well i enjoy sex. it is with the same boy and they approve of it as long as i use a condom and continue my birthcontrol pills. Lately we have been arguing alot because they are concerned that i am doing it too much for my own good. he oves it and i love it but how do i continue it without getting into it with my parents?
2007-04-17 15:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by jamila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are selfish! Why would you even put yourself in this position. Unmarried, having sex. Are you ready for the consequences or are your parents going to end up taking care of your surprise pregnancy?? B/C and condoms are NO GUARANTEE.
And what is wrong with your parents that they allow this??
What is the world coming to???
2007-04-17 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to put on the breaks for a long while. It sounds like you are a bit young and your parents are probably concerned about what might happen. There is a definite difference between experimental and excess. If they know how often you do it, that's probably an indicator that you are doing it too much. You'll have plenty of time for this kind of thing later in life when you are better prepared to deal with any consequences. Don't try to grow up too fast.
2007-04-17 23:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just worried. But really, sex isn't something that should be taken so lightly of. Yes, you use condoms and are on birth control pills, but it doesn't guarantee you from anything. Your parents know best, considering that they were the ones that had to go through everything to have you in the first place. Seeing that you posted this question, you're probably still very young. Listen to your elders, they have more experience with everything.
2007-04-17 22:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sex should NOT be an addiction! It is something meant to be ENJOYED by two people who are in LOVE and have GREAT TRUST in one another, preferably married. What happens if you get STDs (contraceptives are NOT 100% effective) or something else? Huh? What then. I say rethink your choices.
2007-04-17 22:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess im confused..how old are you? if you are old enough to be on your own..maybe that is what you need to do to keep from arguing with your parents..if you are still a minor..maybe you should try to live by their rules..if you are an adult child living at home...paying rent blah blah..then maybe you should consider sitting down and talking to them about privacy..and if you are a bill paying member of the household you feel you should be able to ....but the whole thing is..its their house their rules..
2007-04-17 22:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by bailie28 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's between you and your parents. You didn't mention your age or your partner's age. If your parents allow you to have sex, I can't see why frequency would be an issue. It's either okay or it's not....however if you are neglecting other important areas of life (esp school or work) to have sex, then there is a problem.
2007-04-17 22:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you're 18 or older than do what you want. Under 18 listen to mom and dad.
2007-04-21 20:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't an addiction hon.
you both just have high sex drives
ask your folks to trust you to be responsible ( the condoms & pill) and keep your studies and/or job as a priority
2007-04-17 22:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by ann s 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
just keep on doing it as much as you want.
it's non of their business if you want to do it all day long every day
2007-04-18 05:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by allie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you and your parents would have conversations about your personal sex life.
it's no one's business how often we have sex or who with!
don't discuss this sort of thing with others. it's private.....
2007-04-17 22:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋