2007-04-21 14:04:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not looking for a perfect relationship. I want some advice about how to find the man for me.
2007-04-21 14:05:17 · update #1
I am very confident and have alot of self respect. It just I have never found a man who floats my boat. Where should I look?
2007-04-21 14:14:36 · update #2
I'm here!
2007-04-21 14:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat as you not to long ago. The best thing to do is stop looking, trust me if it's meant to be he'll find you. But if you want to keep looking try getting involved in things that interest you or try making a new friend. That's the best way to meet a guy, that's how me and my bf met.
2007-04-29 13:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start getting involved in activities that you enjoy doing and see what guys would like to participate as well.
There are many ways, what I'd recommend is not to be specifically "looking". If you put the intention out there that "I am looking for a man I'd like to be in a relationship with", I guarentee that one day you will.
When you are "looking" I believe you are specifically limiting yourself to who you find, if you just let someone find you, or find someone not when you are "looking", you'll be more open about who they are as a person without those restrictions some people have... "He has to have this, that, be like this and do these things". Etc...etc...
I hope that helps. :D
2007-04-21 19:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
The best way is either:
1. Through a club or location that says a lot about your interests. If you like painting, start an evening class and you'll meet guys who also like painting. If you like gigs, go to some with your friends and you'll find men who like gigs :-)
or
2. Internet dating!!
People judge it and slam it, but honestly, it's the only way you can really tick your criteria off just by looking at a man. It's like window shopping! One hour into a conversation and you'll know if he's for real or not.
The internet is not just full of pervs and losers.
I'm 22 and I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago! Best thing I ever did!!
try:
http://www.match.com
http://www.datetheuk.com (where I met my bf)
What have you got to lose?!
Have fun window shopping!
xx Emmie
2007-04-21 15:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we try to hard to 'fit in'
Easy to say this when you are in a stable relationship but actually try to stop looking for a while.
Go out with your friends as I am sure you do now, but perhaps try some different things(related to your favourite interests) and just see who turns up.
If you expect everyone you meet could be the one you will be placing to big a burden on yourself and of course no one will measure up and at the first mistake he/they will be intimidated and walk away.
Sounds daft but the best thing you can do is relax and forget 'the one' and just try to be nice and conversational with people.
2007-04-29 11:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by noeusuperstate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to find a couple is simply...don't look, be yourself, go to the Library or the Gym...certainly not pubs or clubs if you are looking for a nice relation...be happy with yourself and do things that you like so you will be where you belong and there, happy with your own life and your inner you you will become a magnet to the right ones for you...if you start to look, then you start to go where and with who are not like you, you will pretend being somebody else and you will have a very hard heart and head ache...
2007-04-21 14:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going to the water.Best place to float a boat.
The right man will find you.
But think twice before shooting a guy down.
First impressions may not be impressive. Give a relationship an opportunity to grow.
2007-04-29 13:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on finding out who you are and on being happy with yourself and your own company, you can't go intoa relationship until you love yourself, otherwise how do you expect anyone else to be able to do it? After that then you just need to sit back and wait, get out there and meet people with similar interests to you, maybe by joining a club or society or some extra curricular activity. Just be happy and he will be attracted to that happiness! Good luck!x
2007-04-21 14:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy that enjoys doing things that you enjoy doing...
Look for a guy that is about the same intelligence level as yourself... And has things in common with you.
Start by going to places you like to go and see what kind of guys go there... Chances are you'll find one you like there.
People that are around the same level of attractiveness, IQ, and have things in common generally get along well as dates.
Good luck. :)
2007-04-21 14:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by oldpeoplesuckateverything 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know ppl dont really agree on net dating but i met my girlfriend on the net 1 year ago next week we fall more in love everyday we see and talk everyday... we are very far apart but we will be together in lest then a month there has been a few hard times but we go round them try meeting ppl on the net talking ect ect .
2007-04-21 14:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look where you want that man to be once you find him.
Start at your local church! If you find a dude in bar, chances are, that's where you'll find him later in the relationship.
2007-04-29 13:48:20 · answer #11 · answered by USA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋