yesterday laughing because she some how received her tax returns..Can the incompetant agency be held reliable? I know dozens of men here in Wisconsin that have been to jail for falling $500 or less behind...shes $11,000 behind and NO action taken yet...any advice?

2007-04-21 01:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by marc54847 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone has their "thing" that they want/need in a relationship. For some people, missionary position is enough. (Gosh don't know who these people are). For others fuzzy handcuffs and the like are more the flavor of choice. What if your partner was into DD? (please google if you don't know what I'm referring to) I need men's perspectives mostly because men have been raised that it's wrong to hit a women. So what would your reaction be if that's precisely what your partner wanted? (Remember this being a consentual relationship...I'm not talking wife beater here).

Would this be something you'd think your partner needed therapy for or would/could you accept it as a kink? Thanks in advance for opinions and thoughts on the matter.

2007-04-21 01:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i met this puerto rican guy on myspace he's 27 im and 18 year old african american girl. he really cute we talked in a chat room then i became his friend. on his page there's nothing that explains what he likes or his interests. he say that im cute and that he wants to be with me but im a little worried because he doesnt know me but says that he really likes me and wants to be with me. i ask him alot of question that does not get answered accurately. he just answer with romantic remarks that all females would like to hear. im starting to wonder if he's some kind of starker or something cuz in his page there's a pic of a big eye for a layout. what should i do about my situation should i keep talking to him or let him go?

p.s i also noticed that he has two 18 year old females as his friends as well i asked him if he feels the same of them the way he does with me and he said "i would never cheat on u/ "i want u and only you" is this a sign of a predator on myspace. i want to know.

2007-04-21 00:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by RiChea B 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i am 36 going to be 37 in june . i am from india . although people here marry usually in arranged marriage i have always found it ludicrous . but on the other hand i have never found true long lasting love either . if a girl likes me i dont like her ; if both of us like each other there is some other hitch . kind of like a male ally mcbeal . am i alone or are there others like me out there too ?

2007-04-21 00:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by atmaram 1 in Singles & Dating

Explain the mean of love

2007-04-21 00:36:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-21 00:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is a common question already but i'm so dense about this stuff. This guy pays more attention to me than to any of his friends. He's the only guy who actually looks at pictures I post on my page and comments on them. They're all very endearing comments but nothing is clear. Even the emails that he sends me are hazy. Is this guy just being friendly?Gay? or What? Thanks hope you can help.:)

2007-04-21 00:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by holly_golightly 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to find some modern wedding song ideas for my wedding. All the songs people recommend are quite old. My fiance and I dont like the old songs.
Can anyone recommend newly released songs?

Thanks :)

2007-04-21 00:08:08 · 11 answers · asked by carms 2 in Weddings

The party is going to have 300 people there.
Alot of them are my age.

2007-04-21 00:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Kayla 2 in Friends