Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

I know someone who is 18 and is about to marred, to someone she's known since she was 14.

2007-03-31 18:01:18 · 38 answers · asked by shalyshiona2 1 in Weddings

I guess I wasn't really clear but we do have children and he did confess to me later that it had been an ongoing thing that had lasted months. He says they both initiated it . Things had been changing in our marriage so much and I didn't understand why. My husband had become so angry and we would argue a lot which caused me to stay out of the house a lot. Also she drank a lot and they would dring together occasionally. This night happened to be on of those drinking nights. After the fact he had explained to me that she had been telling him I was having an affair with an old boyfriend. I don't uderstand why he did not talk to me about it then. She on the other hand doesn't know that he told me about the prolonged relationship between the two of them. She claims she was to drunk to know what she did to make me not talk to her and it bothers me that she wants to continue to hide what they did.

2007-03-31 18:00:14 · 12 answers · asked by just because 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every spring my husband starts acting funny. He goes out and don't come home at night and says "I don't know if I want to be married anymore". We've been married for 4 years and every year I go though this. For the past 2 weekends my husband hasnt been coming home. We got into it the other day and I begged him to tell me whats going on because he kept on telling me that he done something. Finally he told me 2 years ago he had a affair. He wouldnt tell me who or how long. I've been nothing but faithfull with this man. He blames me because I don't cook and keep the house clean all of the time. I do work full time and we have 2 kids. I aggree with him on trying to be a better wife but did I deserve to be cheated on. Iam so hurt. After we had that talk he tried to be nice to me but he acted like nothing was wrong. My kids are starting to notice my pain and I can't but them though that. After I was told this he went out Friday and didn't come home until today, and now he gone again tonite

2007-03-31 17:55:25 · 30 answers · asked by madblackwoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like soul mates and all. I think there is, but I have the worst luck in the world when it comes to dating and guys. Sometimes I feel like I am never going to be with that special someone. I just wish I could find him so we could be together.

2007-03-31 17:54:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out from a "past" (as of about 2 hours ago) that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she said she was sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she didnt end up going to the store she wanted today, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her.

2007-03-31 17:51:31 · 1 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad has diabetes and smokes. Any suggestions on how to ake him stop? If tried to help him, but nothing works. I've hid his ciggs and lighters, but that just makes him angery. he said he tried the patch, but it wasn't for him. I've even had a dream that he died on my birthday, how sad is that? Please Help (and please be serious, I don't need jokes or bad comments right now, I'm sad enough as it is))

2007-03-31 17:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Natalie37 2 in Family

2007-03-31 17:51:05 · 3 answers · asked by linda l 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother left it in an airport bathroom when she was a young girl. She went right back in to get it and it was gone. My mom is now 85 years old and it would be a fantastic thing to find it. If you know of someone who has this little ring. Ask them where they got it. Thanks for your time....

2007-03-31 17:48:47 · 3 answers · asked by christineovich 1 in Family

i hope my answer will also come from girls.i am a very handsome and good looking boy;but fear to talk with girls i will give 100$ to the person who gave the best answer.

2007-03-31 17:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by daniale 1 in Singles & Dating

a child she says that she is unsure about our relationship and about having a child. It is now 12:00 am and we tried to concieve this afternoon at 4:00. I love this girl very much but we have argued alot lately because of the fact that i was unsure about the child deal what is going on. is this a problem that can be solved. Do you think she is frustrated about the fact that I was unsure what can I do? Help Please Thanks

2007-03-31 17:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive liked this guy for a while. what should i say to him? i get so nervous around him! help!

2007-03-31 17:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by miranda r 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 17:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by jamies72292 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering if I have some real issues. I met this awesome guy way back in 4th grade, and we went to the same school until 7th grade. I really liked him. The problem is, I'm a junior in high school and I still like him... It's not that there's a shortage of hot/sweet/smart/funny guys at my school or anything, but none of them really measure up to the standards this guy set. Oh, yeah. And I also haven't seen or talked to him in a little over a year. Am I a wreck?

2007-03-31 17:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by swimmer2 2 in Singles & Dating

What were they?

2007-03-31 17:24:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We'll be out and about having a blast and we catch all sorts of dirty looks from the frumpy people...mostly women.

Are they jealous that I'm with a hot woman. I don't look too shabby myself. So we appear to be a perfect happy couple. Does it irritate women to see other people happy?

2007-03-31 17:21:02 · 14 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend was dating this guy (lets call him josh) and they dated for about 6 months then he broke up with her. during the confussion of whether he liked her anymore or not, him and i, we got super close. after the break up, we were talking nonstop and he considered me his only best friend, and at the time he meant it. but when we started talking more.he started to be more romantic towards me. nd then i fell for him. i didnt want him to know that i liked him at first because i thought that it would ruin the relationship we already had. but then i thought that if he really is my best friend, it wouldnt matter. well...he found out i liked him, and started going around to everyone in school saying that i annoy him and that i ruin his day. and that got me pissed, so i backed off and let him have space. and then about a month later, he came up to me and said that im obsessed with him,&that i need to check into a mental hospital. i cried, and he just laughed and walked away.wt do i do?

2007-03-31 17:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

You like him as much as he likes you. You show him you won't reject him. What more can you do to show you appreciate him and won't reject him when he can't get beyond just all the flirting signals??

2007-03-31 17:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister BF of 4 yrs has just decided that he needed time to reuvaluate himself, he didnt tell her to leave she just packed her suff and went, he know longer communicates with her on the phone he will only text message,i think he is having a nervous break down and dont know it, he told my sister that he still loves her and that he is still in love with her, and he dont have ne 1, but my sister checked his voicemail well when she did she heard some chick on there, but it wasnt nothing i feel so bad cuz he will not speak to her how do you wake up one day and stop talking to the same person u have for the last 4 yrs the lady u was gonna marry and now you are just a stranger he will not verbally speak to her

2007-03-31 17:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by CORONA 3 in Marriage & Divorce

because when i was dating this white girl, I realize that wasn't what I wanted, so I went back to of course "My Beautiful Black Queen", but the white girl that I use to talk to is mad and says that I am a cell out for not wanting to date white women anymore, but I am black myself, so I just don't get it and she tried to get in my girlfriend's face and called her a black *****, but my girlfried kicked her *** and the white girl started crying saying all her life all she ever wanted was a black man because no other man penis qualify

2007-03-31 16:59:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna be mean to this kid.. he's my friend we fool around all the time. but hes just got such good comebacks and i actually want one this time.

2007-03-31 16:51:14 · 5 answers · asked by gina_d 3 in Friends

My cousin moved, and bought a new house, but he kept the first house.
Why is his name the only one on the new house after four years? I am not really interested in asking why it is this way.

2007-03-31 16:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a gf that I care very much about, but at the same time, she's very insecure about her body, she thinks she has small breast. I tell her again and again that, to me, I don't care about her breast size. I guess this is not really a question, but I was wondering if any of you, GUY OR GIRL, can explain to her that to guys, breasts isn't really a big deal. Or help me make her see that I want her for who she is...

2007-03-31 16:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband left about 10 weeks ago has been sleeping with a chick at work and who knows who else so i was thinking he had moved on thats what he wanted he left. in the past 2 weeks i have been getting text msg from him just stupid questions he already knows the answer for or just starting an arugment. My daughters birthday was last week and i let him have her for the whole day and he brought her to dinner through out dinner he was looking at me then we all went our seperate ways his family and mine i get home within 20min of saying goodbye he text me that he is happy i found someone new by the way there is no one new my friend thinks its because i have been working out and am happy without him that he thinks i need someone to make me happy. My question is if he has moved on and does not want me like he keeps telling me Why keep msg me and wanting to know what i am doing we have 3 kids together but he never rings them and when he text it is never anything to do with them

2007-03-31 16:47:42 · 16 answers · asked by feelingstupid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 16:45:43 · 12 answers · asked by xoxomiaxoxo 2 in Weddings

2007-03-31 16:43:47 · 3 answers · asked by Trey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother in law loves to be the center of the attn, all she talks about is how everybody envies her and that she feels bad about it, when we go to see her my husband forgets that I am there, I look like a babysitter whenever we are around her, he only pays attn to her he wouldn't even look at me when there is any conversation, they talk about her and people they only know, I don't know how 2 handle it, I want my 2 boys to enjoy ther G-ma but at the same time, but with my boys if they do something wrong she gets mean to them, even when I am around, I feel so left out and that I don't fit in, I already talked to my husband, he doesn't get it, I just want to have a good time when we are together, what should I do?

2007-03-31 16:40:39 · 11 answers · asked by Leci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has any other newlyweds or long term married couples noticed that it is hard and totally diff to be married. i have been married for seven months and it isnt like when we were just boyfriend/girlfriend. i thought it wasnt true when people said that everything changes when you get married but im starting to believe its true? what do you think and any advice, we fight like cats and dogs lol

2007-03-31 16:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by neli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 16:38:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 16:37:31 · 2 answers · asked by rbd_fan878 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious.

2007-03-31 16:37:29 · 25 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Marriage & Divorce