2007-03-28 19:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do nothing...give subtle hints, but thats it!!! Older guys are always being chased by women older than them, or girls younger than they are, and this only blows more hot air into their domes. If hes into you, he will let you know. Dont add to his ego and go out of your way to show him!!!By all means flirt, but keep it at a minimum! Dont over do it and embarass yourself.
As far as Im concerned, he needs to come at you! You are a young lady, and young ladys almost never chase after guys! Guys chase you! Thats just how I see it!
2007-03-28 19:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra~Helios 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on which country you're living in and on your age.
Usually when someone says the guy is "much older" that means the girl is under age. Here in the US there are laws against an under aged girl getting mixed up with a "much older" guy.
You didn't say how much older he is. In younger years it's more difficult for a couple where there is a large gap in ages, more than it is if you were older together. If the guy is a lot older then he will take advantage of you, will know more ways to trick you. I suggest that you find someone your own age or a year or two older. Trying to get this guy's attention would only mean trouble for you.
2007-03-29 02:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that all depends on how much older the guy is than you. Within a 5 yr spam isnt bad but if hes any older than that NO. if you rele wana get his attention id say cliche just be yourself, why would u do nuthin but that and if doesnt like have feelins for u back then hes not in it for romance.
2007-03-29 02:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what he's like. Don't just be like, "yep i like him now", talk about it, see if you two could ever have a relationship because trust me, too much space isn't good, and sometimes, when you partner is older than you, they have other friends, other thngs to do.
What ever you do don't do anything sexual to prove ANYTHING.
If he wants that then he's a jerk.
2007-03-29 02:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he married. If in the affirmative, forget it. Alternatively, try to briend him and subsequently reveal about your feelings for him.
2007-03-29 02:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been my experience that it is easier to attract someone older than younger. they like the direct approach. just tell him you are interested.
2007-03-29 02:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kindness is the most attractive thing to me.
2007-03-29 02:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What always works for me is eye contact
2007-03-29 02:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, because he only wants one thing from you. And it's now your mind.
2007-03-29 02:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by hollister girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and try and hang out with him.
2007-03-29 02:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋