When a man gets a message from a lady on an on-line dating web site, should he wait 2 days before he replies/writes back to her? Or should he write back to her right away?
If the 2 day rule applies to online dating too, what does it mean if a guy writes back to her right away? And what does it mean IRL* too (when a man calls her the same day or the day after)?
*IRL = in real life
2007-04-21 03:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by kmarshal73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It’s too hard for me to decide who’s got the best answer, so I’m going to put it up to a vote.
Here’s what I liked or agreed with in everyone’s answers:
majestic_red – I agree. When a woman who’s profile really catches my eye and I like what I see, I usually want to write back to her right away!
fireleo16 – Yep, it seems stupid to me too. And that’s exactly why I would want to write back right away! I always think that honesty is the best policy anyways and her moving on is the other reason why I want to write back to her right away too. And knowing that she might move on usually drives me mad while I’m trying to obey the stupid rule too! lol
Erin – I’m with you. I think that we should through all of the stupid dating rules out the window! Lol
BTW, my so called “dream girl” turned out to be a fraud! She was one of those that are only out for $!! :( Which she didn’t and will not be getting from me.
2007-04-24 05:05:00 · update #1
I think the two day thing is stupid.... if a girl writes you that means she is into you and if your into her then write back why wait and play games... be truthful and things will work out better.... and if you wait she might move on
2007-04-21 03:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by fireleo16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been one to follow the "rules" of dating. Go ahead and write back to her. As for the call in real life, I'm always impressed when I get a call from a guy the day after a date, or later that evening. I would hope that it means he really had a good time and wants to continue things.
2007-04-21 03:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it would mean that you really like the girl. However, I wouldn't be calling her on a day to day basis in the beginning if it does follow through and things look great.
I'd say wait a day then email her back.
2007-04-21 03:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by majestic_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 11:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by mcdonnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋