I am super ugly, but my husband of 11 years wont keep his hands off me for a second. He constantly tells me how hot I am and I KNOW I'm not. When will he get tired of me?
2007-04-21 13:13:05 · 25 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You big tricker.....youre super hot remember.....lol
2007-04-21 13:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. Look around you. Attraction and one person's assessment of your beauty is considerably influenced by their feelings for you. Second of all, the only thing that is ugly about you is your self-esteem and self-confidence. You should be thanking your lucky stars that he desires you so much after 11 years and loves you. You could be me and have your husband trade you in for a newer model. Do something for yourself that makes YOU feel more beautiful!! Your husband is NOT the one with the problem. Be Happy.
2007-04-21 13:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by a29mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's been married to you for 11 years.. obviously he loves you. No matter what you look like he loves you for you.
Once you've been with a person for a while, you start to love everything about them, even their flaws.
If you have very low-esteem, I suggest you get a friend to give you a makeover... a fun time for you and your friends.... professional makeovers are more expensive and they dont know your personality like your friends do.
You might be the only one who thinks that you are ugly.
GIrl, you got a good man. He won't keep his hands off of you? I wish my man was like that. And he tells you how hot you are? Gosh, you are so lucky. My boyfriend has only told me once "why you getting dressed up for?" He's NEVER called me sexy or beautiful. I would die to have my boyfriend, whom I love very much, he's the father of my daughter and I can picture us getting married one day, to tell me I'm sexy or beautiful.
I have very low self esteem myself, although guy strangers have tried to talk to me and get my number when I go places... and it would make my day to have my own man tell me that. I have to hear it from strangers that "oh, you are sexy" or "you must be good in bed" (not the best compliment to hear at a gas station, I almost punched the guy out).
Being togehter for 11 years... and he's your husband... hmm... dont think he'll get tired anytime soon.
2007-04-21 13:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mami 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between repulsive and ugly. repulsive people are not groomed and have bad hygeine. you probably do pretty well in those departments and are a nice person. he must really love you. not keeping his hands off you is a good thing, it means that he is most lkely not having sex with anyone else and he really loves you. try not to feel so self conscious because you could ruin a good marriage. also try to make yourself look as good as possible. get into shape weare clothes that flatter your body get the best haircute and color and the best makeup. make your skin look nice. it will make it even better
2007-04-21 14:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by babeecakes510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband of 11 years... won't keep his hands off you?
Why are you even asking?
Do you want him to stop being attracted to you.... most married couples lose that initial 'spark' after 3-6 years.... 11 YEARS!!!!
>.>.....I wouldn't complain if I was you.
And I'm sure you're not ugly like you think you are. If you were you wouldn't have been married for eleven years....-.-
2007-04-21 13:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by dollbabe92 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
According to who? Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.If your hubby thinks youre hot then who really cares what the rest of the world thinks. His admiration of you can last forever, but then nothing good lasts forever so just be appreciative of the time you have with this loving man. Quit putting yourself down unless youre trying to impress someone else. Start thinking of yourself as the luckiest hottest playmate bunny in th world with the greatest man in the world who loves you. Good luck
2007-04-21 13:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he thinks you're attractive! You almost sound like you WANT him to get tired of you. Be glad that after 11 years of marriage he still adores you, many women are not that fortunate regardless of how attractive they happen to be.
Also, try to lay off the self-deprecating comments because one day he might actually believe your hype and look for someone else who has a higher opinion of herself.
2007-04-21 13:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by eunosgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Why do you want him to get tired of you? Most girls would want their husbands constantly telling them how hot they are, whether they were or not. Maybe he is into ugly chicks; different strokes for different folks! Unless you really want to get rid of him, go for it
2007-04-21 13:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings! Your man thinks you are hot, so relax and realize that in his eyes you are what turns him on.
If you are lucky, he will never get tired of you. If he does, send him my way... I could sure use a hot man... (just kidding, I would NEVER take another woman's man.)
2007-04-21 14:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your husband finds you attractive--be grateful and appreciative, and love him back. He'll never get tired of you.
2007-04-25 03:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11yrs and your still hot to him. he wont be getting tired of you .. and remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder... if your dont have outter beauty then what he is seeing is inner beauty.. remember the movie shallow hal.. what he saw when he was looking at inner beauty and not outter... remember what the women who dated the man with a disabiity looked like to hall .. everyone saw a beautiful woman but when you saw her through his eyes she was dog ugly.. and when you saw his date through his eyes she was beautiful...be happy you man see you as this hottie.. and you more than likely are pretty... but us women are so jugemental when it come to looks.. if we dont look like the women in the mags then we are not pretty.. those mags are made up by other women and gay men.. and they would not want to be with us any way lol
2007-04-21 13:52:16 · answer #11 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋