Family & Relationships - 17 April 2007

Well if been three weeks since she ended the relationship and I hate having this fell as if I miss out on some thing good.I know six year is a long time and I know I should off pop the question sooner then later ,but I had to deal with 2 jobs & going t college part time.But the big question is I steal have the ENGAGEMENT RINGS and I have know desire what so ever to return it back, the ring was meet for her and only her.What so I do?

2007-04-17 15:52:18 · 10 answers · asked by James K 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been living with him for 8 months now and he's been unemployed for 4 months now. he goes to school full time and says he has no time to find a job. i pay all the bills and rent and im frustrated. i want to start school soon but can because he cant help me out financially.

we've talked about it before but nothing has changed. what do i do?

2007-04-17 15:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by turandotgreenfire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months, and for the first 3 months or so, everything seemed great. We got along really well. I'd known her for a year prior to this and were involved in extracurricular activities together, so we got to know each other very well.

But now it seems like she's lost all interest. We don't talk much anymore, and it sometimes seems like she just doesn't see me there. She's told me before that she's not the kind of person who likes to get "touchy-feely" and feels uncomfortable when people touch her, but this extends to me as well.

I'm starting to get the feeling that she just isn't interested in me anymore. I've tried talking things out with her on multiple occassions, but the situation just reverts back to the way it was.

I've been feeling very depressed lately, because she seems to be rejecting me all of the time.

Is this something I should expect or is she seriously losing interest in me?

2007-04-17 15:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 15:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by califrniateach 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For me, "Enduring Love" is NOT a perservering love between a couple in order to attempt to make their relationship work... NO...

It is what I call: Being used as a doormat by an abusive, and selfish partner.

2007-04-17 15:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He then change drastically in like a week. He decided he wanted to be a rock star and just started not coming home. About a week later he admitted to cheating on me one day that past week. He won't tell me who with, and he seems very regretfull. He is still avoiding me though, and says they are just freinds and she did not know about me. I asked him to decide if he wanted to make this work and end contact with her? He didn't say he would end contact with her but that they were not physical now. He said he loves me and it was more about his uncertainty in what he wants that drove him to it. We were best friends before this. I don't know what to do. I can't really make it on my own right now either because I am in college and we have a lot of pets. 7 years is a lot to throw away. He says he needs time, because he is not sure if he wants freedom or love. I just feel like a fool. Some advise would help.

2007-04-17 15:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and i have been married 3 yrs currently we are recently seperated.I am giving it one last shot at trying to understand him.This question pertains to sex i have not had an orgasim in over a year.I am a female that loves visual stimulation but my hubby gets embarassed or uncomfortable if i mention it.He tries to romance me for sex but i told him that 4 times a year of romance is fine.Him beeing romantic for me is actually a turn off the slow music put me to sleep and i am just not into romance in general.Hubby is also conservative about trying anything new position wise?

2007-04-17 15:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Come on - dream big. Where would you live, be doing, who with, in what...........et cetera.

2007-04-17 15:34:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I Really Want to get this girl back for keeping on telling the guy I like that I like him, so I really want to gite her back. PLease dont answer, " It is not right." I know it isnt right, but listen to what she said Today. " Hey Trey, I dare u to tell Amber that u dont like her, and that she should leave u alone." That is what she said, and I dont even want to write his responce. K, please. What are some good rumors I can spread about her? I am in 7th grade, so dont write, " Shes pregnet," or anything like that. K, thankx in advance.

2007-04-17 15:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 15:33:17 · 1 answers · asked by SuperCobra 1 in Singles & Dating

It happened to me and it sucked.

2007-04-17 15:30:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Honestly... are there any signs or something to help?

2007-04-17 15:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MEN! how important is sex. would you rather someone be okay in the sack and treat you like a king or would you want someone to be the best you've ever had and treat you semi-decent?

2007-04-17 15:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by mckinney 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married now for 10 Years. We have 5 beautiful boys. It just seems that lately he has been ignoring me. He dosent sit and have an adult conversation with me. But when his best friend comes over he will sit and discuss our personal issues with him. Yes i get upset because that should be me hes talking to. And anytime I do try to talk to him he dosen't understand me and thinks im complaining about something. But Im not. Am I wrong for feeling this way? And my husband and I own our own construction business. When he gets mad at me he will tell me His friend is going to work with him and he don't need me. That makes me feel like hes pushing me out of the way. We didn't get to where we are today with the help of his friend. They have only been friends for 4 years now. I dont understand he tells me he not going to help his friend and stuff but turns around and does. And anytime his friend is around Its like the kids and I arnt there. How do I get him to talk to me?

2007-04-17 15:27:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The gunman's friends were talking about him being quiet and NOT turning off the light while going to sleep.


OMG, I'm always quiet and don't socialize. I don't turn off the light while going to sleep.

2007-04-17 15:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can my my sons mother be brought up on charges somehow for knowing that I am the father of our son, that I wanted desperately to be a part of his life, and knowlingly leaving me off of the birth certificate?

2007-04-17 15:23:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so bad to say it but I really dont like my in-laws and at times I find myself wanting a divorce. I have beautiful son and I would hate to have him go threw such a thing.

2007-04-17 15:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you might not know anyway cuz it is a guy thing. just wanted to check and see if girls knew or not. i'm not telling. it's just a question don't mean to offend anyone no harm by it.

2007-04-17 15:21:58 · 13 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 10 years overreacts to pretty much everything. He puts 110% of himself into his work and career and going golfing with his buddies and when he is at home he is always barking orders at the kids and if they don't respond within a split second he goes off on them and acts like they just got brought home by the police for something awefull. One is 10 and the other is 8. He has no patience with them and no interest in trying to talk to them and teach them. He rarely spends any quality time with them and has the attitude of children should be seen not heard. He doesn't do anything with our son and when i finally get him to go outside and play catch or shoot hoops they are back in in about 5 minutes for one reason or another and its usually the "fault" of our son. I dont know what to do. I grew up with a father that was very similar but worse as he could be physically abusive. My husband in not.

2007-04-17 15:21:08 · 12 answers · asked by sg1fan76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i enjoy sex. it is with the same boy and they approve of it as long as i use a condom and continue my birthcontrol pills. Lately we have been arguing alot because they are concerned that i am doing it too much for my own good. he oves it and i love it but how do i continue it without getting into it with my parents?

2007-04-17 15:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by jamila 1 in Family

ok so this guy who was kinda my friend totaly liked me and i knew it. my other friends say that i was leading him on and i kinda had to agree. so i told him straight up...in a nice way... that i didnt think of him in that way! he was crushed...i felt so bad...but see he wants to be friends with me but i really dont

what should i do...!!!!???

2007-04-17 15:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we are alone he says the worst things. I told my parents about this. They tell him to stop, and that he is going to get into a lot of trouble if they hear him cussing. THe problem is, they never hear him. Also, my parents aren't aware of a lot of cuss words. WHen I tell on him to my mom, she asks me to repeat the word he said. I really despise cussing, and would never say one of those foul words. My brother always knows when I have a tape recorder hidden behind my back or something. Furthermore, I believe he either is trying to be cool in front of his friends, or he is teaching his friends cuss words. One time a couple of his friends came over. I walked by his room and heard my bro go " what the ****" his friends joined in with some more biggies. Some things he says are " what the **** you ***** **** *** you bastard" they don't really make sense. he just tries to have as many words in 1 phrase. What can i do to get him to stop?

2007-04-17 15:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by karate kicka girl 2 in Family

2007-04-17 15:14:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-17 15:10:32 · 19 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i say something, i really mean it..
and i told this guy to stop calling me on my phone, i told him that i really dont like him and i mean it... he still heeps on calling me so i came to him at school and punched him in the face, i think he felt bad but he stopped bothering me after...

question... did i solve my problem right.. or wrong??
what should i do?

2007-04-17 15:07:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i are still virgins. hard to believe?? so i've been told before but it's very true. what am i gonna do?? i don't know how to have sex. my fiance and i are waiting until after we're married, which is gonna be next year but i'm worried when we're actually in bed together, what the heck am i going to do??? please help thanks.

2007-04-17 15:07:19 · 23 answers · asked by World peAce 1 in Weddings

Again, sorry ladies if I happen to offend you, but my burning question desires to be answered:

Does the trend of the "independent woman" contribute as one of amongst the reasons to the increasing divorce rates amongst married couples in today's likewise increasingly demanding world?

2007-04-17 15:05:54 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-17 15:04:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law is getting married on 08' Since she is planning now she and her man has said they do not want kids to attend the wedding or the after party. Which I know is understandable and her choose. My husband and I have a baby and another on the way.By her wedding they will be 2 and almost 1. Now my question is why should I go if my kids her nephew and niece are not welcome? I know it's her day. But she has called us before and asked us to come to a party and asked us if there is "someone who can watch the kid". I am mad because I didn't have kids for someone else to be watching when ever she wants us too. And I only let his parents watch our son. But they will be at the wedding. Is it wrong for me to say if the kids can't come we are not going to attend? (My husband and I are in agreement on this) But I would like to know how I can also tell her how we feel when she says things like this to us.

2007-04-17 15:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Kellie R 4 in Family

I am at uni but i dont think i want a career any more. I think i would rather marry a rich guy and be spoilt for the rest of my life.

2007-04-17 15:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships