Well me and my husband have been together for about three years.Although he is sexually active,i am a virgin he has waited until i am ready and we are married.Well i am ready but the problem is he is really big(10inches long,about 3inches thick)seriously!what do i do?i know its going to hurt like hell.how can i prevent for hurting too much?i am not making this up or anything i really need help,i am scared.we just got married four months ago and i know he wants to have sex.please help!i dont want him to leave me.
2007-03-28 20:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by ohkkkkkkk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As others have said no matter his size (unless its the size of a pinkie I would imagine) it will hurt your first time. What a guy you have to wait 4 months after marriage to wait for sex.
Anyhow, it will hurt the first time. But each time after that it gets easier and less painful. Plus you will adjust down there when you do have sex to adapt to his size.
Just make the night romantic, some wine (if y'all are legal to buy it), candles, hot bath before and tell him to be gentle with you the first time.
2007-03-28 21:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to hurt the first time no matter if he is only 2 inches. If he loves you tell him to get alot of lube and go slow maybe only go half way in the first time then a little more the next until your body stretches enough to accommodate him. If hes waited this long a little longer want hurt and there are always other ways to keep him happy until you can be happy to.
2007-03-29 03:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by turtle69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what u guys do....it will probably hurt you for first few times.
i would 'do it' side ways for few minutes.....so the penis would be going in side ways which should be much better for you then taking in 3 inches.
use lube
its hard to explain how to have sex but it will help you to be more vocal and tell him whats going on. if he pushes all the way in with one push then you will probably die. the technique is to have small gentle strokes and go in little at a time.
most importantly you have to be in the mood. he has to make you 'happy' first so that u are naturally lubed and wont feel like you are getting rapped.
2007-03-29 04:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can apply more KY lubricant during your intimate time. Just gradually adapt to it. Size is not the issue here. Don't feel bad about your hubby. In fact, some women they complaint about their hubby having short penis. You should be proud of him.
2007-03-29 04:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he doesn't have to put it all the way in if it will be too uncomfortable for you. Just go ahead and try to relax and give it a try.
2007-03-29 05:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your clothes off go in there and just suck it up. You are gonna hafta take one for your team. Tell him he is really big and to be gentle. If all else fails grab his testicles and tell him you wont hurt him if he doesn't hurt you, while giving them a squeeze.
2007-03-29 04:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should seek the help from a Gynaecologist. He can advise you more.
2007-03-29 04:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really a BIG PROBLEM.
Pl. consult a sexologist.
2007-03-29 04:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋