Family & Relationships - 24 March 2007

I know my bf's voicemail password (he doesn't know that i know it)...and so i check it from time to time...tonight he said he was staying home, but i went into his voicemail around like 1:00am, and there was a message from his friend saying "hey man, there is a big line up here too, let me know when you guys leave the bar to come here" ... obviously he went out....so i went crazy and i started calling him and he never picked up, and when he picked up at like 2:30am, he said he was playing poker with his roommates......Liar?? I really care about him I LOVE HIM, and i know he loves me too, and this sh** is really bad....what do i do...

2007-03-24 23:59:31 · 12 answers · asked by prettybella 2 in Singles & Dating

i have know this guy since three years ago and we are those hi, bye friends...we have participated in countless activities, together and he always stares at me...like eye contact...even across a long hall.
but he has never intiated a conversation. i dont know whats wrong with him but...he have always only maintain eye contact and when i realised the contact, he will turn away.
so, what to do..and what does he mean by his eye contacts???!!!??

2007-03-24 23:59:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should women(both married and unmarried) who call themselves as "mentally matured" and commit adultery be forgiven?Even if their spouses are loving and sincere,should their justification of their sexual act by saying "you are immatured" be accepted??

2007-03-24 23:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by aaryra 2 in Singles & Dating

should women(both married and unmarried) who call themselves as "mentally matured" and commit adultery be forgiven?Even if their spouses are loving and sincere,should their justification of their sexual act by saying "you are immatured" be accepted??

2007-03-24 23:58:01 · 7 answers · asked by aaryra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy I have known for almost 1 1/2 yrs. He was the first person I met when I moved here. In the beginning he had told me that he still had feelings for his ex-gf. Which I was fine with since we were only friends. Well after a little while it turned into a little more and sometimes I would spend the night. After 5 months he had told me that he and the ex had started talking and were gonna try to work things out. He was honest from the beginning so I knew I couldn't be mad. I was hurt though, because I got attached. I decided to just wish him the best of luck and I would move on. We talked a few times after that and he told they moved in together and got married. It didn't last and he moved out. Well we started talking again about a month ago. I saw him last night and I realized that I still had feelings for him. I asked if they might try working things out again. He said I had nothing to worry about. Would it be crazy to think there might still be a chancefor me and him??

2007-03-24 23:57:58 · 5 answers · asked by BLAHBLAHBLAH 2 in Singles & Dating

any age , single divorced, with kids, frindship, marraige, fun

2007-03-24 23:57:52 · 4 answers · asked by gary x 1 in Singles & Dating

what can u do with a bad tempered, moaning and shouting husband. when he gets it wrong its no bother and no one makes a fuss. when anyone else gets it wrong their is a hurl of abuse and the house collapses. the end of the world as we know it. does my head in and stress me out no end. is there any getting through to a numb nut like this.

2007-03-24 23:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by julie z 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married to this woman for 15 years now, but i believe she don't understand me not to talk of satisfying my needs when necessary. Even though i love her very much and i am not thinking of having a divorce.

2007-03-24 23:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by john izu apologised sincerely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they wont go to dinner in luxrious hotel neither any trip outside the station nor any photo album kind of stuff.suggest something unique

2007-03-24 23:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We dated for three weeks and she said she justs wants to be friends. She says that she really wants me around (she says she loves hanging out with me) and would feel bad if I cut her out of my life...I got drunk the other night and told her I love her. But she didn't cut me out, she still wants to be friends. What do I do?

2007-03-24 23:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by siyafrica 1 in Singles & Dating

I compare her to every other girl I meet since her. Am I still in love wit her or is this just normal?

2007-03-24 23:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is so cute, nice and funny....He asked me out on a date before, and I just blushed, but didn't answer cause I have a bf.

I know I'm going to run into him soon, and he might ask me out again.

So how do you tell someone you like that you're in a relationship?

2007-03-24 23:47:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is hard to shop for, or at least hard for me. She loves dogs (but we have enough!) and flowers (buy them all the time). Please help!, her birthday is coming up.

2007-03-24 23:46:03 · 16 answers · asked by Shucky Beans 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have had good singing lessons for many weeks now and have started to get good does it in any way attract girls

2007-03-24 23:45:54 · 5 answers · asked by benny 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-24 23:45:38 · 15 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In india we have this thing called as 'arranged marriage". You meet a girl for 10 minutes and then decide to marry her. BUt today girls are really characterless. But they all want to marry a nice homely guy having a job in teh USA!!!This is really dangerous from the guy's point of view.How can I find out if the girl has had affairs before because if i ask directly they never tell teh truth

2007-03-24 23:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

down there.....? be realistic.no hair looks childish right, but too much isnt nice either?thanks.

2007-03-24 23:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by ruthyruthyruthy19 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in Mo and my ex-husband lives in KS. He is frequently late in his child support payments and so I began having his wages garnished. Every year he quits his job in Oct. and finds a new one in Feb. Well, this year (I hear) that he's found one that pays him cash. I've called SRS in KS (NO HELP) and DFS in MO (Helping but slowwwwly). He has a warrant out for his arrest in MO for failure to appear on a warrant issued on the last time he stopped paying child support. It's been 5 1/2 months since we've got a dime and we are HURTING for money. At what point does failure to pay child support become a felony? He is supposed to pay $250 a month plus $50 back child support for all the months he's missed. He is also supposed to provide our son with insurance and doesn't do so. I hear that if MO will extradite him then he will be under a judge's order to pay back ALL the money he owes and will have to provide insurance..... is this true and if so, WHEN will this happen and how can I help?

2007-03-24 23:42:24 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and 3 of my friends were out one night, and we acually became blood brothers to show how much we meant to each other. Kinda lame... yeah whatever. But then we did something really stupid and went over to the neighbors and busted out a couple windows in this car which we thought was junk and abandoned and one of my buddys (luke) busted out the first window and we followed. So his parents came and got us because they heard what was going on, and snagged us from the scene quick. So the parents confronted us about it and asked us what happpen, and we were all truthful except for my friend luke, which happens to be my friend for 6 years and pushed the blame all on us. (btw it was his parents) We are mad that he wasnt truthful and also hurt because he pushed the blame on us... and im baffled and very fustrated and I'm really confused on how I should aprouch this situation. If you have been through friends not being honest, how did you deal with it?

2007-03-24 23:38:54 · 11 answers · asked by Royce 3 in Friends

> The laundry
> play in Q & A
> The dishes
> play in Q & A
> run the vacuum cleaner
> play in Q & A
> run errands
> play in Q & A
> vix vy lunch
> bring in the paper
> Play in Q and A
> Answer The Phone
> play in Q & A
> take out the trash
> go to "the grocery store"
> get suspended by the UN
> for fighting at schoo;l

> answer a question

2007-03-24 23:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-24 23:36:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Besides Lavalife, are there any other huge dating web sites which work on the user spending "credits" and not on a monthly subscription?

2007-03-24 23:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone. This story is about a friend of mine. Tell me what you know so I can help her.

She's a disabled young her down the block. She has been having a hard time living a normal life. She recently got qualified for SSI and is receiving her montlhy SSI paycheck. Unfortunately, her paycheck is very low. She is also qualified for medicaid... The problem is that her paycheck is small. All of her friends work more than $2,000 monthly, while she ( the disabled girl) gets something like $300 or $400. I am not quite sure... She has her phone bill, which I think is $60 per month. She lives with her parents and does not pay rent. But she has needs. I don't know who would be happy with $400 a month. I personally work over $6,000 a month. I would like to know if she can get more help. Plus, she wants to date but is unable to. Is there a program she could join to increase her chances to find someone to love? Can she get more help financially? Thank you for reading.

2007-03-24 23:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Dell XPS 5 in Family

2007-03-24 23:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by moho_suhail 1 in Singles & Dating

How long does that last, anyway?

2007-03-24 23:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my now exboyfriend have been together for 2yrs. and i broke up with him which is long overdue. i love him but there's so much that i can't deal with. i want to get over him but he keeps making me feel bad, what can i do?

2007-03-24 23:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by goodnight_melody 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm thirty five and looking for a girlfriend. Do women my age want a boyfriend and dating companion or a husband?

2007-03-24 23:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

how do i get a girl to like me, and how do you know if girls like you?

2007-03-24 23:30:27 · 1 answers · asked by ....... 3 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in August and my future farther in law is really peeing me off.

He has never been involved in raising my future wife, he paid a tiny maintenance and never contributed toward any of her university fees. Really the girl had nothing from him ever, even tho he has 3 step sons that he lives with and has brought up as his own.


When we told him we were to be married he was (uncharacteristically) happy and offered to pay.

We said that he did not need to pay for the entire event, but it would be helpfully if he made a contribution to cover his familys attendance and maybe some money towards our honeymoon.

He was really pleased to do this until - Penny drops - he found out that he was not giving away the bride or giving a speach!


Now he doesnt even want to attend the event and gives any excuse not to go; like; dogs might need walking; dont like leaving town; new wife doesnt want to go; etc.

should I have him shot? or send dog poo through his letter box

2007-03-24 23:29:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my situation: living with ex because i have no where else to go. no car. just started a job so no money yet. it is getting worse as the days go by he gets meaner and meaner we dont talk hardly anymore and when we do we fight. i hoped that we could end this nicely and be friends because we do have a child together but it just keeps getting increasingly stressful. Does anyone have advice on how to make this situation either less stressful and less hurtful than it is?? please all advice appreciated!!!!!!

2007-03-24 23:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by fifi 1 in Singles & Dating