I got involved with a guy who has supposedly not been with his wife for almost six years. They are separated..which I know opens up a whole new can of worms. I didn't plan on things to happen this way because I know that being separated is not the same thing as being divorced. But I fell for him hook line and sinker. The only thing is I am beginning to get suspicious. First we have never been to his place. He always only comes to mine. Also there will be times when I talk to him every day, and then times when we go a week without talking to one another. He mainly tends to call on the weekend and he always claims that this is because of work. The final thing is, when he comes over he always gets up and leaves before morning comes. I don't know if this means anything or if i'm being paranoid or if it means that he just sees me as a booty call. What do you think?
2007-04-21 14:49:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, sounds like he is VERY MARRIED.
The whole, never going to his place thing should have been a big clue. try calling his house during the week, and see if she's there. If she is, tell her he's been cheating - it's good revenge.
2007-04-21 14:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by amazing but clumsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what it means. If you havent met any of his family or friends, I then would be really suspicious. He surely has a job, friends, neighbors or someone you have met who can confirm whether he is still with his wife.
I would start investigating this whole thing and see what you come up with. I would just plain ask and see what he says.
2007-04-21 21:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do a little snooping into his wallet when he falls asleep for a little bit and check his address and then go to the address and find out who is at that address and if he is using you i would be sure to let him know and get even with him, guy's like to do that type of thing they seem to think that it is fun and games and it's not hurting anyone, but to there surprise they need to see it is hurting more than just 1 person!
2007-04-21 21:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you are combination of booty call and that he is probably still married and is just telling his wife that you are his business trip.
No you are not being paranoid.
2007-04-21 22:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Have you tried asking him? Have you guys ever gone on any dates out in public? If he's still with his wife, he probably won't take you into public where people might spot you. Umm.. or maybe you could ask to meet his family, and a guy probably won't bring you home to his family if he has a wife. But still, I wouldn't accuse him until you're sure, because you'd probably feel really bad if it turns out he has no wife...
2007-04-21 21:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please open your eyes. It is obvious this guy is still with his wife. Try to get him to take you to his home, if he doesn't then you know what you have to do. Maybe you can follow him when he leaves some morning and see where he goes! I would. And if it is home to his wife, I would knock on the door and confront him right there.
2007-04-21 21:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right. He is using you for a booty call.
He IS with his wife and probably has another girlfriend on the side too.
2007-04-21 21:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your hunch, he is using you for booty call. He's either still with his wife, or with another woman. Go find yourself another and unattached one.
2007-04-21 21:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by taray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he IS still with his wife
and you ARE just a booty call
2007-04-21 21:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋