Family & Relationships - 17 April 2007

I am an singer, writer, actor but really a day professional (to pay the bills). Being 'on stage' really does a world of good for me; being in the Entertainment field, you have to have a certain amount of verve coupled with confidence. My wry sense of humour in writing is well appreciated by most yet my close friends will take it upon themselves to judge what I'm doing. Believe me, I appreciate & welcome constructive criticism but when not asked for, it's just unsolicited advice.

My friend is a good one, yet at times she can be unappreciative, a tad hypocritical and a little harsh. Those are her 'bad' points and I know no one is perfect. I guess I was a little perturbed how she commented on my latest blog like gangbusters. She complimented it and said I was a good writer but stated it was narcissistic in nature. I told her everyone is entitled to an opinion, even when it's free. Is this a possible jealousy talking or is it the need to tell me things from lack of tact?

2007-04-17 21:37:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-17 21:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by bigz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked many girls, all absolutely straight, and they all told me
that it was much more pleasant and interesting to stare at girls, at their dresses, faces, and at what pretty body parts they have (this has pretty hair, this - butt), and so on. But they did not like to stare at man like this, at random, and would rather at girls. Why?

2007-04-17 21:15:17 · 15 answers · asked by why w 2 in Singles & Dating

She try to controle everyone and when it fails then the stupid petty games start.If she wasent a woman i would have beat her already.what can i do to get rid of her?

2007-04-17 21:08:09 · 11 answers · asked by never k 1 in Friends

ive been wit my man for 12 months but recently i have caught up wit an old school friend (male) ive always wanted a man whose a cop and has a black ss ute and guess hwta this male does he has a very sexc voice great personalilty and is very caring towards me we r always makign eachother laugh and even tease eachother .

lil help wats goin on here is it love or just a fling ?

2007-04-17 21:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by leashy4u2luv 2 in Singles & Dating

i never have

2007-04-17 21:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you read my other questions ive been trying to split up with my boyfriend for a while now.

Well last night i actually did it! Even though im feeling really down about it today i know things will get better. Ive got to see him tonight to give his stuff back as well.

Anyone got any advice to make me feel better today?

Thanks xx

2007-04-17 21:01:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

BACKGROUND:
I like this girl and I got the feeling she likes me too. It was a coeincident that I just moved exactly next to her apartment a week ago. I knew her for 8 weeks now. I only called her 3-4 times a week for 5-7 minutes. We only hang out together once (casually). I know my look is not a problem and I drive a benz SL.

PROBLEM:
She always find an excuse not to go out with me everytime I ask her out for a casual dinner (not a date). It's hard for me to show my real personality just on the phone.

MY THOUGHT:
-She fear that I am a player (which I already showed her Im not)
-She still wanna have fun
-ZILLION of other males are chasing her!

WHAT I SHOULD DO?
-Will I melt her heart eventually? should i tell her my feeling? or I should lay low and be friend for now (for how long)?
-Any catchy-fun phrase to ask her out?

million thanks to u guys!

2007-04-17 20:56:38 · 18 answers · asked by Daytona 1 in Singles & Dating

if u ever see a person just like you, physically and mentallly, would you fall in love with that person? Why

2007-04-17 20:55:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about women/wives liking a spanking, and the negetive responses I recieved essentially attacking "me" rather than addressing the question, do you think it's a case of "me thinks she doeth protest too much?"..... or is it a case of prudes who believe that you'll go to hell if you do it doggie style? Of the eight responses I've gotten at this time, one was positive towards spanking, and seven were not. On that ratio, is it safe to conclude that one out of every eight women on Y! Answers enjoy either a spanking, riding crop, paddles, etc?

Please ladies, try to look at my question objectively rather than vent your feminist prose. All it does is reflect a lack or self control and insecurity in your submissive natures. In order for your answer to be heartfelt, you must understand that G.I. Jane was just a friggin movie. No offense intended.

2007-04-17 20:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is he broke...it was two days before payday.
Or is he just a jerk?
He asked me to buy him something
that cost a lot more than $2...and I got it.
I wish I knew "You don't need it." was an option
and he wouldn't have gotten anything!

2007-04-17 20:52:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i gotta friend...a good one. he just moved here to america from Indiia on a student visa. well, he was doin really well when he got here, and hes a really good guy. we were like brothers. he gotta couple roommates who im friends with too. when they had enough free time (which is once every couple months) we would all get together n hang out. he was there for me. i was there for him. he had me laughin when i get depressed. i need him now, but somethings weird. i recently lost my job, n got real negative. i got in an arguement w him one night, n got mean. but next day we forgave eachother n got eachother laughin again. well, he took a midterm and failed 2x. i kno the agreement btween the college n Indiia is if u get below 3.0gpa, u get deported. well, semesters not over yet, so its too early to determine. he wont return my calls, emails, didnt accept friend request on messenger. im worried n confused. why is he actin like this? its not like him at all! what do i do?

2007-04-17 20:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-17 20:46:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since 12:30 am we have done: bath, 2 bottles, 2 diaper changes, songs, books, toys, walker, now we are on Sesame St on demand on tv. I dont like to go to tv, but the kid is wound, and even clapping at Elmo. Looking for any ideas.

2007-04-17 20:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family

my boyfriend wants to get a bike but i know what he is like he l end up hurting himself or worse, i already told him that if he gets one we are gonna fall out big time, and i dont even know how he will even afford it.what can i say to him to stop him getting one?i really love him and care about him thats why i dont want him getting hurt

2007-04-17 20:36:17 · 19 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I moved out to Cali together to live our lives together as a couple. We had been on and off for 1 year and realized that we really did love eachother and took the plunge to be in a relationship as a duo. We moved out here and as time passes he has hooked up with friends out here and gone out partying without me and has lied about it. Told me that this is the way things are and he is not changing and expects me to put up with this nonsense I think because he knows that his work contract pays for the rent and I really have no other place to go. He says that he is sorry but when he came out to Cali he realized that "things are different out here" and he is really backing me in a corner with the lies that he is telling about partying and ends up blaming the whole thing on me. " If I didn't feel so confined, I wouldn't be going out so much with my friends." This is my first real relationship and I am trying to do everything right but I am kind of feeking stuck. Feedback?

2007-04-17 20:29:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Simply to keep the peace.

2007-04-17 20:28:35 · 16 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I KNOW ITS ALOT TO READ, but im just wondering if these are true. So, guys tell me the truth!



1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
11. When guys want to meet your parents...let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is...drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up...believe me...he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what...uh...never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"...or makes any excuses when you'reasking him to do you a favor, he's actually
saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no",guys hears it as "try again 2morrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime...he does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve...girls are guy's weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty...even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but...her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive...so watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl...he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms...no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed on you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain...when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things...not their hair!
97. If someone says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships.


REMINDER: Test a guy first if he's really the one. Some are just pretending to be the one.

2007-04-17 20:26:01 · 19 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

I just got married and I would like to establish a close relationship with her. At the same time, I also dont want to seem like trying too hard.. lol.. any suggestion will help! thanks!

2007-04-17 20:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Charmaine * 3 in Family

seriously

2007-04-17 20:16:53 · 1 answers · asked by bcwireless420420 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-17 20:02:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-17 19:59:41 · 12 answers · asked by luv babygurl 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I have been talking to for about a month. She works at a store I shop at regularly. Through our conversations, I learned that she speaks fluent German, Spanish, Croatian, and English (of course).

Last week when I was in the store she came up behind me and grabbed my arm and said "hi" and asked what I was up to. When I left the store, I waved at her from across the store and she waved back. It was her birthday last week, so I learned how to write happy birthday in Croatian and wrote it on the receipt she gave me when I checked out.

She read it and smiled and told me I even spelled everything right. She then started to write me a note in Croatian, but said "I better not" and took her note back and crumpled it up before she gave it to me. Then she told me to learn something else in Croatian and write her another note.

I think she likes me, but maybe is intimidated by the fact that I am older than her (Im 23 she is 19). I'm confused about why she didn't give me hernote

2007-04-17 19:58:15 · 16 answers · asked by _ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so she comes over, comes in my room, and picks up my favorite comb. then looks at it & says "HMM" and just COMBS HER HAIR with it, WITHOUT ASKING ME RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY ******* FACE!! i dono about u guys but i hate letting people use my makeup, pillows, watterbottles, comb, ANYTHING like that!!! its stuff that feels like MY OWn Personal things (its like what if somebody used your underwear kind of feeling). THEN she decides to plop on my bed and say "wake me up later on" then falls asleep and proceeds to drool all over my f ucking bed!!! then while im wiping up her mess shes still laying on my bed and then laughs like its something FUNNy. THEN my mom buys her food and my mom herself ends up not eating anything, and she ALWAYS comes to my house and pigs out4free! THEN when shes done and is back in my room, she says "hmm i ate already. i think i should go home now." AND sumtime she got attitude/rude 2 me and if i dont treat her like a "best friend" shell complain 2 others. wat2do?!?!

2007-04-17 19:54:54 · 10 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2 in Friends

2007-04-17 19:48:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend and I works on a same place. We always had a petty quarrels on little things about work and not on personal things. He thought that I always betray him, turn him down on his works, compete with me. He is angry and irritated with for no reasons. Sometimes I think he don't trust me no more. Is this usual for friends?

We are living on the same house after work and so sometimes I can still feel his bitterness.

I don't want to fight with him, I don't want to be his enemy on any other way or cause. It hurts me so much about this things that I'm afraid it may affects our friendship. What will I do?

2007-04-17 19:47:13 · 14 answers · asked by Kerk 2 in Friends

2007-04-17 19:44:57 · 13 answers · asked by nose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is my best friend although she is my cousin. we have at least 10 years together. But since i got a boyfriend, she has been so selfish or maybe jealous, I don't know. There is this guy at school that she likes very much, but he doesn't seem to be interested in her. She is so crazy about him that she is being obsessed. I told her that but she didn' accept it. She says that what she feels about him is "love".The problem is this: My mom doesn't let me go out alone, so when I wanna meet my boyfriend I ask mu cousin to come with me. She always says: If Andy(the guy she likes) isn't there, I won't come. This drives me crazy, because I've done so many things for her and this is the way she repays me. She thinks only for herself. When she was down I tried everything to make her feel better. The opposite she did with me. I was very sad and all that she did was: I got other problems to think about. I don't know if she has changed, but to me she is selfish now. I really hate her. help me!

2007-04-17 19:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This problem started when my 2nd brother wife who likes to talk bad about my 1st brother wife. She will comment about education, talking bad about other people houses, and passed negative remarks on her nieces. She sounded bad but my 1st brother wife do not want to open up to the problem directly and rather keep it lying down. This is also making her stress and she do not want the family relation to be affected. What's the best solutions? Thks!

2007-04-17 19:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by freezing lady 6 in Marriage & Divorce

about what you think about two girls dating?

2007-04-17 19:27:05 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating