Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

He is at the computer most of the day and his private life is a mystery to me. I do not know his friends, but he knows mine.

2007-03-28 23:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by sweet_sunshine 2 in Family

2007-03-28 23:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by Nasmi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is often irritable, angry, negative attitude, sleep pattern all messed up, etc.. Although some of this is due to him losing his job recently, he's had a rough life in general and these issues are a recurring pattern of how he deals with life. I usually stay away from "negative" people, but I care very much about him and feel it would make matters worse if I leave him now.

2007-03-28 23:40:54 · 5 answers · asked by maggie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 23:40:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Samuel, Samantha, Sammy, or anything similar, male or female.
Just curious, thats all

2007-03-28 23:32:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a big problem regarding my brother in law who committed a crime... rape..my mother in law wants us to participate...to brive the family of the victim so they wont file the case.i dont whant my family to get involved.i dont want to get my hands dirty about it.I even quarrel to my mother in law..but my husband didnt want his brother to be in jail,instead he's blaming me for being cruel to her mother..

2007-03-28 22:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by amygdala 1 in Family

of various ethnicities to have an enormous posterior and or thunder-thighs?
IS it diet or genetics or both?
And what possible evolutionary function could it have?

2007-03-28 22:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought he was just talking s--t. That wasn't the case cause after our talk i checked the net? I still can't stop thinking about it though. I hate to admit it but he might have the upper hand in this one. I never had my Dad around when I was growing up and still don't know him or where he might be. I'm 24 and ever since I can remember my Mom always told jokes about how I was a mistake (dont even get the wrong idea my Mom is the MOST WONDERFUL WOMAN I'VE BEEN LUCKY TO CALL HER MOM!!!!!!!!!) That kind of humor is nomal for my family even now. (we're a bunck of s**t talkers!!) I never really though about it but now that i think back on my pst relationships I would do ANYTHING to make them happy or please them in any way. And I mean ANYTHING!! Live in my car, stop all conactwith all family take all kinds of abuse and there was never a andswer. See I've never been the type to let ANYONE mess with me or abuse me in any way why with them? Now I may have an andswer.

2007-03-28 22:34:19 · 1 answers · asked by lolliep1982 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really need your help because i really fell in love with a person named andro whom i really like but unfortunately he doesnt know . i want my best friends to believe me , they are telling me that i dont know him well(whether he is bad or good ) so what do you think i should do ? i rlly want him 2 know. but i am from the type who doesnt begin a relation ship with a boy

2007-03-28 22:28:51 · 6 answers · asked by Just me 4 in Singles & Dating

ders dis guy....i noe ...we wernt in such gud terms b4...but den we turned out to b frds(not such gud frds though)but nowadays...thins hav been goin all rong...ppl r cumin n telin me tat he hates me to the core!!!i hav no idea wat i did...i sent him many instant mesages n all but he neva rplys to dem....n if i cal him he disconnects or tells me tat hes busy...i hav no idea watz goin on ...all i noe is that now he considers me as an enemy....n i don want tat to hapen....i don wana send him sum more instant messages either cuz i don wana make it seem like im desperate....i hav no idea wat to do...i jus wan us to b frds....n dis time gud frds...ntn more or less dan tat

2007-03-28 22:17:59 · 8 answers · asked by dj 2 in Singles & Dating

the girl I have been seeing for a while is getting married well her boyfriend just proposed to her and she said yes, the only said part is she told me she said yes after we got through having sex. I know i'm wrong for sleeping with a girl that is taken but I should tell him shes cheating right, now since he wants to spend the rest of his life with her.

2007-03-28 22:15:34 · 18 answers · asked by Rodney, j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Trying to locate an old friend in another State but have no address.

2007-03-28 22:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by salty 1 in Friends

when my brother and sister in law have a financial problem my mother in law always asking us to solve their difficulty even they already have their own family.which cause my own family to suffer.this is a serious problem that may break our marriage.

2007-03-28 22:10:53 · 9 answers · asked by amygdala 1 in Family

How do you tell when you are at that point and what is the solution? How would you face the idea of never having love or a lover for the rest of your days? Could you cope? Would your life be worth living ??

2007-03-28 22:10:03 · 26 answers · asked by dorcas_3210 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 21:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 21:43:22 · 25 answers · asked by eve 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 21:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by ```MAE``` 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is 23 and his girl is 25, they have been going out for 5 yrs.
The problem is that my brother has a very good job with a great income and works dam hard for his money.....the girl however has never had a job since they met and spends her days shopping and buying crap that she doesn't need with his money. She is lazy and doesn't even clean up or cook for him whilst he is at work.
'She' has now decided that they are getting married and is intent on booking a 'castle' for the venue and all the trimmings! Although my brother has a good income but to the nature of his career it could end at any time and they would be broke, but she doesn't seem to think of this and is not happy unless she is in town shopping or jetting off on holiday!
My mum and my other 3 brothers all feel the same about her and think he is making a big mistake as she will be entitled to half of everything he has (houses etc). He just seems to beswept along by her demands.

Do we voice our concerns??

2007-03-28 21:34:39 · 31 answers · asked by EMA 5 in Weddings

They all know girls hate it
They are all photoshopped and edited
Thay wouldn't want us to be oogleing naked guys?
why do they?
It's just sick...especially if you have a girlfriend, it is so disrespectful! you should be happy with what you've got.

Don't tell me it is not impossible my BF has no porn, and i know that for a fact!

2007-03-28 21:33:03 · 22 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Singles & Dating

Met a guy 2-3 years ago we were seein each other for 8 months, we gelled right from the start, but he wasn't 100% in the frame of mind 4 any commitments, typical commitment phobic & a person who loves freedom. He messed me about in the process with broken promises, 1 minute saying that I am going be future woman etc but it didn't seem to happen. Durin the time we were so close he was even calling me 24/7 from the UK to the US sayin we are goin to b together when i return & that we were going to plan a holiday home as we both hav family in Florida US! Then he would change his mind again about a commitment. Obviously this hurt as I kept thinking that there was hope! I wasn't happy as he was being very self-centred durin the time we were seein each other as he wasnt in the frame of mind. He decided that would should be friends 4 now as it wasn't fair to me. So I gave him 1 last chance to ask him if he was 100% sure Im goin to start seein some1 else & that there was no going back.

2007-03-28 21:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex broke up with me because she felt bored to me. I know she still has feelings for me but doesn't want to give me a second chance. I'm a really shy guy and I want to change not just for her but for me. How do I convince her to give me a second chance?

2007-03-28 21:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by wish I knew 1 in Singles & Dating

me n my ex broke up ten months ago.after 4 year relationship...he called me back after finding out im not well.. 3 months ago...he doesnt call me often but occasionally chat online but he seems to use nice words to me...told me that he will come to see me...but when i ask him again he goes i dunno....i duuno what game he is playing with me..i reallly really love him alot...n the pain is not healing although its been 10 months...i cry everyday...n i dont know who to talk too...my friends are all to busy and i dunt want to bother anyone...i really duuno what to do....wht does he want

2007-03-28 21:16:18 · 18 answers · asked by Pain and Agony 1 in Singles & Dating

I went back to my hometown. Met this guy and we liked each other a lot. he was sexy, cute and hot. we were so crazy about each other. We spent one night together, we kissed, hugged and got naked. But we didn't have sex. only fingering.
I'm 25 and he's 30.

After that we started fliting like crazy.

Then I left.. also left him my no.
We kept in touch and did text a lot.

He said he missed me, liked me a lot and that he had feelings for me.

Note: We are both taken! (I know this is so wrong.. but this isn't the question!)

Last saturday we texting and here it went:
Him: I miss you hun, I really do. all I say is true. I've been thinking about you a lot
Me: Yeah.. me too. I wanna hug you but I can't reach ya...
Him: Hun, I don't know why I like you so much.. I can't believe once again I'd be in love with someone else
Me: I'm really upset that I can't see you right now. It's killing me. Should I quit?

2007-03-28 21:12:39 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok..my brother is a 33 year old who still lives here at home..i dont like him because my mother still spoils him (why i dont know) but it makes me mad cuz i am the one ignored..but anyways..a few months ago he asked me to move where i was sitting because he wanted to sit in that room to watch tv..i said "umm no im sitting here..working" (i do my Avon invoices and work etc on my laptop and paperwork..) He said just ok. And then today he did it again..said can i move to the living room cuz he wants to sit here..i said no again..i said "im working here.." and he said ok. But i feel bad :( like if im being a bitc* I never ask anyone to move where their sitting..but i think the tv in his room wasn't working this time also..i dont know,should i feel bad,would you?

2007-03-28 21:10:14 · 11 answers · asked by yahooaddict 4 in Family

My husband keeps telling me my face is too chubby,
no matter how hard I diet, I can't seem to make
my face look smaller or thinner,
it's getting me down because he always draws attention to it,
I am not overweight but feel ugly.
how do I deal with this?

2007-03-28 21:06:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy in person on the 24th of february and things went great with us. Then on March 11 he basically asked me to be his girlfriend. He lives over an hour away from me and he works everyday. We talk online every night when we are both on and I have to use the computer for a certain reason. I like this guy a lot and he likes me too, he told me that he hoped I would not screw him over and I said I hope he doesnt to me either. I know I won't because I am not like that. The thing is I am kind of shy around him and he knows I like him a lot. I was just wondering what kind of things I could do to let him know how much I like him and let him know I will not hurt him. He told me he does trust me and I trust him too. When we first met we held hands and cuddled but we have not kissed yet cuz I am scared to make the first move. So can someone tell me what I could do to let him know how much I like him and let him know I wont hurt him?
I know I am not in love just have strong feelings 4 him

2007-03-28 20:59:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 20:58:27 · 15 answers · asked by Aisha_Cho 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 20:56:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a 4 yr relationship with an individual I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, unfortunately, I decided to end the relationship because of alot of insensitivity on his part. now I maintain throughout our relationship, a close knit relationship with the father of my son, due to the fact that I relied heavily on him for childcare and babysitting, my lover and I decided to keep our relationship under wraps until he decided he couldn't take it anymore and decided I needed to make a choice....
now although my choice wasn't obvious to the naked eye, i chose him because i saw in him what I wanted to be with in the future. now as my lover began school, he no longer paid that much attention to me and wasn't calling or even calling on my birthday anymore, and I found out he has a female from school talking very provocatively on his myspace page, and when i confront him( after some sneaky investigating on my own) he called me "stupid" and childish.(even though the way i did it was wron

2007-03-28 20:51:16 · 7 answers · asked by mizzbee1975 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-28 20:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by Zvaechka 3 in Singles & Dating