Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

2007-03-28 20:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by sue j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and my husband have been together for about three years.Although he is sexually active,i am a virgin he has waited until i am ready and we are married.Well i am ready but the problem is he is really big(10inches long,about 3inches thick)seriously!what do i do?i know its going to hurt like hell.how can i prevent for hurting too much?i am not making this up or anything i really need help,i am scared.we just got married four months ago and i know he wants to have sex.please help!i dont want him to leave me.

2007-03-28 20:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by ohkkkkkkk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it takes two to tango,
but it's not ALWAYS both parts fault if a relationship doesn't work out.

Why is it that some women and men tend to put all the blame on the other partner,for the reason wy they didn't work out?

What's wrong about being grown and the bigger person and just take the blame if you know YOU were the one who messed up?

What do you call this kinda situation?
Manipulation,Ego,Reversed-Pshycalogy?

2007-03-28 20:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to make a surprise visit to my bf in other country but I still married to somebody but separated already bec, we don't have divorce here. Don't know what I should do. I still have plan to return to my origin.

2007-03-28 20:42:48 · 4 answers · asked by pretty me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a difference between being unhappy and falling out of love. I think that if you fall out of love then those feelings can't be changed, but if you feel unhappy with something in the relationship then there is always a possibility in working things out if you want it to work. What do you think?

2007-03-28 20:40:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this guy in his late 40's through my older cousin who was freinds w/his wife. he seemed like a funny guy and all and i saw him a lot at my cousin's kid's birthday parties. well then it got weird. once i was was bending over the table to clean up a spill that one of the kids made, and he hit my butt, then later he held up his hand for a high five and i gave him one and he wouldn't let go of my hand. then when i went to leave he held my face in his hand and looked at me really really weird. for some reason i just couldn't say anything at the time of all this stuff. i didn't know if he was just bein friendly...a weird friendly. also he gave me a ride home and he put his hand on my knee. i couldn't even breathe..it was so awkward..i have been messed w/bad by a different older guy in the past and i didn't know if i was just making a big deal out of nothing because of that. oh...and i am like only 16.

2007-03-28 20:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anastasi 2 in Singles & Dating

My Mother in law is driving me crazy at present,
she says I don't iron her son's clothes well enough and he is looking too thin,
She makes comments like, "Don't you feed him good meals, etc".
She used to be fairly tolerable but seems to pick on me more now since I started working
What is the best way of dealing with this or her,
thanks!

2007-03-28 20:17:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

+TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING+..use your own judgement, If you feel that something itsn't right.. it maybe awkwardness or something trying to tell you otherwise.. never doubt yourself.
You can never be too suspicious about something, it's better to be safe, than to be sorry =) If it ends in heartbreak.. it's a blessing in disguise just not discovered yet. When your at your lowest, you'll know exactly who your true friend's are and who's fake. You'll know who's who when you need them the most.
You'd be surprized at just how much you can handle when your put to the test..don't give up, and hold on.. not for anyone else.. but yourself =)

2007-03-28 20:16:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was nine months pregnant at the time. He left me for her. The baby's now three months old and we have a toddler together, also. I'm really torn between holding my family together and wondering if I can ever trust him, again. He's struggled with mental illness in the past, but this is extra bad. I still love him, but he's been running around with this girl for months. She's still in the picture, but now he wants to leave her for me. Now what?

2007-03-28 20:15:08 · 18 answers · asked by Habanera 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on him once he cheated on me the worse thing is ended up liking another girl bla bla....... the thing is that i dont know if i should take him back .... because i am scared he migh end up liking another girls and he is the type of guy that gets along with girs and i am just .... dont know he says he wont so the same misstake but i just dont know if its right of me......i love being with him we have been to gether since we were 15 now we are 19

2007-03-28 19:59:33 · 4 answers · asked by dimps 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously, I don't get this. Why bother getting a ring, or getting engaged, or proposing, then b*tch about settling down? Can't you just play the field without leading girls on about some fake future that you know you don't want anyway?

2007-03-28 19:59:09 · 9 answers · asked by mithril 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy.. and i think he does like me too.. but, when my friends ask him to ask me out, he says tht he's not ready for a relationship yet... and he ask his friends not to tell me.. tht he's not ready yet.. what does this mean? Why cant he just go straight to the point and say it to my face? and behind those words, is he trying to say, "get da hint! i dont like you!" ?

2007-03-28 19:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 19:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by Adios 7 in Weddings

Our first anniversary is coming up next month any ideas? I know no one knows him as well as I do. He's pretty sentimental. We live in CA and unfortunately I only have about 200-300$ Any ideas. Please....

2007-03-28 19:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by melindah83 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is a very pathetic topic. But I'll go for it anyway. I'm an introvert, always have been, always will be. I'm not really shy or anything but just quiet. Now whenever I have a girlfriend there's somebody who doesn't have respect for one of us, or our relationship. I try to ignore most situations like today I was hugging her while we were in burger king and she told me some guy was trying to talk to her from the drive up window. That pissed me off badly because I'm standing right there with her. so I look over the counter and stare at the guy directly in the eyes and he decides to look away. Then there are some people that just get rude with her at her job. Sometimes I don't notice because she knows a lot of people and I think that at times they are just playing, but then theres times I get mad anyway, but end up not saying anything because I was distracted, then I get mad at myself. Does anybody have any advice on how to read the situations and what I should say/do in them?

2007-03-28 19:45:47 · 1 answers · asked by ME2010 3 in Singles & Dating

to her or just because you want to get to know her?

2007-03-28 19:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by PunkRose 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 19:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and a gorgeous female coworker began flirting a few months ago. We have kissed a few times and enjoy being together because we can talk about anything. The problem is we are both married. Neither of us have ever done anything like this and are wondering what we should do. We know what we should do and we tell each other that, but when we are together it seems all that goes away and we end up flirting and kissing again. Anyone got a suggestion to help?

2007-03-28 19:41:35 · 21 answers · asked by E W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was not ment to be loved. A young lady has come in to my life.She has showen me that she cers for me She has renewed my hope for love.I now have a new gole in life.To fined someone in my age grupe that can love me. Do you think I have a chance?

2007-03-28 19:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need some advice!!! Pertaining to child custody?
Here is the situation in a nutshell...my brother has custody of his children right now because his ex-wife beat them with a belt and left many bruises all over their little bodies. The abuse was reported CPS took the children their father went down and picked them up and filed for custody. The mother was arrested but the DA dropped the charges and she got off with child parenting classes!!UNBELIEVEABLE!!! During this time she has had supervised visits.
She is now in the process of filing for sole custody. What can we do to make sure she doesn't get them back or at least not as the custodial parent. She also has a another child who was taken away and put into foster care. The father of that child could not get custody because he lived with her while the abuse had taken place and didn't report it. I believe she has the 3rd child back now.
We can't afford a lawyer nor can she. Help!!

2007-03-28 19:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by glove 2 in Family

Just curious, not me looking to offer a friend some advice.

2007-03-28 19:35:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 19:25:59 · 15 answers · asked by DREW T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think i was out of line?
I am very adamant about not having alcohol around my children...i really just despise the stuff and don't want it around them, especially at a young age and in a family setting.
Well last weekend i was with my MIL at her house. She doesn't drink, but her bf does and he was drinking some beer with dinner. He isn't a raging alcoholic by any means, just likes to have a couple of beers or glasses of wine at night to relax. The next day, i talked to her about it and just requested that when me and my DH bring our children around that we would appreciate it if he doesn't drink, especially in a family setting....It was a polite request and suggestion that he just didn't drink around them...was that out of line? Please no smart remarks-just want honest opinions, maybe from those of you who don't drink or may be in a similiar situation?

2007-03-28 19:18:42 · 21 answers · asked by stellniel 2 in Family

People are such wimps when it comes to change, they buy a house, and sit in the same damn place until there old and gray never experiencing life at all, such a shame.
People always let either family, a job, or something else hold them back. I think change actually makes a person better, they become more evolved. What do you all think?

2007-03-28 19:08:51 · 3 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm intellectualy inclined, like electronics, know everything about computers, kinda shy, dancing is not really appealing, but i like slow dancing. i like the nice, innocent type and kinda avoid the fast slutty ones, but maybe i should change?

2007-03-28 19:04:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every since Ive been gone to visit my mom this week out of town...hes been on myspace and hi5 everyday...when i was at home he was never on there...he would go like months without checking it. I noticed the minute i left he updated his hi5...he doesnt know im on there...in the about me section he put words like "sexual" and "rebel"...he added a bunch of new friends, mostly from his hometown in mexico. On myspace...he asked out a girl on a date a couple of weeks ago...we already talked about it...we were fighting at the time and he didnt meet up with her...i noticed that he had copied and filled out two of her surveys and then posted a bulletin with the subject E- (the girls name is Elizabeth)...and it read 'I have no clue how to contact you and myspace is not helping...' He called me today and joked around and said "I know you are dying to know what im doing while you are gone"..he kept saying that...i said "not really"

2007-03-28 19:04:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes never cheated on me or anything she just lives over an hour away and goes to a different school....and i catch her in little lies (not anything big or meaningful) every now and then. even though they are little lies it is so much worse when she lives far away.......i try to trust her but i have somewhat of an issue with that myself......what should i do? am i being controlling?

2007-03-28 19:03:46 · 13 answers · asked by thedsmguru 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what's better ...being miserable alone or miserable with a mate ?

2007-03-28 19:03:42 · 6 answers · asked by brother_nature_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 19:03:16 · 15 answers · asked by sunny 1 in Singles & Dating

i love for my husband to pull my hair and talk nasty to me its such a turnon how bout u

2007-03-28 19:03:09 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends