i met this guy in his late 40's through my older cousin who was freinds w/his wife. he seemed like a funny guy and all and i saw him a lot at my cousin's kid's birthday parties. well then it got weird. once i was was bending over the table to clean up a spill that one of the kids made, and he hit my butt, then later he held up his hand for a high five and i gave him one and he wouldn't let go of my hand. then when i went to leave he held my face in his hand and looked at me really really weird. for some reason i just couldn't say anything at the time of all this stuff. i didn't know if he was just bein friendly...a weird friendly. also he gave me a ride home and he put his hand on my knee. i couldn't even breathe..it was so awkward..i have been messed w/bad by a different older guy in the past and i didn't know if i was just making a big deal out of nothing because of that. oh...and i am like only 16.
2007-03-28 20:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anastasi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have absolutely no idea why a man in his late 40s would put his hand on the knee of a 16 year old girl when he was driving her home unless he is trying to do something inappropriate. I'm a guy in my early 30s and I would NEVER touch a young girl like that. The other behavior is odd but the whole knee thing is way too overt.
I'm sorry but it seems like he is trying to do something inappropriate. You don't have to put up with that. Talk to you parents, a teacher or some other adult. You need help to deal with this. You do NOT have to put up with this kind of treatment. It's totally wrong and he needs to stop right away. Good luck.
2007-03-28 20:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy's up to no good. He has no business touching any woman the way he touched you. Let alone a 16 year old. and the fact that he's allowed around kids just scares me to death. Tell your parents and your cousins so they can get this creep out of everyone's life before something worse happens. Fast.
2007-03-31 15:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting, he sounds like a perv. You need to stay away from this man. You are really young and he should know better than to grab your knee or hit your butt. That is gross! You better stay away from him. You might want to tell your cousin how awkward he makes you feel and that you won't come to gatherings where he is invited.
2007-03-28 20:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by yomama23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Report him to your parent's and tell your cousin - He has no right to touch you anywhere period . If he is doing that to you then you can bet he's doing it to others - Stay far away from him he's sick
2007-03-28 20:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run!
2007-03-28 20:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2007-03-28 20:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you! and also flirting with you sorta... :D
2007-03-28 20:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by pokhym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋