"I don't give a damm about your feelings" how would you handle that especially if it came from the guy you've loved for the past 10yrs!
2007-04-17 16:01:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he probly said out of anger most people say things they dont mean when they are angry or upset
2007-04-18 00:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by misspookett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very upsetting I know, its also something that I have heard many times in this relationship. I really don't think they mean that for real I think it is something to say at the time. And they know it gets to you. They like ways to get to you. But if you truly feel he doesn't care then maybe its time to move on. Ten years in a relationship is a long time invested. But feelings do go bad and things like this happen. Don't beat yourself up for it, its not your fault, its just the human animal.
2007-04-17 16:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what was going on when he said it. If he just said it out of the blue, I would be very upset about it. If he said it in the middle of a big argument, where things were being said by you both & it got out of control, then I would still be upset, but I would give him a chance to say he didn't mean it, or he's sorry.
2007-04-17 16:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a verbal slap in the face. I don't care when it was said or what the circumstances were, there is no kind of excuse for that language from someone who supposedly cares about you. Sounds like he has checked out of your relationship. What a total lack of respect for you.
2007-04-17 16:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by n2mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Said in the heat of the moment? Then a 'sorry' should follow. If not, you'd better have a relook at your relationship.
2007-04-17 16:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Traveller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd consider there to be a BIG problem in the relationship that needed to be addressed immediately....before I decided whether or not it was worth staying in.
2007-04-17 16:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a real problem u need 2 get past this and let him no that he was a jerk and if u still want to be friendds try 2 talk 2 him and ask if her meant what he said!!!!!!!good luck!!!!!!
2007-04-17 16:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by amanda g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be ignoring him! There's no excuse for someone you've known that long to say that to you. I'd be making myself very scarce around him.
2007-04-17 16:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont feel that strongly about guys.
2007-04-17 16:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by fnqbigboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People say things they don't mean. Let him sleep on it.
2007-04-17 16:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋