ive been wit my man for 12 months but recently i have caught up wit an old school friend (male) ive always wanted a man whose a cop and has a black ss ute and guess hwta this male does he has a very sexc voice great personalilty and is very caring towards me we r always makign eachother laugh and even tease eachother .
lil help wats goin on here is it love or just a fling ?
2007-04-17 21:04:46 · 17 answers · asked by leashy4u2luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just an opinion. In each couple I think there is one who loves the other the most. You have to find out which one you want to be and then choose between the guy you adore and will clean up after, or the guy that adores you and will catch you when you fall.
2007-04-17 21:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fling, You sound quite shallow by the way saying "ve always wanted a man whose a cop and has a black ss ute". You could just be having doubts about your current relationship because it wasnt what you dreamed about while watching MTV and reading romance novels.
Want a shock to the system, this is reality great romantic couples dont just all of a sudden become soulmates. As my nana and grandad said when I asked them the secret to their marrage, they said it in one word "sacrifice" :p
Hope this helps
2007-04-17 21:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that its fling, or more like lust. Since you're already with someone, you feel that what you've got is there, and this old friend who happens to be what you've been looking for is there, and your inner fantasy, desire, whatever you want to call it calls out to you.
If your current relationship is good, stick with it and forget about this fantasy man. If you go for it, you might loose something good. So you'll have to weigh out the pros and cons of your choice.
2007-04-17 21:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just that you have been apart for such a long time. You just missed him a lot. What you feel will fade after awhile. I think if it was love, you would have got together back when you were in school together.
2007-04-17 21:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its love cuz then u wouldn't be asking, but ur the only one that noes exactly who u care about.
2007-04-17 21:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mon Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude its not love.U r just attracted 2 his appearence and personality.Love just happens.
2007-04-17 21:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by JOJO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this other man, you already have a partner..
2007-04-17 21:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isnt material honey,, so ur goin after all ss ute owners ,, my car kills ss ute like **** anyway but
u have to know wat u want short term or long term relation n with whom u wana spend it babe
good luck
2007-04-17 21:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not aatraction towards physique, it s feeling of inner core of heart, which you only can access
2007-04-17 21:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by cool guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a fling
2007-04-17 21:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋