This problem started when my 2nd brother wife who likes to talk bad about my 1st brother wife. She will comment about education, talking bad about other people houses, and passed negative remarks on her nieces. She sounded bad but my 1st brother wife do not want to open up to the problem directly and rather keep it lying down. This is also making her stress and she do not want the family relation to be affected. What's the best solutions? Thks!
2007-04-17 19:32:57 · 6 answers · asked by freezing lady 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she should talk to her about it and let her know that the problem is just between them 2 and that she dosen't want the rest of the family to get involved.
2007-04-17 19:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by judith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that the issue is between your second brother's wife and your first brother's wife. I have alot of issues where people have to tell me this so I hate to repeat it to you... but it's really none of your business. It's not under your control because it does not involve you.
The best advice I can give to you is to speak to your first brothers wife and try to talk out the issue. She cannot continue to let it be, especially considering this woman is talking badly about your nieces and it is giving her unnecessary stress.
The best course of action for you is to talk about the situation to those involved, but do not antagonize the situation. There's enough drama involved.
I hope that this woman can get over her cattiness. It's pretty sad when family refuses to compromise, or get along.
2007-04-18 02:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Vega Lyrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,
If the Problems raises u can call her parents as well as yours parents let them they will counsil what probs she is facing if not go to Good Counsilor let she will speak and get good advice from them. Its too bad she is not thinking how your 1st Brothers wife feelings.
2007-04-18 02:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by vijaya s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother that his wife is hurting your sister-in-law and that he should have a talk with her. Tell him that it is making her uncomfortable to be around the family and you think that it is time it stopped. She is just as much a part of the family as the cruel sister-in-law and should be treated with the same respect.
2007-04-18 02:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but stay out of it, she will have to learn, you cannot baby sit her or teach her.
I was like that and still am, these days, just recently I have learned to stand up, its hard and I battle with myself, because we are those people who never want to aruge or fight and stay away from trouble, its sad and at the same time its very difficult and I know exactly how she feels.
I look at this way, that these people are so miserable, best remedy is to stay away from them and ignore them.
2007-04-18 02:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Naaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play twister or a board game and play and talk nice
2007-04-18 02:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋