I have an ex ive been still friends with and she has a boyfriend now. We still talk and everything but shes been sending me text messages talking abot she is wearing low cut shirts and she thanked me for telling her that she looked beautiful and that I still make her hot and everything. Once again she still has a boyfriend and she also says we're getting back together as son as they split. I don't know what to do. She says she really likes this guy a lot but she is still sending me this stuff as late as yesterday. when should I make my move? should I even make a move? HELP!!! I need advice.
2007-04-21 09:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by loner8671 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she is playing both of you. You shouldn't have to sit and wait on the side to pick you up whenever she wants. You really should tell her that if she can't make up her mind then you are going to start looking else where. I would hook up and go on some dates and try ignoring her. Maybe that will spark something in her to make up her mind if she really wants to be with you then the thought of losing you to another girl, will kill her. And if she doesn't come to her senses then it just isn't meant to be. You deserve to be number one, not warming the bench. Good luck.
2007-04-21 10:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move while she has a boyfriend! That's bad, and will make you look like the bad guy when she's just as guilty, and plus her current boyfriend will be so angry with you. Would you want some other guy hitting on his ex-girlfriend while you're going out with her? I'm guessing no, so don't do it. Just wait until they break up, then see if she still has feelings for you and go from there. <3
2007-04-21 17:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her when she's definitely going to leave the guy! That will make her sputter. You see, i believe, she's testing you to see if you are still in there for her. She could be narcissitic, and you do NOT need that! . If she said she's absolutely leaving before the end of this year and doesn't, write her totally off. If she does leave, you two will have to renegotiate your future with her, so as not to have a disasterous experience the 2nd time around.
MY suggestion: Don;t hold your breath!
2007-04-21 17:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is playing head games with you! She has a boyfriend now and he would be hurt to know she is being a slut with you! If she likes this guy (which I freaking doubt) she wouldn't be trying to involve you in her bullsh** and you as a person should tell her to knock her cr** off because it isn't just about you two anymore. There is another person who doesn't even know what the he** is going on,.
2007-04-21 17:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make a move.. no offence but it sounds to me as if shes just pulling u along on a string and tryin to use u as her back-up guy incase sumfin happens between her and her boyfriend.. u deserve btter than this hunni dont fall in2 this trap no matter how much u like her!
2007-04-21 17:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca_05_yeha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T MAKE ANY MOVES. SOUNDS LIKE SHE'S COUNTING ON U TO PICK HER UP WHEN OR IF SHE BREAKS UP WITH THIS GUY. BE HONEST WITH HER & TELL HER HOW U REALLY FEEL. DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'LL REGRET LATER. GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!! I LIKE THE SAYING TO THINE OWNSELF BE TRUE.
2007-04-21 17:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by texasstar1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted you and only you she would have already left the other guy. clearly you deserve someone better and someone that wants you and only you. you shouldnt have to wait on someone elses relationship to fail for you to be in one.
2007-04-21 17:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by speed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur an awesome friend its kidov ovioius she's trying to make u jelous. do it slowly but make ur move soon. good luck
2007-04-21 17:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by smile1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch This movie and you will know what to do. Holiday is the movie.
2007-04-21 17:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she is lying on you &you must leave here
2007-04-21 17:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by laith1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋