ok so she comes over, comes in my room, and picks up my favorite comb. then looks at it & says "HMM" and just COMBS HER HAIR with it, WITHOUT ASKING ME RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY ******* FACE!! i dono about u guys but i hate letting people use my makeup, pillows, watterbottles, comb, ANYTHING like that!!! its stuff that feels like MY OWn Personal things (its like what if somebody used your underwear kind of feeling). THEN she decides to plop on my bed and say "wake me up later on" then falls asleep and proceeds to drool all over my f ucking bed!!! then while im wiping up her mess shes still laying on my bed and then laughs like its something FUNNy. THEN my mom buys her food and my mom herself ends up not eating anything, and she ALWAYS comes to my house and pigs out4free! THEN when shes done and is back in my room, she says "hmm i ate already. i think i should go home now." AND sumtime she got attitude/rude 2 me and if i dont treat her like a "best friend" shell complain 2 others. wat2do?!?!
2007-04-17 19:54:54 · 10 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is not a friend she is out of control. Your mother and you should put a stop to this madness. She should not be aloud over unless your mom is planning a meal that could possibly include her, she shouldn't be in your personal space touching your personal things at all unless you have given her such permission.
2007-04-24 05:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn she isn't your friend. She is an assoicate that you let run your life, why I have no clue, you should of been able to develop better relationships then this.... let me say this friends relationship are based on you having the ability to slap her in the back of the head when she does something stupid, wrong, or disrespectful, you should also have the right to give her props, hugs or a thumbs-up, when she does something cool, right, or respectful. Since you don't have this type of relationship with her she is just taking advantage not of your kindness, but you lack of self-respect. So ask yourself do you deserve this kind of relationship, because this is far, far off a true friendship.... runs deeper then just walking into your life and wiping her feet on it.... ballz up and get rid of her, she isn't worth your time... the only other choice you got is to be her friend and get on her butt for being so selfish/disrepectful/uncaring.....
2007-04-18 04:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a good talk with mom about how you feel about this User. Point blank tell the "friend" that she's no friend and to find someone else to use --that your room and home are off limits. Don't let her in the house; be Way to busy to interact with her. Library, musuem, skating rink, movies, other friends, etc.
None of this works, break dates to do things together.
She'll dump you, of course she's going to trash you in the process, no matter what you do....but she'll be gone.
2007-04-25 16:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by sharing_s_caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you (and your mom) allow her to use you like this? Why would you want to be friends with someone like that? Don't let that girl into your house and certainly if she gets in, don't allow her to roam around the house freely. Tell her she isn't welcome because she doesn't know how to be a guest, that it isn't her house so she cannot make herself at home. If she starts touching your stuff, snatch it away from her and tell her very firmly that you don't like people using your stuff, it isn't healthy (which is isn't). If she lies on your bed, immediately grab her and pull her off telling her it isn't her bed, if she's tired she needs to go home to her own bed, not crash out on yours. Get your mom to cooperate, tell your mom she isn't to give this girl food anymore--the girl has her own home and can feed herself, she isn't needy, she doesn't need to eat at your home and your mom doesn't need to feed her. If she starts eating your food, grab her and escort her out the door, tell her that it isn't her food to eat, taht it's your mom's, go home and eat your own food. If she blabs to friends, just telll those people that this girl is not welcome in your home because she doesn't know how to behave. You don't owe this girl anything. And if she bad mouths you, just bad mouth her right back, explaining exactly all the things she does that are unacceptable in your home. People can then judge why she is unwelcome in your home and why you don't want to be her friend, etc. Let all those folks who believe her and listen to her be her friend, feed her, etc.
2007-04-18 15:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Inundated in SF 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-18 14:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by tm41170 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's taking advantage of you. Tell her how you really feel, and forget what others might say... truth is, they're probably sick of her using their things as well.
2007-04-25 17:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tikled_Ivory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that your friend...
i think she is not one...
you should tell her what she's doing is wrong...
that is so rude...
if i were you...
i wont let her go to my place again...
or you can go to her house and do the same things she did to you...
2007-04-22 21:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate one touching my stuffs too without my permission.....
2007-04-25 18:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by drey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** i would killed if someone touches my stuff!
2007-04-25 13:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋