Family & Relationships - 17 April 2007

I have permission to do absolutely ANYTHING to him... I've considered everything from making him get a very feminine hairstyle to tattoos to you name it. Any suggestions? He's always been very mean to me, so he gets what he deserves.

2007-04-17 16:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a wife of three years and we have a son. I told her that I had kids from a previous marriage and she accepted and married me anyway. Now that we have moved closer to where my kids live she is starting to show signs of being possesive and jealous of me/my time and making excuses about why the kids can't come over or being mad when i go and see them. My ex warned me that she is marking off her territory and slowly trying to alienate the kids from my life. It sounded crazy before but now everything that my ex said is coming true. I asked my wife and she fervently denies wanting to push them away though she tearfully admitted being frustrated about the time and money that I spend on the kids (but I provide for them all equally). I support all of us well financially but she just wishes all of it could be on our 1 child getting all of the attention and money instead of having to share it. It is pulling me away from her. I can't be with her if she can't accept my kids.

2007-04-17 16:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that when black women are stereotyped there are tons of black men who can't wait to chime in? Don't they realize they make themselves (& us as a whole) look like fools to everyones else, & give the racists even more ammunition. I'm not saying we shouldn't discuss our faults, but there is nothing constructive about opinionate one sided , slandering posts.

2007-04-17 16:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by NativeAtlantean 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My question is: Should I be more forgiving of my boyfriend or should I be holding him up to a higher standard? Here's the sitch: We've dated for over 3 years- I'm 22 and he's 23. We met at college while I lived on campus and he lived at home. He still lives at home with his parents. He's yet to graduate and I graduated and am almost done with my teaching credential. He's never slept over at my apartment and he rarely stays out past 8 PM! He doesn't drink at all or do any drugs. I also don't do any drugs but I do drink socially and like to stay up late sometimes. We see each other about twice a week. We hardly ever talk on the phone because he doesn't like to. When we hang out, it is often at his house, with his parents. I'm feeling frustuated by this relationship because although I adore him and love him, I'd like someone I can talk to everyday and sometimes sleep over with and sometimes stay out late with. Am I being too picky?

2007-04-17 16:30:59 · 35 answers · asked by califrniateach 4 in Singles & Dating

I like to be naked when I am in my room. I will be playing video games in the nude when my mom comes in to ask if I have any dirty laundry. I give her the laundry and she acts like nothing happened. Sometimes when I am hard, my mom looks down at my privates. I often walk to the laundry room that is in the basement of my house from my upstairs right past my mom. She usually just says hi as I pass. One time, I asked if I could watch a movie in the nude one night because I didn't want to put on new clothes that I would just take off right after the movie. She agreed and even came down to watch part of the movie with me.

NOTHING SEXUAL.

I am 15 years old and live with my single mom.

2007-04-17 16:30:55 · 26 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife left me 2 years ago because she cheated on me and became pregnant. This has left me very jealous. I am in love with a beautiful, gorgeous woman but my past seems to be effecting our relationship. I know she would never cheat on me, but I still think about the worse possible outcome- er leaving me. I am getting married to her in Feb of 08 and I want this jealousy of mine to end before we get married

2007-04-17 16:29:09 · 11 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

buying one?

2007-04-17 16:23:38 · 20 answers · asked by Myra 4 in Weddings

2007-04-17 16:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Callie B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-17 16:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Callie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone has their own past.And everyone has secrets and in relationships- it is up to an individual to share it with significant other.
I am just curious because I am very closed about mine and I think that certain things should not be shared as they can be view by another person totally different!

2007-04-17 16:20:35 · 3 answers · asked by Bonanza 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay guys just to clarify I am not a teenager, I am 32 years old and it would be very insightful to the background of this situation if you could take a quick second to review some of the other questions I have posted about this relationship.
Basically, I have been very confused about this man that I am crazy about. I am trying to figure out if he really has feelings for me or if he is just in this for the sex. He said last night that each day things are getting more and more serious, and it sounded like he was comfortable with that or maybe even happy about it. When you read my other recent questions you'll see I have known him for about 6 months as a friend when he was dating a girlfriend of mine. They have since broke up and we have began spending more time together with the blessing of my friend. Today he called me and invited me to the mall with him and his daughter to do some shopping. We had a great day but I just felt it was a little soon for him to do that. 4 weeks of dating

2007-04-17 16:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by kricket 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy. we used to go to school together but then we went our seperate ways. we still chat on msn, but now we hardly do. we used to chat everday but things got complicated and we hardly chat now. the last time i chatted wit him, it was weird, he shows little interest in chatting with me now. he used to show so much interest in our conversations. should i keep on talking to him or what??!!

2007-04-17 16:19:32 · 6 answers · asked by **R** 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to get my ex completely out of my mind?

2007-04-17 16:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by thewillprince 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious.
:D

2007-04-17 16:18:11 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 16:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by smittenkitten1021 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-17 16:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am looking for an online bf and I am looking for a HOT HOT HOT ONE!!! lol. srry. I am 13 and will be single soon. my old bf is ugly. i have to break up with him and i want a boyfriend online. for ever. and i could maybe give my cell phone number to him when we know each other. umm... yah. bye.
AJ or Britt. I prefer AJ

2007-04-17 16:11:07 · 4 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Friends

like they say eating 2000 calories at age 14-17 is heathy but does that mean for each meal or for that day im losta nd confused

2007-04-17 16:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a victim of ongoing non-self-defense violence at the hands of a woman, and am having trouble finding resources for men who are victims of abuse.

Any suggestions for where I can find help?

2007-04-17 16:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend is moving away to Australia and she asked me if I was was going to allow her to go to the dances as shes going to a school there, as we will be in a long distance relationship should I let her dance with other guys? I dont want her to, but am I being to protective?

2007-04-17 16:06:44 · 38 answers · asked by alkacue 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at my friends beach house over the summer and my friend, his mom and I went swimming in the ocean. His mom is relatively hot. When we got out, my friend went to his bathroom to shower and I went to his outdoor shower. When I was showering, I heard the door open and his mom came in. She said "excuse me, I just need to rinse off" and stripped completely and rinsed off for only a minute then left. Later that night after dinner, she told me I had a very nice package and I returned the complament. When my friend and I were watching a movie, she walked in wearing only a see through nighty and no panties. That made me hard and she laughed and touched my privates and said "Someone's happy" and giggled.

Is this normal for her to act like this?

2007-04-17 16:02:32 · 27 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Friends

"I don't give a damm about your feelings" how would you handle that especially if it came from the guy you've loved for the past 10yrs!

2007-04-17 16:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, we're young (25), just got married in September, and haven't had sex since November. Strike that. We had sex in , oh, late Jan., me having forced it upon him (practically), after which he looked rather annoyed. I can't figure it out. I beg him almost every night. I'm not unattractive, in fact, I'm beautiful in my own way, I think and - I'm pretty damn good in bed! We have a decent relationship otherwise.
The thing is, he's said he didn't want sex with his last serious girlfriend either. So I don't think it's me. It's him. He's addicted to World of Warcraft, which makes me think that's affecting it.
What do you think? Any advice?

2007-04-17 16:00:46 · 34 answers · asked by gilthoniel00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen girls before that I thought looked really "slutty" but my guy friends thought they were hott. What is "slutty" to a guy?

2007-04-17 16:00:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex was an abusive alcoholic and I grew to hate the smell of alcohol. now we have been apart for two years and I am drinking a pint or more of whiskey at least three times a week or more. I am starting to have problems with it. The day after, I have been fainting, which comes off as convulsions or seizures to the ppl around me. I cant stop because I don't want to. I will not go to AA. Been there done that when I was a teen. Why do you think I am doing this to myself? I'm in a wonderful relationship now, but am making him miserable with my drinking, but I don't want to stop. Just want him to get over it.

2007-04-17 16:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by chaninjo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the deal...

I am dating the guy of my dreams. We have been dating for 4 years! His mom and my aunt work together and she talks a lot of crap about everyone... and yet.. people find her as a "saint" ... like she's perfect and only a few have saw her TRUE colors. Anyway.. One day, I told my aunt exactly what she had said about her and her friends.. Well, she told her friends (which deserved to know in my eyes) And of of them confronted the "monster in law" and she lied right to their faces!!! Making me out to be the liar. Well this woman is really getting on my nerves!!! What can I do about it?? My fiance' and I have been engaged for almost a year now, and I love him very much therefore i'm trying to keep all of her drama down... but i've ran out of ideas.. can anyone help me deal with monster in law's DRAMA?

2007-04-17 15:58:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going crazy. I mean i'm fun, have a great personality, i think i'm pretty and i have great fashion. So what's the problem?

2007-04-17 15:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first of all,my stomach always hurts,every NITE!my parents say"just deal with it".when i wake up i feel so much better,but it starts to hurt a little bit when im at school.What do I do?

2007-04-17 15:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by shorty0618 1 in Family

How can i pretend to be romantic?Been married to hubby 3yrs recently seperated trying to give it one last shot.He is a romantic and i am well not a romantic.I dont really understand the concept of romance to begin with?I am hoping if i pretend to be as romantic as him it will solve at least one our problems.

2007-04-17 15:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've a sister-in-law that likes to gossip/report to the eldest sis-in-law (who is not staying together with her) on how other family members doing/saying something to hurt/push her around. In fact, she's the one always shouting at her husband, kids and maid loudly at home, sometimes around 2 to 4am. Her maid can only take her dinner at 11pm to 12 midnight. I was staying in the same house for many years before she was married to my brother-in-law, but ever since with her presence, she started her motive to create crisis to get everyone out from my in-law's house. Currently juz left them alone in that house. Not sure what's her next action and also do not know how to inform the eldest sis-in-law to be careful of her? She is having high jealousy, really do not know how to deal with her?

2007-04-17 15:54:45 · 9 answers · asked by ML 1 in Family