2007-04-17 20:46:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A.) Stand beside her, in time of need and after the fact. Even go to court if so shall be it!
B.) Try my damns to convince her to report it. (whether raped or not! She was violated and the intent was there.)
C.) Let others know the guy name and what he is capable of. (So others are aware of this person's actions and what he is capable of doing to another.
(Might save others of being raped)
D.) And never let him forget, That I know what he is capable of and tried to do to any body never alone a dear, respect lady friend.
E.) Make him stand to the plate, take his lumps and get help. That he so badly needs! (If tried this time, then just how many before and after?)
2007-04-21 14:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would get angry and try to destroy the guy. The problem of course is the authorities, u cant protect her if your in jail. Just be there for her I cannot even begin to imagine the hell she went though.
If she feels confortable with you she may open up to you dont exploit this, trust is important in any relationship be it girl-boy or working relations or even between friends. Try to understand what she went though if possible, put yourself in her shoes at that time and feel it out.
The other thing to avoid is her clinging to you too quickly, Because they felt so vunrable after the event some girls cling to the closest guy showing symopthy, even going as far as using their bodies to get them.
Dont let her do it help her understand what she is going through and the reason why she is doing it. Eventually she should be able to deal with it.
2007-04-18 04:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply, I'd be very, very upset. Then I'd do everything in my power to prevent anything like that from happening ever again. Find out who this guy was, if there is some connection to her, if he's a registered sex offender, buy her some mace, and teach her how to kick some ***.
If its a known friend or stalker, maybe remind her that she has to protect herself and that she doesnt have to put up with anything like that and should stay away from that person.
2007-04-18 03:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by y0ungdan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True story, I was stoning canabis at the moment. I heard girl shouted for help.
It made really woke up and I grab a stick with my freind rushing to help. Those cowards ( rapers) ran before I got there and left the girl. I saved her.
The moment I will never forget.
2007-04-18 03:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by jahn j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do youmean by the question. If it was almost then it didn't happen, just date her and remember to take it slow and make sure she ir ready to move forward in the relationship before your hands start roaming.
Sorry read it wrong.....I say go have a talk with him with several of your boys and make sure he's "feeling her pain" if you get my drift.....
2007-04-18 03:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
questions ...
If the guy is known to either of them, teach him a lesson..
If it is the guy, the girl knows.. then I'd rather not act a Hero...console and comfort her
If it is some random guy, support her and be her best friend and companion.
She might have been scared to death over this. keep her normal and calm. First things first.
2007-04-18 03:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage her to tell the authorities.Even if he just grabbed her, it is considered assault. Make sure that she tells them that he attempted to rape her, so that she can prevent some other girl from going through the same thing.
2007-04-18 03:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat her with great care and sensitivity. Particularly if you do get together, show understanding and sensitivity when you are getting physically intimate as she has had a traumatic experience before. Let her take her time. Understand that tenderness is probably more important to her than sex and give her time to get close physically.
2007-04-18 03:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by ls2c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know the guy then it is nothing you can do. I would help to file charges and make sure she is protected from now on.
2007-04-18 03:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if she wants to press charges and put the creep in jail. I also advocate from the heart the idea of beating him to jelly, but then he might press charges and you not he would be the one in jail.
So be supportive, and see if she will press charges.
2007-04-18 03:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lili Montegue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋